QUOTE(secretass @ May 5 2009, 11:08 PM)
actually i have the same problem...im very confused of the mixed signals that i get...
i have a feeling my boss likes me but yet i cant confirmed..he is always teasing me, comes around me often, help me with my work, always care for me alot..he even bought me food when he see me did not goes out for lunch...got once, he even comes to my pc, saves & close down all my files, and ask me go back earlier to rest bec i look tired...and he always calls me dear..does that mean anythin??..my other colleagues, did noticed he treat me extra nice..
when i first joined this co, i know he has a gf..but i nvr heard him talking about her..i dont dare get too near to him bec of that..but he is driving me crazy for caring so much about me..i do like him too but im forcing myself to stay a distant bec im afraid of getting hurt..i acted cold towards him at times...
he has resigned and wil be going away soon..should i let him know how i feel or should i just move on n pretend nothing has actually happened...i really dont hav much experiences in this situation...can someone kindly advise..
If Now He Still Has A Gf, Better Dont... You'll Be Ruining People's Relationship. What Goes Around Comes Around, If You Did That, One Day People Will Take Away Your Husband Or Bf, I'm Sure You Wouldnt Like It. If He Treats You Extra Nice Than Others, Why Should You Worry Then? There're Bunch of Guys Will Be Queuing Up For You... I'm Sure You Wouldnt Want A Girl Slaps You All Of Sudden, Saying You're 3rd Party Right? Or Colleagues Might Say You'll Flirting With Boss, You Know People Might Say You're After His Money, Promotions Etc.
If He Has No Gf, You Can Consider It, But Take Thing Very Slowly. I Have Read Hundred Of Articles About Boss Cheated On Employees In The Star Newspaper. After They Managed To Get "What They Wanted", You'll Be Forgotten And Ignored. He's Your Boss, He Can Even Fire Or Transfer You Away.
Lastly, Please Check Properly, Many Girls Did Not Realise Da Man Actually Has Wife Or Gf, Therefore "Gave Everything To Him". Smtimes Girls Easily Fell Into Cheater Empty Promises, Eg. He Would Say He'll Divorce His Wife, Breaks Up With Gf, Give Him Time To Settle Everything. If He Really Loves You, Ask Him To Prove It RIGHT NOW, but not EMPTY PROMISES.
Girls Outthere, Please Be Smarter By Now. Please Read "Hello Thelma" Or "Big Brother" Sections In The Star Newspaper, Sunday Edision. People Treat You "Extra" Good For An Intention, Could Be Your Work Performance, Your Beauty, Your Sexiness Etc.
This post has been edited by limshenghong: May 7 2009, 08:38 AM 
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