there's a guy who .... well, i think he likes me, but i'm not too sure...

how can i judge whether he likes me or not?
significant signs?

Did you have any feeling on him?
Thats the question, if no just ignore it...

Ask one day go shopping with him.. then u say u like that necklace, gold....

Then u say u no money buy.. wish some guy will buy for u

Then, from that day... just wait lor and see the result

he will willing to do anything just for u

if he is interested to copulate with you,

he would remember almost everything about you, no matter how insignificant it maybe, eg; your extension LOL

even accompanying you without any conversation involved which is nothing to everyone, means alot to him.

i bet he is willing to by ur side n accompany u once u need him..
u will feel comfortable n happy to talk to him..
u wil wait for his call every moment..
u wil miss him all day long..
u hope to share everything wif him..
u wish to see him frequently..
u tend to b jelous when he treats another gurl well..
u wil care for his every stuffs..
u wil feel happy when he is bside u~

uMmm..that's the feeling of falling in luv wif someone i suppose.

true love is hard to find..

juz treasure n appreciate every chances in front of u or u might b regret..

it's not easy to find someone whom u love,likewise,he loves u too~

Good luck ^^

70% of the above i doubt she feels it at all... but she still say she loves me... meaning she's lying?

i think sometimes a girl might have the feeling for the guy too, just waiting for him to pop the question ("How about if we date?) or the statement ("I like you")

i'm sorry..
i haven't a clue about what u said..
why is she lying?

a guy likes you when he likes to tease you, he likes to picks on you, he likes to make you mad but he's scared when you're mad and would say sorry like he really mean it. or if he's an uber shy guy, he'll talk only to you and no other girls or he's always looking at you and smile when you look at him or something.

ya ya winnieH hehe that i owez do 1 to my gf b4 tat.

AGREED WITH winnieH!!

you can know wether the guy likes you or not from the way he walks.

LOL I think I know what you mean. But mine is the other way round. It's very confusing but one thing that's for sure is that she loves you or else she won't stay with till now.=D

And how to know when a guy likes you.. He'll try to impress you. But do you like him in the first place?

Whats the best way to pop the question?

I have been feeling the same way to a girl for years.Keep on thinking that she's the best for me.

She seem to care a lot about me but she's very shy.She have been trying some time to tell me she miss me but she dun dare till last month.

The way he walks? Can explain a bit?

btw girls whats the best opening line? i like you or wanna go for a date?
some how i feel when i say wanna go for a date i get loled at...coz i joke around quite alot when i ask some girls wanna go for a date they think im just fooling around T__T"

down there show bigger than normal?


tat's y we can know it by looking the walk...?

This post has been edited by jonglik: Apr 7 2008, 09:40 PM

when he knows you're out often for dates, and he wants to know who u're out with..

find some similarity in interest between u both.. for example if she likes to do certain stuffs.. or there's a new restaurant around the corner she wanted to try.. then u can ask her out for those .. it's better than blindly asking her out not knowing where to go nor what to do..

not rly blindly asking i did my homework but most of them think im making a joke or just trying to be funny coz something i pulled when i was drunk....

did you or did you not ask her out when u're drunk?

if you try asking her out thru msn..
try ask her out again.. but thru sms.. maybe she'll get the hint

so it's the girl who made the first move? shame on you...

the bold part damn freaking true man!!!

No,I did show her i cared for her but i didnt do it her directly.Kinda shy that time.She's shy,im shy.

Now,i also dont know how to make my move now.She's so studying far away from me.

Feels like sms or call her but scared to disturb her doing her work.Really dont know how to chase her now.

Shall i still keep on trying or just forget about her and move on?

probably you can try msn or sms her. i'm sure when she is free, she must reply you.. sms is a very good tool, if she is busy, she will leave the sms a side... so go for it.. better than regret.. good luck..

sometimes, true love or ppl you like is very hard to get.. when u found it, grab it... guys, you need to be more brave, when the girl reject you the 1st time, she just want to test your ikhlas or she tot you are joking.. so make your move very clear.... and also let her know you can give a secure relationship...

She dont go MSN at all now.It's expensive for her to go online in her on campus accommodation.There is nothing i can do.The only way left is to sms her.I need to be more brave now.Hope it's not too late.

Yeah,i love her a lot,even though we havent started a relationship.Dont think i'll find anyone as caring and sweet as her.

Really miss her now.Miss her sweet sweet smile a lot.

Wont she feel annoyed if i sms her too often?

This post has been edited by Cheesenium: Apr 13 2008, 07:01 PM

yup, that is love. i felt that for my ex saaaad..

but love is great when you have it.. even after the break up, you still have the memories

i think there is also social constraints where its weird if the girl makes the first move. there was this one guy i liked and had the biggest crush on. later (when i was dating my ex) i found out he liked me as well.. but he was too shy to say anything.. but now he's dating someone else already I guess it also goes down to fate and timing..

if u are compatible, but each of u have bad timing, then u probably won't end up together.. but if its already fated, u'd eventually be together that's how i see it la.

Yeah,there is one time,she told me that she's sick and need to go home via sms.I stop playing the game im playing and my brother was calling me to continue with him.Then,drove all the way from Kota Damansara to DJ to pick her up and send her home.That day was freaking hot too.

The thing i have now is also bad timing.Even if we start a relationship,we gonna have a at least 3 years long LDR which is painfully long.

Thats the reason i dont want to make my move.What happen if we broke up in a LDR?I dont want to hurt her in any way.

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Added on April 13, 2008, 9:53 pmJust sms her just now.It feels like she dont really care anymore.

Guess it's time to move on.I didnt make my move too long till it's gone now.It's all my fault.



This post has been edited by Cheesenium: Apr 13 2008, 09:53 PM

hmm, there was this one guy i liked. he liked me too. but he freaking took so long to confess to me. i know he's shy. so i actually wanted to confess to him first. but he did something that make me mad. after much thinking, i dun think its possible between us, as there r certain things that i cant stand it. theres no way i can tolerate it. so i didnt confess and move on, treating him like a friend.

not long afterwards he confessed to me via msn. hes very shy, hence unlikely he will confess to me face to me. hes actually shy in certain things only, he appeared to be very outgoing and sociable most of the time. however i already made up my mind that its impossible btw us. hence i didnt say anything on msn when he confessed. until now, i just take it that nth happened between us.

so, the moral of the story is - timing is bloody important. dun take everyting for granted. nevertheless in my case, i m glad that he made me angry and etc etc. bcos after deep thinking i think it really will not work

A guys perspective of things....

I met an auditor she had gd looks and awesome legs to stare at, but during the auditing period we barely noticed each other.

I was too busy looking for files to notice anyone, hence the very "I am pissed off, don't disturb me face" for the entire week while our company was being audited.

Ocassionally we exchanged glances but nothing more than that...

Than came the questioning, she kept bugging me... files not completelah, why like this, why like that, bal bla bla ...

from work it became friendlier... you work out ? bla bla ...

still i didnt get the hint ...

after the audit ...

Than only i notice something oh shit ... i just had a crush!

I made contact with her 3 months later after her audit, she was suprised probably thought i was a heartless, workaholic and brainlees dude!

I brought her out for dinner, we got to know each other better... etc....

after that it was history

Conclusion?
A guy who replies 3 mth late is better than no reply and definately is interested in that gal! Workingmah...

when he starts crapping a lot..

a quy who like a girl will always want to be with that girl. always. he will try to be around that girl any chance he gets. if u sms him, he will surely reply. and he will always sms u. so if there's constant unending contact, i guess he's into u that's what happened to me, although it took a verrry long time for us to finally become a couple

This post has been edited by shikuzika: Apr 15 2008, 11:31 AM

It's easy how to know wether a guy likes u or not =)
To Those Girls who want to know pls leave me ur msn ..
I'll show u xDD

wow you wan promote yourself ? leave msn then hp then go out yum cha with u ?

lol ..... ... I thought girls got that "women's intuition " ??? ... U would know by instinct ... U can know when a guy likes u ....

go ask him. "hey do u like me?"

=D!!!

lol. can be malufying la if you ask him.
later he say, no, why? You like me izzit?

haha duno, but i dare wor. not like i have to like that person to ask him right ;p

no harm asking anyway >_<

When guys like u, he will take all opportunity to talk to u and approach u.

check this out ..... more more views and opinions .... from both sides ....
will help u a lot .. how u know ? .. maybe the guy u like also is thinking the same thing .. but he very shy .. ?

http://forum.lowyat.net/topic/955999

interesting read ...

Haha. Some replies very true.

Well, if you really think he likes you - Save the trouble & ask him about it. If you are shy, try hint? ^^; Sometimes hints won't work if the guy just doesn't get it.

sigh, hint hardly works for me, either they are are plain stupid or my hints are not hints at all. so, just ask lor. it may be a little awkward after that but still can remain as friends right. so. yea. and if he says he likes u then wont be in the dilemma state anymore. you'll feel alot happier! ;D

This post has been edited by crystalism: Apr 22 2009, 02:22 PM

its easy to tell. most guy will act like a faggot in front of u.

u r so daring la haha
i dun dare

I think if the person likes you he'd go out with you quite often and also he'd have his eyes on you.

That will be depend, normally guy will keep as nothing happen if he feel that you are not the type he want. Or only wait till he fall in love with you then he will slowly try to impress the gals, like helpful, concert his out look when meeting with you, jealous when you go close to other guy.

But guy feeling may be not so sensitive, as most guy are easy going, tidak apa attitude. Anyway if gal really like that guy, guy very curios, dress special for him, can try to cook sometime for him and etc. If a gal continue treat the guy nicely, normally he will slowly fall in love with that gal.

see.....
if this guy is young, its easy to sense , no?
they have plenty of time to spend with u, no?
from those time u spend with him, u should be able to notice if he likes u

but if he is into career/business, then its hard to sense
bcoz he will be busy with his work and cannot show u love all the time
so u need to make sure you dont miss this good chance

why dont you go and express your heart to him, in indirect way
"i like a man, he has a chubby cheek, i love his spike hair(if he doesnt hav chubby cheek and spike hair then u replace the word with what he has), his warm and charming smile.. he is very close to me
i think he care about me, but i am not sure wheter he care about me or not. Do you think he care about me?
What do you think a guy will do if he likes a girl?"

Then he will think for a second, and try to tell you the most common thing a guy should do.
(Some guy maybe been trying to think how he should tell it, and took too long to think =.=
so this way, u are actually forcing his brain to think a good way...)
Ok, so once he spill it out.. you go and tell him... Yeah, that should be a good way to express feeling to girl, i would love
a guy to express like that to me.

wait for a few days, he might express he likes you if he really likes you

sorry, i am too drunk and im still writing. haha dont ban me for my idiotic comment.

Pretty Simple To Know Whether a Guy Likes You...
He'll Be Shy And Uncomfortable Whenever You're Around...
He'll Always Be There For You, He'll Attend A Gathering 2Meet You Again...
He'll Be Sad If You Say Liking Sm1 Else, Or He's Not Ur Type...
He'll Sms, Call Or Asking You For An Outing if Hv Opportunity...
He'll Be Listening To Your Advice And Pay Attention To Your Words....
He'll Be Online If Seeing You're Online, Even Both r Not Chatting...

This post has been edited by limshenghong: May 7 2009, 08:34 AM

what if a guy show signs that he likes you when you are around but when you are not with them, they don't really reply your sms or purposely call you leh? and when they reply, sometimes they will use, words like 'dear', 'darling'? means these kind of guys are just flirting around?

it's quite easy to find out if a guy's interested in u.. a guy tends to show it more openly than a girl..

- he texts/calls u more often
- asks u out frequently
- asks questions about u (shows that he wants to know abt u more)
- teases u
- occasionally flirts with u
- observes ur attitude/behavior/ remembers certain important things about u
- and if u're lucky, he might say he misses u once a while..

This post has been edited by slushie: May 4 2009, 08:41 PM

is thr a threat call how to noe a girl like u sumwhere around here lol..xD..anyway..how to noe a guy like u...= =" it kinda obvious though...easier to see through guy den a girl...lol!!

well i guess it juz wat slushie said..

I Dont Think If A Guy Said He Misses You....Means Anything...
I Even Say Miss You, Dear To My Friends.... Just Being Naughty Only....
If A Guy Really Likes A Girl, He Wouldnt Do Smthg That Will Scare Away Da Girl....
This Is Da Truth
If A Guy Really Likes A Girl, He Will Be Shy And Uncomfortable Whenever Be With You...

This post has been edited by limshenghong: May 7 2009, 08:35 AM

well, it depends on WHICH kinda guy who says that.. if the guy is a reserved, introverted and serious person, when he utters 'i miss you', it's most likely that he really means it

Guy seldom emotion, most guy stay cool most of the time. If he miss someone should be quite serious.
Most guy are too aggressive, and lack of expression technique. So very sorry all the girls.

It will really depend to a personality, some may shy, but some are enjoying together conversation, and like to gain understand to the girl.

LOL..Copulate! Hahah...that word tickles my funny bones hey

Anyways..I don't think he would do just about anything just to have sex with the girl! I think if a guy is genuinely romantically interested in a chick he would be willing to spend more time with her(which you pointed out) or not care if she breaks out in hives etc...meh

Then again...everyone's different I think some guys just don't show any signs or make the first moves ...

Meh..

actually i have the same problem...im very confused of the mixed signals that i get...

i have a feeling my boss likes me but yet i cant confirmed..he is always teasing me, comes around me often, help me with my work, always care for me alot..he even bought me food when he see me did not goes out for lunch...got once, he even comes to my pc, saves & close down all my files, and ask me go back earlier to rest bec i look tired...and he always calls me dear..does that mean anythin??..my other colleagues, did noticed he treat me extra nice..

when i first joined this co, i know he has a gf..but i nvr heard him talking about her..i dont dare get too near to him bec of that..but he is driving me crazy for caring so much about me..i do like him too but im forcing myself to stay a distant bec im afraid of getting hurt..i acted cold towards him at times...

he has resigned and wil be going away soon..should i let him know how i feel or should i just move on n pretend nothing has actually happened...i really dont hav much experiences in this situation...can someone kindly advise..

If Now He Still Has A Gf, Better Dont... You'll Be Ruining People's Relationship. What Goes Around Comes Around, If You Did That, One Day People Will Take Away Your Husband Or Bf, I'm Sure You Wouldnt Like It. If He Treats You Extra Nice Than Others, Why Should You Worry Then? There're Bunch of Guys Will Be Queuing Up For You... I'm Sure You Wouldnt Want A Girl Slaps You All Of Sudden, Saying You're 3rd Party Right? Or Colleagues Might Say You'll Flirting With Boss, You Know People Might Say You're After His Money, Promotions Etc.

If He Has No Gf, You Can Consider It, But Take Thing Very Slowly. I Have Read Hundred Of Articles About Boss Cheated On Employees In The Star Newspaper. After They Managed To Get "What They Wanted", You'll Be Forgotten And Ignored. He's Your Boss, He Can Even Fire Or Transfer You Away.

Lastly, Please Check Properly, Many Girls Did Not Realise Da Man Actually Has Wife Or Gf, Therefore "Gave Everything To Him". Smtimes Girls Easily Fell Into Cheater Empty Promises, Eg. He Would Say He'll Divorce His Wife, Breaks Up With Gf, Give Him Time To Settle Everything. If He Really Loves You, Ask Him To Prove It RIGHT NOW, but not EMPTY PROMISES.

Girls Outthere, Please Be Smarter By Now. Please Read "Hello Thelma" Or "Big Brother" Sections In The Star Newspaper, Sunday Edision. People Treat You "Extra" Good For An Intention, Could Be Your Work Performance, Your Beauty, Your Sexiness Etc.

This post has been edited by limshenghong: May 7 2009, 08:38 AM

If he likes you, he'll make sure that he will see you again.

Hey you know what? After reading all these so-called signals that were said guys will exhibit that they like a girl:

"Be there for you"
"Protect you"
"Always side you"
"Go the extra mile for you"
"La Di Da for you"
"Dum Dee Doo for you too"

Congratulations! You just found yourself a doormat! Remember to wipe your feet clean on him, oh don't forget to flip him the other way to get the nasty dirt off your shoes. He'll definitely be happy to do that for you or your money back guarantee!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Average_frustrated_chump

In The Game, Neil Strauss defines an "AFC" as: "a stereotypical nice guy who has no pickup skills or understanding of what attracts women; a man who tends to engage in supplicative and wimpy patterns of behavior around women he has not yet slept with."[2]

The seminal Cliff's List definition talks of a nice guy not in a derogatory or judgmental way but as a first level of personal development and awareness:
“ A "nice" guy devoid of pick-up skills, unaware of his true role and opportunities in mating rituals; tends to beg for sex, attention and esteem from women.[3] ”

The moderated alt.seduction.fast forum's definition also equates an AFC with a "nice guy". He is:
“ A guy who has no pick up skills and rarely manages to close a target pick up. Also a guy who tends to supplicate in his behavior to attractive women. Meaning, buying flowers... when going out for coffee, putting her on a pedestal, and generally letting women walk all over him in the vain hope of somehow being seen as attractive in their eyes."[3]


On a side note, why don't you just ask him?
I should get a Nobel Prize for this wonderful discovery!


(unless you just adore to play cat and mouse games)

This post has been edited by Tatsumaki: May 6 2009, 02:29 AM