Hey you know what? After reading all these so-called signals that were said guys will exhibit that they like a girl:

"Be there for you"
"Protect you"
"Always side you"
"Go the extra mile for you"
"La Di Da for you"
"Dum Dee Doo for you too"

Congratulations! You just found yourself a doormat! Remember to wipe your feet clean on him, oh don't forget to flip him the other way to get the nasty dirt off your shoes. He'll definitely be happy to do that for you or your money back guarantee!

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Average_frustrated_chump

In The Game, Neil Strauss defines an "AFC" as: "a stereotypical nice guy who has no pickup skills or understanding of what attracts women; a man who tends to engage in supplicative and wimpy patterns of behavior around women he has not yet slept with."[2]

The seminal Cliff's List definition talks of a nice guy not in a derogatory or judgmental way but as a first level of personal development and awareness:
“ A "nice" guy devoid of pick-up skills, unaware of his true role and opportunities in mating rituals; tends to beg for sex, attention and esteem from women.[3] ”

The moderated alt.seduction.fast forum's definition also equates an AFC with a "nice guy". He is:
“ A guy who has no pick up skills and rarely manages to close a target pick up. Also a guy who tends to supplicate in his behavior to attractive women. Meaning, buying flowers... when going out for coffee, putting her on a pedestal, and generally letting women walk all over him in the vain hope of somehow being seen as attractive in their eyes."[3]


On a side note, why don't you just ask him?
I should get a Nobel Prize for this wonderful discovery!


(unless you just adore to play cat and mouse games)

This post has been edited by Tatsumaki: May 6 2009, 02:29 AM