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TinyTots
post Sep 23 2025, 02:09 PM

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QUOTE(Bananahead @ Jul 24 2025, 12:55 PM)
Anyone here or your wife has had unplanned pregnancy? What was your final decision?

I've just found out my wife is pregnant again. All my life, I've only worn protection 3 times. I was always so sure of myself but this finally happened. Wife should be around 4 weeks pregnant now. Our financial situation isn't that great at the moment, and I'm really stressed out on what action we should take next.
Worse comes to worst, we will need to really buckle up, eat mixed rice everyday and no more vacation, not even local holidays.

Care to share any similar experience?
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I actually aborted when I found out I was preggy. I have 2 kids already and having a 3rd one will really stress us out financially. Long story short, sometimes I feel regret for not keeping her/him. But at times I felt I made the right decision because our financial now is just nice for a family of four...Hope you make the right decision and don't regret it no matter what.
TinyTots
post Sep 23 2025, 05:25 PM

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QUOTE(GamersFamilia @ Sep 23 2025, 05:14 PM)
Don't blame yourself, cuz previously the situation is different, what if that situation still the same until now, both of you will stress and struggle each month
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Yes, confirm will stress as that time we were not financially stable. every month also just enough to meet ends. Sometimes not enough and we need to borrow money sad.gif
So, it it's an unplanned pregnancy really need to think properly if financial not stable. If got money, then is ok lah. Go ahead, no need think twice.
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post Sep 24 2025, 10:59 AM

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QUOTE(beverlykho @ Sep 24 2025, 09:49 AM)
F me sideways, I just realised TS got SUSed. What happened?
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what is SUS?

 

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