sure some day you will meet your white house prince 1 , dont worry on that, just haven reach the time yet

Doesnt mean that ur dating everything will be great. sometimes being single rox...

get together with your gf or your sister and ask them to tell you honestly if you are giving bad vibes to guys. that could help, i think.

have your own sense of style... thats important. than most probably a guy that fit ur taste will come by instead of some hipocrate trying to fit into ur life...

attach got its good and bad ma... for me i like being attached coz i like to care for my girl..

but single also rocks la... i m single now and i can do whatever i wants... no barrier.

i'm a guy, i would like a girlfriend who is beautiful and intelligent and has a very high obedience to ALL my request....
( when i say ALL, i mean ALL )

but in reality, i can't get this type of girl because this type of girl won't go for me ( fat ugly lazy lustful jobless man )

in your situation, i suggest that you need to know what you can give (what makes you standout)
it is far more better than knowing what others want (to fulfill those you want to please)

I'm 26, I m still single also...do u like to know me??
Haha, I'm just kidding don't take it serious.

IMO, you are still single is not a problem. The main problem is do you "unable to forget" someone who has no fate with you.
It is really difficult to "forget someone"....some people even used couples of years they are still in the trape. But try to move forward is possible. Stay confidence. No worry.

can give me ur phone number? i also single for 25 years

i agree with you...

some girls (guys too), they might have crush with some guys, but because of no fate, they do not end up as couple.... the girl might still have some feeling for that guy, that's why she reluctant to move on, hoping that one day the guy will go for her....if the guy do, then it's great...but what if this is only one-sided feeling? pity that poor girl....

i'll suggest, make some cut off time for the guy/girl you admire and have feeling to......let your feeling stay for ..maybe six months, and if still no progress, better move on and don't waste time on someone that do not appreciate and love you....

Hey TS! dun feel so bad... i'm 28 with constant nagging from family to find someone... so i think i'm in a worse boat than you. but you know what?? i'm enjoying myself!!! life's too short, dun look fwd to be bogged down with extra responsibilities yet... just go out and enjoy urself. do some dating... online or otherwise... it's fine to meet up ppl u meet online too but be very street smart when u do that ok!! dun want u to kena some buaya or worse

btw, this is out of topic:
ur rounding wrong lah... 2cents round to 0cents worr FAIL!!
just for fun, no hard feelings

hey 9876789! love ur avatar lah... cool!!

vyncyi, u said u has been single for 28 years. r u boy or gal

Dear Elephant, i didn't say i'm single for 28years... I'M 28 years old... big difference ohh
i'm gal, that's y commiserate wif TS lah. i dun thinks guys will be hounded and nagged by family till they're bout 30++??

waa FATE mer ? 21st century....

i dont agree with this statement... we should decide on our lives.... take some initiatives...and decide how u wana live ur life....

oh u sound more desperate than TS ...

personality and budi counts too. not all men think with their dicks

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Added on April 22, 2008, 2:39 pmyes, big decision, dun simply cincai.

wats wrong being single, right? ever heard of slo n steady?

but make sure dun fall into longkang yup

This post has been edited by Petre: Apr 22 2008, 02:39 PM

25 so old meh??...maybe u dont tok a lot issit?....when u r out with a group of frens, try to talk more and ask ppl questions. If u just sit down there quietly no body will notice ur existence lor...i really knot judge if u r pretty or not but yeah, is true tat most of the guys will look at ur physical appearance first than anything else....maybe u should change a bit on ur appearance??

got picture?

i used to be single and enjoying my single life as well. i just hv to plan for myself and instead of 2 persons' plan. maybe it's also bcoz of some frens told me abt their prob so sometimes this gives me a 'not-so-good' feeling towards having bf. i hv a gal fren (age 24)who has just broke up with her bf without any reasons (thy even planned to get married). her life suddenly changed. becoz she used to 'report' everything to her bf and her bf also did the same. tat time, she told me tat she really 'enjoys' her sinlge life. but the nxt moment she told me the different thing again. i really pity her, she forces herself to be happy and get used to the single life. last time when we went shopping, she was sitting on a bench staring into the air and i guess i knw wat she was thinking. so, owes keeps her busy hoping tat she will forget the sad incident soon.

try to imagine, after sharing everything together, in the end, broke up. how hurt it is. really scary. better to live alone. but no matter how, i also wish to meet the rite guy lah. hoping that he is the 1st and also the last.

so as for TS, it's really OK for being single. don worry too much. just follow with the flow. the Right Guy will come to u one day~~ All the BEST!!

About that first BF/GF is ur future husband/wife is really hard to gain........but still got chances de....

But i have fail that part coz of a gal..... she didnt appreciate it

dear ts...

dun ever worry..i mean to all the gals out there..(middle age)???single is a good thing..im not single but if i ever break up wit my bf i would like 2 remain single for some time mayb??haha!!cuz if u r in a relationship..mayb things wil oni get worse than ever...like your heart wil be break into a million pieces!!!!but if u found a good nice decent guy... good 4 u!! my mum have a fren..a woman..she got marry at 38 years old 2 a rich guy...ownself aso very rich!!!!n now recently she gave birth 2 a baby boy hehehe!! so i think mayb your time 4 husband n wife thing has not yet come...anyway..u can go 4 social activities 2 get 2 noe more people...hehheehe!!

n erm....those ppl who wrote in this topic..no offence..but i rely damn hate ppl who like ppl 4 their looks..pretty or handsome mayb be a bonus (in MUAKS or ***) but hmm..if u found another 1 more attractive den u wil fal for that 1 2?????

Yes, i agree with you! But of course don't forget one thing, human relationship is very important among your circle to build up your interpersonal. Don't force yourself to be in love with someone, it won't last long, just take it for granted!

for guys look is important..but u just need to look nice not super hot or anyting..but most importantly is d personality...well my bf do like my look but he always tell me dat wat attracted him to me is my personality...im very tomboyish..but never really hv any prob getting a bf...but 1 thing for sure...let d guys chase u...why do guys like ps3 or nintendo wii??coz they love games!!!if dat wat they like...give it to them.make them chase u like its a game...
i just want to share la...i hv a fren..she is superly cute/pretty/hv great body...at 1st impression,d guys always succumb to her look...but after a wk of getting to know her,they all cabut lari!why??coz shes act too desperately...shes too easy of a game to d guys...baru kluar few times dah panggil sayang la...call him everynite la...she made d 1st move to hold their hands la...aiyoh!!but dun get me wrong,shes not a slut o anything...shes very naive actually...n a virgin