only 40% of man thru out history have pro create....60% have not...so dont worry about it

I have met many people who are married, said if they were given a choice again , they wont get married

You. Me. Lunch. In a nice cafe or restaurant.

Well truth is most quality men already married or those single mid 30s to 50s that are successful will look for younger women, especially if they plan to start a family. Like you said there are plenty of men out there on dating apps, friends try to woo you but not you "ideal" type..

Having said that, Good luck sis hope you find yours

living single its very convenient... no need to worry if you kids get sick.. not need to worry if you wife get sick....not need to worry about your wife family problem like ask borrow money..donation.. etc...
if you travel you need to pay triple of more because you alone need to bare all the expenses...

so much money spend on unnecessary thing like toys clothing and food...

Some time mental toucher.... wife do sour face and you fell not welcoming even that is your house...

wife taking control of you life.... you need to abandon your friends or sometime your own family...

i can see billion of problem when you married...

no time to rest when you reach home wife ask you do that and kids ask you do this...

no me time to yourself....

If your really wanted to get married you must financially stable...minimum 12K salary per month...
you job have work life balance like working in gov sector so much free....

You. Me. Lunch. In a nice cafe or restaurant.

haha who is that guy, let me read his message.

This is my POV

Im, 30YO, Single for life
.
Am I happy, Yes and No.

Yes, cause I can spend every money in the things that I want. I go travel alone, buy Gaming PC, no need to think about what girls want to eat, where to bring her.

No, cause I still wish I could hold someone hands, have someone to chit chat. But Ayam B40 and not good looking, I can't afford lifestyle that has a girlfriend / wife / children etc.

uncle happy with divorced in 2019, happy with vietmoi half of my age now in Saigon.

Kids are happier when they are with me and relationship closer to me more than ever

Bro, 170 is tall for a Malaysian. We are taller than over 90% of Malaysian girls.
We won't have problems with girls rejecting us because of height.
Not like the short manlets in Malaysia.

Well truth is most quality men already married or those single mid 30s to 50s that are successful will look for younger women, especially if they plan to start a family. Like you said there are plenty of men out there on dating apps, friends try to woo you but not you "ideal" type..

Having said that, Good luck sis hope you find yours

Thank you for your kind words.

True most quality men are already married, I met some of those guys I think they are nice and met my ideal type but too bad they are married with kids.

haha single middle age woman here~ end of 30s, I think I'm doing good in my career but I haven't married with kids.
Not many female friends to go out with only single male friends who try to woo me, sad..most of my female friends are married no matter they are good or not good looking, we go out once in a blue moon only because they spend most of their time with husbands and kids.

At first I didn't want to marry and have baby but after MCO, 3 years of quality bonding time with my family I changed my mind, considering to have a happy family, my age is getting old without even have a ideal partner I do my best to prepare for the future. I learned up cooking and baking skills, I went to fertility centre to do pregnancy checking and preparation, I hope that one day when I have husband and kids I could give warmest family environment to them.

I start using dating app and met up a few guys from the app, I should have started it early, I feel like i'm too late to look for partner. Those men that I met from dating app they were really lack of somethings like~ looking, mindset, attitude, career and financial condition.

I'm kind like regret of not looking for marriage partner when I was in 20s aggressively. Anyway life is still need to move on, I will continue looking for the right man. if every thing is smooth I wish to marry and get baby by 40.

This is my POV

Im, 30YO, Single for life
.
Am I happy, Yes and No.

Yes, cause I can spend every money in the things that I want. I go travel alone, buy Gaming PC, no need to think about what girls want to eat, where to bring her.

No, cause I still wish I could hold someone hands, have someone to chit chat. But Ayam B40 and not good looking, I can't afford lifestyle that has a girlfriend / wife / children etc.

Those of you above 40 years old and single. Are you happy?

In real life, people would be too embarrassed to admit that they regret their actions of staying single when they were still young. So please share your true feelings here. Are you genuinely happy with your single life, or are you merely putting up a facade just to appear less weak and vulnerable.

And what are your future plans?

Damn happy.

Especially when u p spend 1 month kat Vietnam, 1 month kat Indonesia, 1 month kat Laos, 1 month kat Thailand, 1 month kat Philippines over the course of a year.

And look urself in the mirror against ur classmates with family.

Best decision ever.

wow you have so much leave to go for holiday.

must be doing your own business