Those of you above 40 years old and single. Are you happy?

In real life, people would be too embarrassed to admit that they regret their actions of staying single when they were still young. So please share your true feelings here. Are you genuinely happy with your single life, or are you merely putting up a facade just to appear less weak and vulnerable.

And what are your future plans?

hmmm, it is not about happiness after all, it is about the peace of mind.

i myself am content being single
but knowing my parents, it really pains me to be single because me being single is something they do not want.
i am comfortable where i am but i really feel that i should just get someone "to fulfill requirements"..

If you manage to find a good woman
first of all, you have to become a quality man as well

but reality is,
the moment may not come as you planned

that's why human beings always struggle
expectations cannot exceed reality.

I understand u bro
listen tl them fucking nag and complaining about same shits is mentally stunning

How to say ah, so used to being single independent that having someone else in your life feels like an inconvenience?

Need to entertain her la, bring her out la, layan her emotional release talk la... Beech please I'm trying to chill and sleep lmao.

Parents always show me prospective arrange marriage girls, macam best, but I know the drama that comes with the girls... So I run away lo.

This post has been edited by ak101ss: Jan 15 2024, 05:17 PM

Is not I want to but is not easy to find one.

Happy of course.

No bitching from wife or girlfriend.

Can do anything peacefully.

No one to report to when going out late. Just pack and go.

it's not only for people is single..

it's also hard to find motivation and passion to move on with life... when you've lost someone dear to you...

Life and suffering tiada berpisah
~Buddha

No life, no suffering.
~iGamer

we cannot reverse the damages done by feminism after decades

depend on whether you choose to be single (happy ) or no choice but to be single (not happy )

You single , you think people married very happy


You married , you think people single having blast time.


Conclusion : Appreciate what you have.

please call befrienders

Your life, your way.

I guess it comes down to which is more important to you.
There was a period after I broke up with my ex, that I felt so free and happy. But after a year of being single, I realized having someone makes my life even happier. But of course not in a toxic relationship, which was what I was in my previous relationship.

Well, no one said it's gonna be easy. You want something, then you gotta put in effort

Hm...I'd say that's an issue with toxic relationships. Not really a relationship issue. An understanding wife or gf would not pose this sorta problems.

That's a possibility too

Japanese and Koreans are showing us right now.

No need, ayam just not gonna bring new life into this never ending cycle of suffering.

My uncle is 50+ every year go travel

He has managed to find his group so to him no problem

Sometimes the talk about his wine tasting tours, europe ski trip scuba diving etc

I guess it's easier for men. A woman with that kinda financial resources would most likely end up getting conned in some love scams.

🥹 nobody mau