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beverlykho
post Sep 24 2025, 09:49 AM

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F me sideways, I just realised TS got SUSed. What happened?
BL98
post Sep 24 2025, 10:08 AM

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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Jul 24 2025, 03:44 PM)
It's daycare procedure for guys if I am not wrong.
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yup. I saw in XHS people actually went for vasectomy+sunat at the same time. done in 1 hour.
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post Sep 24 2025, 10:59 AM

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QUOTE(beverlykho @ Sep 24 2025, 09:49 AM)
F me sideways, I just realised TS got SUSed. What happened?
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what is SUS?
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QUOTE(TinyTots @ Sep 24 2025, 10:59 AM)
what is SUS?
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aiyok, that is one very confident TS to be able to count the number of protection he use.
padan muka kena sus.
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post Sep 24 2025, 05:02 PM

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QUOTE(TinyTots @ Sep 24 2025, 10:59 AM)
what is SUS?
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post Sep 26 2025, 06:36 AM

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QUOTE(TinyTots @ Sep 24 2025, 10:59 AM)
what is SUS?
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SUS = Forum mandated and enforced holiday. Sort of like garden leave, without the garden and forum.
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QUOTE(TsubakiKira @ Sep 24 2025, 12:21 PM)
aiyok, that is one very confident TS to be able to count the number of protection he use.
padan muka kena sus.
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What was his offence?
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post Sep 26 2025, 07:24 AM

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QUOTE(BL98 @ Sep 24 2025, 10:08 AM)
yup. I saw in XHS people actually went for vasectomy+sunat at the same time. done in 1 hour.
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what is the price RM for vasectomy?
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post Sep 26 2025, 07:25 AM

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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 01:06 PM)
Currently one, we infact planned to only have one.
Thanks for the advice, will have a talk with her and hopefully she agrees to do that. She was reluctant previously, and asked why it couldn't be me to be the one doing the surgery. Lol.
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Implanon is one option..
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post Sep 26 2025, 09:01 AM

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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 01:39 PM)
She prefers to go ahead with the kid. But ultimately, she said she'll go with my decision, as she is fully aware of our financial situation now.
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if thats the case you two should go ahead with the kids. Things will sort out themselves moving forward.
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QUOTE(BL98 @ Sep 24 2025, 10:08 AM)
yup. I saw in XHS people actually went for vasectomy+sunat at the same time. done in 1 hour.
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sunat for adult really? I thought sunat always for kids only
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post Sep 26 2025, 09:12 AM

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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 12:55 PM)
Anyone here or your wife has had unplanned pregnancy? What was your final decision?

I've just found out my wife is pregnant again. All my life, I've only worn protection 3 times. I was always so sure of myself but this finally happened. Wife should be around 4 weeks pregnant now. Our financial situation isn't that great at the moment, and I'm really stressed out on what action we should take next.
Worse comes to worst, we will need to really buckle up, eat mixed rice everyday and no more vacation, not even local holidays.

Care to share any similar experience?
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this time you didnt wear?
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post Sep 26 2025, 09:14 AM

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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 01:22 PM)
To be honest, it did cross our mind, and infact it still is. But due to the fact that it's not so accessible here, we are a bit lost now on what the best next course action is.

Frankly, after seeing all the charsiu children nowadays, wouldn't be so sure that I'll thank myself in the future though. But thanks for the encouragement!
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so did it cross your mind about all this when you piap her?
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post Sep 26 2025, 09:51 AM

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QUOTE(Skylinestar @ Sep 26 2025, 07:24 AM)
what is the price RM for vasectomy?
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In government hospital is RM15
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post Sep 26 2025, 11:21 AM

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QUOTE(Chadlonso @ Sep 26 2025, 09:02 AM)
sunat for adult really? I thought sunat always for kids only
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I think many people even when adult still not yet sunated. So I think can be done when adult.
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What was his offence?
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I wish I knew.
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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 12:55 PM)
Anyone here or your wife has had unplanned pregnancy? What was your final decision?

I've just found out my wife is pregnant again. All my life, I've only worn protection 3 times. I was always so sure of myself but this finally happened. Wife should be around 4 weeks pregnant now. Our financial situation isn't that great at the moment, and I'm really stressed out on what action we should take next.
Worse comes to worst, we will need to really buckle up, eat mixed rice everyday and no more vacation, not even local holidays.

Care to share any similar experience?
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Children are always a blessing but that blessing comes with 3R,


Risk - risk of some congenital defects or heath. can't do much other than pray and regular hralth checks

Responsibility - Need to raise the properly with guidance, love etc

Reward - seeing the grow up as you and your wife age

it's only tight and tough at the early years

after that things get better but you have to save up for their education and your own retirement

God speed TS
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post Sep 27 2025, 11:50 AM

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Apakah update TS? Tiba tiba kena sus pulak lolz.
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