last time we contact each other very frequently but reducing after i married.if i go back to hometown,i sure will find her and most of the time we goo out on one by one.nth one la.that's what best friend is.if i got problem,she will help me..if she got problem..i will help her.actually,i have few very close female friends.

no, he's just handsome
and to be frank, that girl is not so pretty as i thought
maybe this call caring

yes, agree with u...
if that gal like it so much, just giv her.
as long as the guy loving u, no matter how, he will stil b urs

of coz mind !

Honestly, if my gf didnt mind. Id be very scared of my relationship status with her.

Girl need to give their bfs a bit of freedom so that they dun smother him with affection till he feels he is confined.

In my case, I dun reli mind my gf who clings to me half the time. But she gives me my space. Like when I want to go out with the guys to catch up and etc.

I din read all comments here, but just concerning, how's you & ur bf doing ?

From my point of view, I think ur bf want both of you. He dont dare to let either 1 of you go. That girl sure have guts. And I'm sorry for what happened to you. Sometimes, its hard for the guy to make decision.

your situation almost same with me and my ex-gf last time..before i break with my ex-gf, i will cal her and talk but she always ignore me and say me disturb her or busy but she can talk with her other male friend on that time..but end of this , we break our relationship two month ago..and she got the guy as new bf after two week break with me..

i think your situation now is same with me..kindly think carefully still want continue with him or not? what i hopeful here you don't follow my step..good luck

Whoa... I kena kau kau for this man.. I'm kinda close to her friend. And er, ya we share lotsa stuffs, i tell her things and vice versa.
My gf told me directly that she is jealous. Well i don't blame her though, i admit i am kinda close to her friend.

There's this time, i took her friend to a debate tourney, and she found the pictures we took. Fuh... kena kau kau wei.

But then again, i'm kinda close to girls wan. There's another time where another girl debater and me went to a tourney in Thailand, and we slept together (as in the SAME ROOM!!). Nay nothing happened. Weird thing is, my gf is able to accept this.

A woman's jealousy is very hard to be defined....

I was shocked when seeing my thread still alive here..

Then wat u wil do??

A lovely guy.. nowadays hard to find..

yup.. sometime we need to hv our own time to do our thing..

We r coupling back again.. n our relationship is stable now.. he treat me quite good after tat incident.. of coz sometime he wil hv his own temper too.. as for me, i still wil think back tat incident n tat gal.. i guess tis incident not tat easy to get out from my mind.. but i m trying my best not to think too much n do well my part.. *touchwood* anything happened in the future i wont regret n hope not tat sad/heartbroken..

Wat a sad ending anywhere losting someone/something not must be a bad thing.. it could b a good 1.. try to think positive n wisely.. u r regret for letting her go??

Maybe the another girl tat joined u for the Thailand trip is someone tat ur girl trusted? so she not make noisy.. o maybe she hv lost all her trust, interest n tired on u.. so she not care anymore??

anyway, if the case is vise versa ur gf bcome u.. wil u jealousy?

there's something called sixth sense. She feels u and her friend are 'over' the limit, whilst she can feels there is nothing between u and that other girl in thailand.
sometimes, when u are looking or talking to her friend, ur gf might be looking at your expressions to judge.

oh, love is so complicated.. i wish mine are simple tho...

This post has been edited by mckevin: Mar 19 2008, 04:21 PM

hmm..i got regret to let her go when the first month but now ady ok..i also want her can happy ma..cause i feel i strong than last time..

Glad to hear that both of you are re-united back. I've read the whole stories here and finally found a good ending at last

This post has been edited by Elayne: Mar 20 2008, 06:58 PM

i would refer that as Muslims. Islam is a religion. .

i definitely wil mind it..
as for me, i wil ask him directly " who is ur gf instead ? "
if he feesl happy treating another gurl well notwithstanding how hurt i feel, what for still wanna being 2gether wif me?
i might reconsiderate our relationship..

So many greedy guys here. One still not enough. If your gf go sleep around IN THE SAME ROOM with another guy, or alway think of him in the night, see you scare anot. They didn't do anything wrong mah. Just a CLOSE FRIEND only. What is a gf and bf for? Must have some privilege for each other wan ma. If not how can you say you're devoted to him/her? What will you feel when she say another man can bring her more happiness than you do. OUCH... painful huh.

As a guy, we should limit our range with another girl that's not belong to you (your girlfriend). It happens to me last time, it almost causes breakup. Things could be simply said like "She's just my friend!" But, i only treat her as my friend but what bout her? I know she likes me & she know i have girlfriend, but she wouldn't mind. Things didnt says out but we "should" / "will" feel something is "telling you" she is not only just an ordinary friend.

Quarell with my gf many times, in the end, i chose to ignore & my studies over, lost contact with the girl. Now im happily together with my GF.

So, control your "proximately range".

if they can talk to each other almost anything... that means they're really good buddies & their friendship is so tight that you ought to feel the alarm the ringing. there is a high probability your bf is going to fall for her , you know... because most of the guys i know likes a girl whom he can talk to about anything, and i mean ANYTHING. like buddies. like lovers. all in ONE.

i do agree on this... a guy who already has a gf should always know how to control their proximate range with other gals... especially if he has a gal bestie... introduce them together so that ur gf knows who u are hanging out with...

this might happen, but i am wondering too... y can't guys be best frens with their gf as well... mayb before this, he already has a gal bestie, y dont make the effort as transforming ur gf to be ur bestie too... mayb she will appreciate it a lot... most gals like their bf to share their lives stories... this is not as reporting their daily activities but make it as sharing..... most gals loves to listen....

no wonder that day I ask u out on valentines day and u got no respons