Sometimes doing the right thing can hurt a lot initially but it'll pay off eventually. Hope you'll find yr dream girl soon.

Very common in dating market, some matched i like her but she rejected me. Sometimes for this my case I'm sorry
You too always focus yourself as priority , fitness, intellectual, finance ,friends, family.
Hope you you too get your dream guy soon

Thanks 😊 Actually I can relate to u abt being single for too long. The guy that I mentioned in my post was expecting me to meet him probably 5 days/week. It didn't sit well with me coz when u've been single for so long, it's really weird to meet a person that often 😅 Probably u'll feel the same way too lol.

can relate , but somehow if you are seeing that guy, you will be glad to see him most the time. And you won't feel tired, for my case , I was meeting her once per week. but then honest with myself actually deep in my heart i don't wanna seeing her. I push myself up to 7th dates, only decided to tell her.

can relate , but somehow if you are seeing that guy, you will be glad to see him most the time. And you won't feel tired, for my case , I was meeting her once per week. but then honest with myself actually deep in my heart i don't wanna seeing her. I push myself up to 7th dates, only decided to tell her.

It's not abt being tired of seeing that person. It's just that we all have our own life to live, we need time to chill or indulge in our hobbies too. I think it's absurd to spend 24/7 with our partner. I mean how do we grow individually if spend our entire waking hours with them?

I'm curious abt yr case though. Did u get bored of her coz u guys always run out of things to talk abt or u always do the same dating activities together?

glad u tell her.. short pain is better than long pain..

Actually my case  :I was not really honest with myself. After 1st -2nd date, I never reflect myself asking myself what things like about her. Then she is very forward of meeting me again next week. So i was like let's give it try 1 more, and then 1 more, and then 1 more. After 3rd date, i find it myself , why am i not so attracted her ? is it this is what dating feels like?, even everything was right. Deep down i was not physically attractive to her, so technically after 3rd date, every dates i show up is just to show face (like working). That explains.
in term of boredom is still fine, we both enjoy watching netflix and eat dinner together. Conversation is still fine with us.

Already did, in a clear and direct but kind way. Hurts her also pains me.

But this the only way, I have to be honest with myself.

Since chubbiness was the only issue, did you invite her to workout together or have a healthy lifestyle to be better? If she is willing to improve herself and many values are aligned, could still give it a chance.

I was in the same situation like you before, a chubby girl and i wasn't really attracted to her physically plus there were more red flags. She ended it after the 7th date (which i think i should have done earlier by the 4th date).

If you weren't interested why you didn't say so? same like me?? lied to yourself all the time?

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I was in the same situation like you before, a chubby girl and i wasn't really attracted to her physically plus there were more red flags. She ended it after the 7th date (which i think i should have done earlier by the 4th date).

Hello Cupid Corner
I've recently matched a lady from CMB. We been hanging out for almost 4 times total in almost 1 month. She's been almost constantly texting me or sharing her daily activities to me. I can tell she like me. Even voice text me she missed me, what am i doing etc.
on our 3rd date, i went to her place she is renting, i did put my hand over her shoulder, she did lean over me, i also admit I hamsap kiss her a lot even to her mouth. But we didn't have sex.
The question is after 4th date, I am not sure maybe I never had a relationship before , I keep asking myself why am i not so interested compare to the 3rd date, could it be her hair style or attire??
She almost dying wanted to meet me every week. So may i ask has anyone of you dude encouter this kind of thingy before? Or I been single for too long ?
She is normal lady with around my age 30. Does she seems desperate to you guys?
She did mentioned ready to come my place meeting my family liao. I was thinking we are not even 3 months yet. Too fast??
How did you all progress with your girl friend??

About the chubby part... Do you mean obese with lots of loose fat? Or, the cute round meaty type? Or, plus-sized curvy with shape? 🤔

Also, what were the red flags that turned you off? Her habits? Personality? Views?

I'm curious and wanna learn from male perspectives.

She is too easy for you?

Some aspects of her not attractive enough?

Actually my case  :I was not really honest with myself. After 1st -2nd date, I never reflect myself asking myself what things like about her. Then she is very forward of meeting me again next week. So i was like let's give it try 1 more, and then 1 more, and then 1 more. After 3rd date, i find it myself , why am i not so attracted her ? is it this is what dating feels like?, even everything was right. Deep down i was not physically attractive to her, so technically after 3rd date, every dates i show up is just to show face (like working). That explains.
in term of boredom is still fine, we both enjoy watching netflix and eat dinner together. Conversation is still fine with us.

on our 3rd date, i went to her place she is renting, i did put my hand over her shoulder, she did lean over me, i also admit I hamsap kiss her a lot even to her mouth. But we didn't have sex.
>> straigth get the f up
The question is after 4th date, I am not sure maybe I never had a relationship before , I keep asking myself why am i not so interested compare to the 3rd date, could it be her hair style or attire??
>> find it fast or bail out you till not move on into something, perhaps previous girl
She almost dying wanted to meet me every week. So may i ask has anyone of you dude encouter this kind of thingy before? Or I been single for too long ?
>>dying but no sex? puff

Sifu !! She is not obese, erm maybe just little meaty on the face & arms that's it. Her ass, leg, waist are still fine. Definitely not plus size. Besides that no other red flags, good personality, good education, good manner, hold  good postion in her career as well. Willing to make our dates good easy for me. 

Not everything involved sex la.

If sex didn't sell, then why on average modern young women make way more money than an average baru graduate young college male?