I already 26+, also havent pak tor before......

U slowly slowly find lar.......

A guy would like a gal who have career and know how to think for future.......

   

First of all, being too picky. Seriously. I think girls who are too picky, and sets their standards too high, can pretty much expect themselves to be single.

how come men...rambut tak gunting...gigi kuning..bulu ketiak panjang...bulu hidung terkeluar..how come she will be pretty..need focus for the outside also..

if the girl talk too much?lols

i am talkative in person... but that doenst means talkaltive gal cann attract guy... it just that more easy to communicate....

from wat i noe.... i think that guy like weak gal....they like a gal that weak in person means need bf advice n take care all the time.... this type of gal is the most attract guy to woo....

this is because they can show their power of a MAN!!!!

guys do not like weak girls. only weak guys like weak girls. get that straight.

and while ure at it get this straight, too: dont change merely because a guy likes it that way, change only because YOU yourself want the change to happen.

remember, you are not a whore. you are out there to attract guys who have an interest in you, NOT to change yourself into whatever type of girls they are interested in. understand that, and drill it into your head.

all girls were born with the basic necessities to survive. a pair of legs, a pair of hands, a set of boobs, a head with a face and hair, and a vagina etc. this is the ultimate basics that a girl has. unfortunately and fortunately for you, men do not just get attracted to the basics alone. they are attracted to much more than that. men are attracted to women that they deem as exceptional.

so, build on your resources. the more resources you have, the more attractive you will be to men, and the more attractive you are to men, the more confident you will be in yourself, and that in turn will make you even more attractive to men. so, build your foundation and make sure you acquire as much resources as you can.

what resources, u say? resources such as: career, knowledge, fashion sense, wittiness, social skills, charisma, personal hobbies and interests, personality, appearance, sports, skills, personal talents, etc.

these are the resources that will ultimately come to define you as an individual. your individuality will be what makes you exceptional in the eyes of men. so, yes, build up your resources. the more, the merrier.

also, dont forget to be ENTHUSIASTIC about building up ur resources, or you won't get very far. remember, change for yourself, and NOT because others want you too!

to be honest, reading ur posts in this thread, you come to my mind as an extremely boring and unattractive lady. you have no immediately identifiable unique traits in the way you speak. you dont sound confident, nor do you even begin to sound intelligent. you come across as plain and simple at best, desperate and pathetic at worst. this, however, is a very shallow speculation of mine and mine alone, as you could very well be the opposite in reality, so dont dwell on it too much.

either way, you need to change, if not to improve. upgrade yourself. change doesnt happen overnight, so be patient and dont let time get the better of you. take a first step, start off somewhere. identify something to improve on as a start, and work on it. pick up a new hobby or two, such as reading or exercising. work to improve your overall image, and most importantly be enthusiastic about it. enjoy the process and have fun!

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oh shi- wait, is this thread a tarp!? LOLLL!