Can't live with them,; Can't live without them

All that I can offer is this song....

As happy as single middle age janda????

You travel alone?

Totally agree with you, well I will try now...

not all women are like that, it just happened that your wife or your friends' wives behave that where, basically when you both dated each others you should have known her attitude or you kena tipu by "green tea girl", well you choose her and you have to live like that.

A woman behind every successful man, personally I adore man who focuses in his career, he can be busy with his work and I take care the rest of the things like housework and kids, in condition he needs to full fill "husband roles".

Last time my friend graduate already get married and have babies with wife. I laugh 9 him say why you c2pid because of 1 tree give up whole forest. Now he tell me this year he and his wife going retire and travel around the world. Cause all his kids coming out to work liau, he no longer need to support them.

I cry while looking at myself, still need to work till 60 only can consider retire

Ayam B40 finds Ayam B40, I believe there are Ayam B40 can accept u

Not because of those married men are signs to be desirable to women, when we knew and spent time with them, we could feel and sense it.

Don't get me wrong that leftover men and women are bad, when you meet them you will know it, let me shared with you my experience, guys have bad looking in term of hygiene, not mention about handsome or not, dirty and oily hair and clothes, cars were dirty enough to have cockroaches, ants, coudln't even order foods properly or treated waiters badly... haven't even criticised what cars they drove... how much they earn.

only happen to 0.1% of marriage life.


travel around sure will fight along the way and if lost money sure will get divorce... life is to shout if you keep depending on people...better stay on your on feet.

If you can't retire early being single, how do you see yourself being able to retire early with family? It's not apple to apple comparison. Most couples also can't retire early.

Lol, imagine talking to you in real life

someone is lucky to find a significant but majority of people are still struggling, just focus on positives and move on, no need comparisons

you spent your precious time when you were young so no regret of it.

ayam single late 30s men. to be honest men in their late 30s or early 40s are in the peak of their life. financially stable, body still have energy to do whatever you like.

on the topic of regretting or not of being single, i would say there is 2 side of the coins. some times do feel a bit lonely when alone at home. But at the same time its the peace you will enjoy.
ayam tried some vietmoi "gf" before. they can satisfy you biologically for sure, but at the same time its mentally taxing. every morning and night also must call and message.
tak call or message then she merajuk. Men have to work one la. some time after a long day of work just want to shut down our brain for some rest but ur amoi will come kakacaucau.

Now i can go settle my biological needs on 2feidei joints without any pressure financially, can also do ASEAN tour for companionship when feels lonely.
At the same time might have this thought of what should i do later when ayam old. of coz on the finance part i am pretty well taken care i would say.
when reach retirement age the EPF amount should be able to sustain my self until mampui and also got some balance for sure. sometimes will think if mampui nobody to pass the money to.

at this age, if you ask me honestly, i wouldn't want to get married anymore. We are a bit too old to raise children now. If getting a companion and not for children, i dont think there is a need to get married.
As a guy, we have no benefits at all marrying a wimmen if we are not getting children. your wealth will be legally bound to be given to her if you go and sign the papers.
I will choose to keep and treat the wimmen as mistress type, kasi buy gifts and gip money but dont want legally marry her to avoid she come rebut my harta with my family when i pass away.

neutral, you can only do so much alone before it gets boring. end of the day, you alone in your little man cave.

middle aged men already missed the boat, the kind of relationship where a girl love you when you had nothing and thus its purely because she like you.

middle age dating is like, potential partner don't really like you that much but just because you have assets and can provide for them. they just follow you since its better than nothing and they can't find another better guy.

you dont have proper relationship management that's why game and frame is important. If you had to pamper or being a beta all the time u done your game wrongly

That kind of luv also not guarantee to last 4ever, that's why got divorces.

Its better to me married, albeit to the right spouse.
Companionship after retirement is very important and its more fun travelling with a partner.
Even when married one can always choose to make some "me time" single trips. If you are single, you are stuck being alone.
Friends come and go, can never be relied on.

Single middle age uncle ktard say he is happy

Im thinking slightly below average.

truth is, no one is perfect including ourself.
you only need to find another imperfect person to growth together.

That is exactly life and that is exactly how "I think" we supposed to live it.
Come to think about it, we are created with 1 batang and 1 lubang that will fits, and if you poke it few more times and a baby will come out.
Isn't that part of our design, and all your hormones that tells you to fxck every single day?

I want to worry all that kids and spend all that money, even on toys that I can on that. It's not unnecessary. It's life and living.

Billions of problems when you are humans, married or not, but I don't choose to run away from it and yet I solve millions of it and still be happy about it.

But it's your choice, no one forces you too. No one forces me too. But i'm not running away.


Awww.. Best wishes for both of you.

That's quite a one sided generalization for how dad doing parenting.
Are you a father? is that what you do?