Must be either she is not attractive or have something on her body that turn u off.

Just tell her u r not interested and break it off.

After few dates already want to see family, why so rush

Well if u not interested please do pm me her number.

Im like this also..if girl is acting like desperate, Im quick to turn off.

Sounds pretty clingy. I would be cautious...

meeting up family after few dates is way too quick for me... I smell something is off. Just observe before commit into it

Somehow always hinted future husband etc. Too desperate??

Girls 30++ usually dating for marriage....

If you are not interested in her...just make that clear

TS, are u still seeing her?

Yep coming this friday. But also doing self reflection these few days. Whether i should continue or cut off

Glad to hear that from you. Hope that you'll make the right decision after that date.

I don't like fat girls also, but sometimes if your life is too stressful it may affect your decision whether you want to be committed to a woman. You've to talk to your shadow

What u dont like of her? List out

This post has been edited by raulxiver: May 28 2025, 07:27 PM

Passing my minimum standard appearance. A bit of Chubby that's it


Overall character itself everything is good

definitely need to considering all factors. long term punya story-history

thats ok maa. spending wise?

Normal la, I don't overly invest also. Fine dinning is big nono for me

Not sure about others, but I personally emphasise on meeting people around the potential partner, especially family, if I meet that person via dating app, because you don't know anything about the person so it's important to evaluate the person's "existing environment" to relate to the stories told. It would be a red flag to me if someone refuses to reveal those aspects, as if hiding something.

I met my boyfriend via dating app so we started as strangers. Understandably, it does sound freaky to meet the whole family at a dinner before going official, so we agreed to go his house to watch shows together, so I met his family unofficially way before we became official. We would just have some small talks, anyhow it was very reassuring to see his parents were amicable people.

Just let her go.
You're not attracted to her nor in love with her.
There isn't physical or emotional chemistry.

Already did, in a clear and direct but kind way. Hurts her also pains me.

But this the only way, I have to be honest with myself.

Sometimes doing the right thing can hurt a lot initially but it'll pay off eventually. Hope you'll find yr dream girl soon.