Don worry too much gal~ i'm turning 25 also this year. nvr paktoh b4 also. no guys seemed interested with me also. was quite desperate a few years ago. but now... alredy used to singlehood di lor...evern though frens around me all attached di. (my mum is more concern than i am!) don feel like paktoh now... everything need to be shared. quite troublesome. this is how i feel at the moment. who knws everything changes after meeting d rite person.

>>deville: Ya of cos not all guys are like that. Knowing wat some of the guys want/look for is a good thing to know, no?

If u disagree it's all good mate, no prob at all

Well..if you are born not to have a good looking liked me, and you want to attract guys, I think you need to spend more time to learn how to make up and dressing. But from the very beginning, you must learn how to clean up yourself..such like bath everyday, wash your hair with shampoo everyday, change your socks, bra, undies everyday and etc..

If you don't have a set of tidy teeth, then try not to open your mouth too much while talking..coz guys will focus on your mouth n teeth..and tat will turn them off if you laugh / talk like a BMW...

If your body shape is something like more than 38A/B 36 46, then you need to do more exercise..try to join some fitness club, get a good coach, they will train you..if you are rich enough just go to some bodycare centre. If a guy tell you that he dun mind your bodyshape, well..I think you should not trust him.

If you don't have much hair on your head, get a good hair stylist, spend some money to get the nice design, perm it, dye it, and I believe that will make you looks different and gorgeous.

If you are too fussy and choosy, well..you are no more young, my friend who already has a kid when she was only 20, so..lower down your requirement, get a trusty guy, don't expect everyone is as perfect as you.

If you are short and plump..o..this is tough..still the same words, do more exercise..get a good coach, get a good bodycare centre..and after tat join more clubs and activities, socialize, know more new friends.

If you are anti-sex, o..most of the guys are lusty, they want it from you tat means you still looks attractive..learn more skills from observing their sensitive spots, try to serve them well, hello..i don't sounds and mean that you are pros ok.., but this is one of the effective way to get the guy's heart..and of coz..only do this to the one you love and he loves you as well.

If you are specky and has an aunty look..o..take off your specs, walk to a trusted optical shop get a pair of latest contact lenses, get a set of latest hairstyle, wear more Tees with low waist jeans with a sexy cotton gstring, try not to talk using your mouth too much..learn how to talk through your eyes..

If none of above is true..never mind..tell us what you are..and will try to think it for you..

oh shit..I am from Penang too..didn't notice tat you are from Penang too..hmm..I knew quite a few gals who are 25, and one of them is engineer..may be I know you ?

put half ball

i want her phone number

"a girl with a career and know how to think for future" will normally net you a guy who is the lazy and sleezy. guys like girls who are innocent, not so smart, looks ok (beautiful is better) and kind. beautiful doesn't mean skinny. and fat is not beautiful. if a guy has a good career , he wont mind if the girl is helping her parents selling stuff in pasarmalam.

for me i would like to congratulate u, coz most girls cant live without having a bf. moment break up will find for another to compensate just like animals. their excuse is that they cant live without loving but for me its all bullshit and preposterous.
its just that they r insecure n not strong enough or just utterly selfish. anyhow, dont worry just focus on ur family n u and im sure the right guy will come along n he will for sure appreciate u since u have never been in any sort of bullshit relationship

you only share some time, food, happy moments, frust,bathroom (if youstay togather).
however you get his share of money (he never touch yours), holiday(he pays all of it) ,shopping( he pays part of it) ,bathroom( he is forced to clean it sometimes), happy moments ( he buys you diamond ring) , frust( he keeps it to himself and helps you when you are frustrated)

i notice that most of the unpartnered ones are either too successful or rich spoiled (partner but never long) , too career minded, too calculative, very not beautiful and unapproachable, and the most important one is not sociable.
I have a few aunties who are single till now (age more than 50) they are rich, was very beautiful ( one of them) and successful in career.
Guys have ego. if you (girl) is better then them in everything, how can he feel that you will stay with him for long? however, if you are less smart, careless, dumb at times (not stupid !!) and beautiful , guys will drool over you.
sometimes if you are cold and beautiful, guys will shy away.(because they think got no hope and don't dare to try).

if you meet a handsome guy with good prospect, does not mean you will be happy (short term sure la). i will tell you a real life story happening in front of me now. it's gonna be a looooooong story but i will cut it as short as possible. Then you judge wheather you wan to have this partner or not.
this is not a fictious story.. real life drama happening now.....

this guy quite good looking except for being hairless.. ( some girls can accept but some find this disgusting) tall (185 cm) slim , good education, graduated with american degree, comes from good family background.( family quite rich..as in tens of mil if not hundreds in asset). Being the only son, he is taukey to 120 over staffs, bachelor, good sense of humor, can take you for expensive holiday, can shower you with expensive gift ( if he wants to). bla bla bla... THIS GUY NAMED "A" in story. A has got a jap gf (plump, volups, smart ( with american degree)and was starting her high career in japan.

In A's family company there is this ok looking girl (staff named N) who saw an opportunity of a life time. To bag A and becomes the taukey soh. from rags to riches plan. From a poor family to become a millionaire ( movie ka? not movie but real life drama.)
A's parents had always taught their daughter's to be careful of guys. they explain and taught their daughter not to fall eazily for guys because most of the guys will try to bag them because they are from a rich family. ( multimillionaire ) friends always bring their son to visit family and hope their son will bag this girls..

N starts fishing. like in the movies, N makes smart moves and caught his attention. called him out on work pretext but was more of a flirting to bag him. he fell for it.( got beautiful fish dangling in front of the cat, cannot resist the temptation so he took a bite). A's family never approve N and had sack N when they knew about this. this jap gf was with A since U in america. (togather for 4 yrs).

a few month later, jap gf came for a visit. So N planned... she wants to commit suicide and called A and approch the jap gf , kneel at the jap gf and ask for approval to be mistress. (dont know how N manage to get A to bring N to see Jap to settle things) .
How I know? Jap told the story to me. (she cried)
N have 2 kids with A now. Jap is history. and do you think N is sly and successful?
Halo wake up.. yes N becomes an instant millionaire when her sons grows up. but A happen to be a playboy. now A is doing the same thing he did to Jap. Now A is outside catching other fish.. N cannot take it so they fight almost every week. damm boring. gua also fedup.
A also sapu one of the maid

jong - u need to brush up ur english. i totally have no idea wat u wrote

Just devolop your what you good in and be a gud girl!

A young man goes for beauty+less attitude--> Nak makwe only...

A mature one, likes balance character, not to much that, adequate from other angle, bla..bla...--> to make wife! Wise guy know that beauty will not last forever, but the beauty in your heart can last for eternity.....

Just my 80 cents, x cukup meh naik bas...hehehe

wife came so have to send and shut down computer..
so N got A ( a future millionaire) but this guy is a playboy . u wan to rush and get a millionaire ? i can recomend A..

so where is your phone number ts?? im waiting!!!

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Added on April 14, 2008, 9:03 ammarried di still in girl's club =.=||

This post has been edited by Jas2davir: Apr 14 2008, 09:03 AM

yah rite..guys always step their gfs/wives down to climb higher. A gal must always be mre humble than her bf/husband..

So, do u prefer to have a bf like tat?Or do u prefer to stay single but u excel in things u're best at?

This post has been edited by yee_voon: Apr 14 2008, 05:13 PM

For me 50% attitude , 30% body shape , 20 % face , 10% money for choosing a girl

TS!

Just only 25 only laa....why so hurry???Do you know that how many couples broke off, not dare to dating anymore? How many being divorce & not dare to remarried?......

Just open ur big eyes & spot. My advise dont hurry lehh.....

TS dont hurry la...but don't give up finding mr right.. rushing for a relationship and if the guy knows you are desperate...u'd probably lose everything very fast..which is what we call drill and ditch..

hang on there, know more people...dont rush ..but dont give up hope on pak toh-ing :>

Personally Speaking, I Don't think a girl's attractiveness has so much to do with her outlooks but in fact i think a girl needs more personality and a strong attitude to attract the opposite sex..well at least to me i like girls that way..Yes i do get attracted to beautiful girls but they are only eye candy or to some guys they look more like an object of sex rather than love and wouldn't last for too long unless i really get to know her character... and
Secondly some girls are just too shy or low in self-confidence ,no matter how beautiful u are this second the moment the guy gets to know you..you'll be fading away in his mind...so Girls be yourself and be confident! but not too confident xD it's not that hard...So to any single girl u are welcomed to leave me ur msn xP i'm single xP

This post has been edited by DreamChaser85: Apr 16 2008, 08:26 AM

Believe in fate..
Some people are fated to meet their love one late in their life le...

But of coz..u need to mingle around with friends.. or make new friends ..
To get to know people...

... Some. Means there will really be people who will never find one.