Jan 16 2024, 01:06 PM
QUOTE(moon88 @ Jan 16 2024, 11:42 AM)
haha single middle age woman here~ end of 30s, I think I'm doing good in my career but I haven't married with kids.
Not many female friends to go out with only single male friends who try to woo me, sad..most of my female friends are married no matter they are good or not good looking, we go out once in a blue moon only because they spend most of their time with husbands and kids.
At first I didn't want to marry and have baby but after MCO, 3 years of quality bonding time with my family I changed my mind, considering to have a happy family, my age is getting old without even have a ideal partner I do my best to prepare for the future. I learned up cooking and baking skills, I went to fertility centre to do pregnancy checking and preparation, I hope that one day when I have husband and kids I could give warmest family environment to them.
I start using dating app and met up a few guys from the app, I should have started it early, I feel like i'm too late to look for partner. Those men that I met from dating app they were really lack of somethings like~ looking, mindset, attitude, career and financial condition.
I'm kind like regret of not looking for marriage partner when I was in 20s aggressively. Anyway life is still need to move on, I will continue looking for the right man. if every thing is smooth I wish to marry and get baby by 40.
you will need to lower your expectations and cast your net wider. Not many female friends to go out with only single male friends who try to woo me, sad..most of my female friends are married no matter they are good or not good looking, we go out once in a blue moon only because they spend most of their time with husbands and kids.
At first I didn't want to marry and have baby but after MCO, 3 years of quality bonding time with my family I changed my mind, considering to have a happy family, my age is getting old without even have a ideal partner I do my best to prepare for the future. I learned up cooking and baking skills, I went to fertility centre to do pregnancy checking and preparation, I hope that one day when I have husband and kids I could give warmest family environment to them.
I start using dating app and met up a few guys from the app, I should have started it early, I feel like i'm too late to look for partner. Those men that I met from dating app they were really lack of somethings like~ looking, mindset, attitude, career and financial condition.
I'm kind like regret of not looking for marriage partner when I was in 20s aggressively. Anyway life is still need to move on, I will continue looking for the right man. if every thing is smooth I wish to marry and get baby by 40.
there is never an ideal partner. we all have to make concession and be more open minded.
relationship is a 2 way game. while you want to be more accepting, you also need the other party to make concession and accept.
sometimes the other party is a bit skeptical or scared so someone need to take the first step.
leave you with some words of wisdom from a married man
A man marries a woman hoping she will never change. A woman marries a man hoping to change him. in the end, both of them will be disappointed.
God give me the courage to change the things I cannot accept and the serenity to accept the things I cannot change and the wisdom to differentiate between the two of them.
good luck and God Speed in your journey
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