living single its very convenient... no need to worry if you kids get sick.. not need to worry if you wife get sick....not need to worry about your wife family problem like ask borrow money..donation.. etc...
if you travel you need to pay triple of more because you alone need to bare all the expenses...

so much money spend on unnecessary thing like toys clothing and food...

Some time mental toucher.... wife do sour face and you fell not welcoming even that is your house...

wife taking control of you life.... you need to abandon your friends or sometime your own family...

i can see billion of problem when you married...

no time to rest when you reach home wife ask you do that and kids ask you do this...

no me time to yourself....

If your really wanted to get married you must financially stable...minimum 12K salary per month...
you job have work life balance like working in gov sector so much free....

Kids how old?
-=- My Answer -=- 13,10,7 now

I always imagine its nightmare parenting when u 50/50 custody. The kids spending time with dad of course sibeh enjoy, guys usually very cincai everything also can do.

Want play game until 12am? Sure go ahead.

Want eat kfc/mcd breakfast lunch dinner? Sure go ahead

After 3 days u pass back to ur ex wife. Then she go on to discipline  them. Sure they tak syok. Or ex wife would just give up and let kids do whatever the fuck they want.
-=- My Answer -=-  Actually I'm doing both , their mom has 2 more new baby right after within a year of divorce


Will your kids turn out really okay??? I keep telling my wife there are reasons why in laws dont like orphan or broken family. The upbringing damn challenging, so high risk.
-=- My Answer -=- So far they are OK, at the beginning the eldest thought I'm gone forever. Your inlaws are correct, they have seen it