brokeee uppp .

just get over your ex and make sure when they come back to you
just tell them to f*ck off

best way to get over it, is to accept the fact tht u have broke up, and stop blaming ur "ex" and think about ur own "weakness"! most of the time, people will always say it's the other party fault!

As usual get over it soon

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Added on September 14, 2011, 6:41 pmAgree with you ace, not only relationship , but human like to blame others in every aspect ,this is the fact, even myself sometimes does



This post has been edited by stanleypua: Sep 14 2011, 06:42 PM

Broke up >_>

I knew I made silly mistake, but I really love my partner.
but it seems that she wants to isolate herself from me.
maybe forever. maybe i might be in this group.

It has been more than a year since i posted up my broken up relationship problem here. Someone i used to love most and spent my 5 years+ together with. funny enough i didn't even know i had been betrayed when i broke up. Glad that HE is getting married so soon. Happy ending? lol.

Just think he has his own chapter and you have your own chapter.

I am sure you went through the sweet and bitter of the past

That makes you what you are today.

I did various things to make myself feel happy or I would say; diverting my attention away from those sad thoughts. I joined clubs, expand my social network and get involved in activities that I never got the chance to participate before. And I must say, the feelings are great.

I would not suggest you to buy those books and etc. Those books will only list down "general" guidelines for you to follow. If this books are as good as they proclaimed, there wouldn't be any sad ending in this world right? Why waste those money? I would rather spent those money on activities like go-karting, paintballing, and etc. I am making new and wonderful friends and in fact, am pretty glad that we broke up.

I am pretty sure you have heard this proverb before. When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one that has opened for us. You are currently in this situation in which you are still allowing your past to hold you back. Life still goes on. And I am pretty damn sure you will be able to pull it through if you continue to move forward. But first, learn to accept the fact that your relationship has ended.

You are more than welcome to pm me if you ever need any guidance. Take care alright.

This post has been edited by night: Sep 18 2011, 10:46 PM

well...i think everyone does that once in a while xD

my gf decided to leave me.. after 3 years
i begged, tried hard, everything i did cannot save this relationship
only can drop tears when think of every good moment we had together..

she said i hurt him too deep tat is beyond repair.. my attitude got problem a s she said.. i did change alot since i met her but sometimes i me just cant hold back and said some silly things that may hurt her.. evtime i tried to make her happy back after argument but it doesnt work. But anyway she just forgive me..

but this time she said its all over. she gave too many chances and i took all for granted..

for her.. i worked hard to buy a condo.. decorate it nicely..we only stayed here for 4 months... but all left now is memories..

This post has been edited by CKW008: Oct 19 2011, 06:41 PM

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This post has been edited by 90Boyz: Oct 19 2011, 10:55 PM

Back to single ! Before this, although unofficially together, everyday stick together, on phone, dinner, movie and usually Friday after work wont have to be alone. But now

I feel u bro,somehow life must goes on. Think positively,u still can enjoy the same matter with ur family and frens.sooner or later u will eventually find out ur truly one.

Worst thing, we have our trip this Dec. Europe.
18 days.

Breaking up can be a good thing. Imagine need to argue over small things every single day, it is killing cells in your body every second. You can eat whatever u want. Go wherever u want to go.Watch ur favorite show on tv.
Buy whatever u want.
Best of all, go out with friends. Not just 2 person anymore......

Uh hi all... Thanks for creating this awesome thread and most of all, thank you for the tips...

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Added on November 1, 2011, 7:18 pmYeah thats right...

This post has been edited by MysteriousBabe: Nov 1 2011, 07:18 PM

best of luck to all... =)

This post has been edited by Sky_Q: Nov 2 2011, 12:35 AM

after 2 n half year..i dream of my ex last nite...a bit far..cant remember the whole dream...sigh..

dont let ourself stuck in a situation......

matter of time....

sooner or later it will be ok.....

just believe that every rejection is God protection..