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post Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM, updated 2y ago

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Multimedia designer degree graduate job path


# Job Title Description
1 Graphic Designer Create visual content for print and digital media, including logos, brochures, and advertisements.
2 Web Designer Design and create websites, focusing on layout, visual appearance, and user experience.
3 UI/UX Designer Specialize in user interface and user experience design, ensuring products are functional and aesthetic.
4 Animator Create animations for films, television, video games, and online content.
5 Video Editor Edit and assemble recorded footage into a finished project.
6 Multimedia Artist Produce visual and audio content for various platforms, including video games and films.
7 Digital Marketing Specialist Use multimedia skills to create compelling digital marketing campaigns.
8 Illustrator Create illustrations for books, magazines, advertisements, and websites.
9 Content Creator Produce engaging content for platforms like YouTube, Instagram, and other social media channels.
10 3D Modeler Create three-dimensional models for use in games, films, and simulations.
11 Interactive Media Developer Develop interactive applications and experiences, such as VR and AR projects.
12 Instructional Designer Develop multimedia instructional materials and e-learning modules.






Younger sister resign and cannot find another job

Why 00 generation like that?


She resign marketing executive job at april 2024.
She never did any video animation in April and May.




She want to be a animator.

But I think content creator and video editor is better for her.







My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm.



She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?




She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.


She is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.(March 2023)

She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

Fortunately, her university lecturer helped her. I even asked her to check her university email. However, she kept ignoring her lecturer's inquiries and didn't want to reply.


July 2023,The subject result is out.She passed.


I also suggested she join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6 am, but she refused.



Normally, I wake up at 5:20 am or 5:30 am, and head straight to Hutan Bandar, arriving around 5:50 am.


Since Hutan Bandar opens at 6 am, few people arrive that early, and there are plenty of parking spaces available.



She joined a company in October 2023 but resigned in April 2024. She only worked for 6 months and is now jobless.

Now she has a formal university certificate.


She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.


After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.


My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.

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On the other hand, focusing on and limiting the use of mobile phones and other electronic devices is an effective way to address the issue at its root.


One possible approach is to create a physical space free from social media,

******** such as keeping all electronic devices out of the bedroom. *************

This can help eliminate the phenomenon of staying up late and doomscrolling, effectively mitigating the negative impacts of excessive use of electronic devices.

How can someone bring about change in their life?

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post Mar 25 2023, 11:26 PM

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I can piap the motivation out of her, as long as she is kiut like my kiut sister
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post Mar 25 2023, 11:27 PM

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QUOTE(Chanwsan @ Mar 25 2023, 11:26 PM)
I can piap the motivation out of her, as long as she is kiut like my kiut sister
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Kiut ???

You still play Command & Conquer: Red Alert 3 ?

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post Mar 25 2023, 11:27 PM

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Sis needs piap to be motivated
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post Mar 25 2023, 11:28 PM

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QUOTE(Chanwsan @ Mar 25 2023, 11:26 PM)
I can piap the motivation out of her, as long as she is kiut like my kiut sister
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TS found your answer
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post Mar 25 2023, 11:29 PM

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sleeping at 3am doesn't seem like she's that lazy.
she just doensn't wanna do things she don't wanna do.

bring change is never easy. finding motivation or target as well.

if she has friends .. maybe that'll help. if she's a neet .. tough luck.

one way is to force her to join you and your parents out for a trip and other things.
in order for her to experience things a bit.
forcing her to go jog .. unless your parents come along ... tough luck, much less request coming from you as an elder sibling.
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QUOTE(Ecnerwal @ Mar 25 2023, 11:29 PM)
sleeping at 3am doesn't seem like she's that lazy.
she just doensn't wanna do things she don't wanna do.

bring change is never easy. finding motivation or target as well.

if she has friends .. maybe that'll help. if she's a neet .. tough luck.

one way is to force her to join you and your parents out for a trip and other things.
in order for her to experience things a bit.
forcing her to go jog .. unless your parents come along ... tough luck, much less request coming from you as an elder sibling.
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What is neet?

Better ask my mother to join on morning.....




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Large and frequent doses of Vitamin "D" will motivate her.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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Instead of 6am hiking,
Try ajak 9am eat breakfast at cafe.
Don’t expect everyone crazy enough for 6am hiking.

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Ask her what she's doing until 3am first. You don't seem to know what she's actually doing even if you say "almost nothing". Remember, your own definition of "productive activity" might not be the same as hers.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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She needs to find someone to chat and bring her there for jogging
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:29 PM)
What is neet?
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Not in Education, Employment, or Training
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister ....
You go eat shit lerrrr
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I like her attitude. Can introduce?
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Maybe she is making money on cam? If so maybe more successful than TS
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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get your sister to do this test. tell her if she do this test, you belanja her makan mcd (or whatever fast food she like).

DM the result to me. I'll help you out.

https://bigfive-test.com/

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QUOTE(red_satu @ Mar 26 2023, 12:02 AM)
Ask her what she's doing until 3am first. You don't seem to know what she's actually doing even if you say "almost nothing". Remember, your own definition of "productive activity" might not be the same as hers.
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Big bro don't know youngest sister doing OF until 3AM
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classic local mois. useless
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sure a landwhale thats why no motivation
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Ask her to find a job for a uni student like part time etc for her to experience the real world and instill discipline and responsibility. And can get extra income as well for money motivation
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She has the same exact routine as me

Is this fate?

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sounds like my sister last time, but now she has changed
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QUOTE(Boy96 @ Mar 26 2023, 06:32 AM)
She has the same exact routine as me

Is this fate?
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why work till 3am 🤔
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Kasi height and weight of your sis here.
Cup size is optional.
Ktards here need more data in order to help you out
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tell her do grab food/car, slowly see how...
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tell her do grab food/car, slowly see how...
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QUOTE(ericcheng2021 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:54 PM)
Instead of 6am hiking,
Try ajak 9am eat breakfast at cafe.
Don’t expect everyone crazy enough for 6am hiking.
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Jogging not hiking

And hutan bandar can just walk walk only
There are many monkeys also

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she's the same as my wife.. totally no hope for this people... I'm also out of ideas how to change her.

only can tahan.
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QUOTE(Angry Clerk @ Mar 26 2023, 07:29 AM)
she's the same as my wife.. totally no hope for this people... I'm also out of ideas how to change her.

only can tahan.
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What is Your wife age?

No children?
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QUOTE(kons @ Mar 26 2023, 06:32 AM)
sounds like my sister last time, but now she has changed
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How she change?
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QUOTE(kons @ Mar 26 2023, 06:32 AM)
sounds like my sister last time, but now she has changed
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how and what changed her ?
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QUOTE(urnicksux2 @ Mar 26 2023, 04:40 AM)
sure a landwhale thats why no motivation
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 07:30 AM)
What is Your wife age?

No children?
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before married I didn't know. 30+ no kid.
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QUOTE(djlake @ Mar 26 2023, 02:09 AM)
get your sister to do this test. tell her if she do this test, you belanja her makan mcd (or whatever fast food she like).

DM the result to me. I'll help you out.

https://bigfive-test.com/
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Big 5 personality test that measures your personality for openness, conscientiousness


You are phycologist?

I do this test before i enter college

I also do not know what course should i study

Useful?
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QUOTE(Angry Clerk @ Mar 26 2023, 07:32 AM)
before married I didn't know. 30+  no kid.
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Means you do not know your well then you marry with her?
So how long you know her before marry?

Long time jobless?
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QUOTE(red_satu @ Mar 26 2023, 12:02 AM)
Ask her what she's doing until 3am first. You don't seem to know what she's actually doing even if you say "almost nothing". Remember, your own definition of "productive activity" might not be the same as hers.
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Some online game
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u can send her to my house bootcamp. when my lil bro wake up in the morning 6-7am. she will wake up as well.
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most of the time, we judge B based on what A said.

Now A say B. How can we trust A.

Your sister college life right? Normal la. Not all college students like that meh? But repeating final year project many times? Either is her fyp supervisor cibaikia lai de or she really cannot handle the project.

But most of the time, should pass one. Unless her supervisor is bad person make she have a hard time.
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coz u all spoiled her

give her think fail n repeat subject is entitled


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QUOTE(hellothere131495 @ Mar 26 2023, 07:58 AM)
most of the time, we judge B based on what A said.

Now A say B. How can we trust A.

Your sister college life right? Normal la. Not all college students like that meh? But repeating final year project many times? Either is her fyp supervisor cibaikia lai de or she really cannot handle the project.

But most of the time, should pass one. Unless her supervisor is bad person make she have a hard time.
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2020 and 2021 is online school
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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Your sis BMI?
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I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

She takut you rogol her bodoh seeing her nenen. Ask to go jogging at evening. confirm will come
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QUOTE(jojolicia @ Mar 26 2023, 08:22 AM)
Your sis BMI?
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Bring her along to a vacation see she lazy or not
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QUOTE(KitZhai @ Mar 26 2023, 08:39 AM)
Bring her along to a vacation see she lazy or not
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No use
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I think it's okay more importantly you have to pushed her to finish her final year project. Got to make sure she finishes it fast. Don't want to overstay her stay in university for another 3 years right ?

Any reasons she kept repeating it ?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 08:34 AM)
16 - 18
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got pic of your sister?
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got pic of your sister?
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"She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm."

Sounds like most of ktards. That means she will be successful with 20k celery
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 08:34 AM)
16 - 18
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Your sis got bf ?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 10:25 AM)
Why
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to assess her personality
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 07:28 AM)
Jogging not hiking

And hutan bandar can just walk walk only
There are many monkeys also
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Jogging 6am also crazy for young gen bye.gif
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 08:34 AM)
16 - 18
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Wah not long landwhale
Cum, let's all abang adik help here.
First, get her a bf.
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QUOTE(Laguna @ Mar 26 2023, 09:07 AM)
I think it's okay more importantly you have to pushed her to finish her final year project. Got to make sure she finishes it fast. Don't want to overstay her stay in university for another 3 years right ?

Any reasons she kept repeating it ?
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Got hot negro lecturer?
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Depends on what she do if she sleep late. If she the kind sleep late bingeing on Korean drama, I can say Ur sister is ggfied unless she pretty. If she pretty sure got many simps, don't mind charsiew wife as long as can be trophy for him to show off .

I'd rather have an average looking hardworking woman as my wife than a pretty but lazy materialistic woman.

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 10:25 AM)
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Bulan Ramadhan, bro

U better not be lying

Or else.
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QUOTE(kons @ Mar 26 2023, 06:32 AM)
sounds like my sister last time, but now she has changed
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What made her changed?
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It can be challenging to motivate someone who lacks drive and initiative. However, there are some strategies you can try to help your sister change her behavior and become more productive.

1. Help her set goals: Encourage your sister to set some achievable goals for herself. Start with small goals and gradually increase the difficulty level. This can help her gain a sense of accomplishment and motivate her to keep going.

2. Encourage her to find a hobby or activity she enjoys: Help your sister explore her interests and find something she enjoys doing. This could be anything from playing a musical instrument to volunteering at a local charity. Finding a hobby can help her feel more fulfilled and motivated.

3. Create a routine: Encourage your sister to create a daily routine that includes time for work, leisure, and self-care activities. Having a routine can help her feel more organized and motivated to stick to her daily tasks.

4. Lead by example: Be a good role model for your sister. Show her how to be productive and engaged in activities. If she sees you engaging in activities and taking care of yourself, she may be more likely to follow your lead.

5. Offer support: Let your sister know that you are there to support her. Encourage her to talk about her goals and feelings. Be positive and offer encouragement when she needs it.

6. Seek professional help: If your sister's lack of motivation is affecting her mental health or ability to function, encourage her to seek professional help. A therapist or counselor can help her work through any underlying issues that may be contributing to her lack of motivation.

Remember, change takes time and effort. Be patient with your sister and continue to offer support and encouragement. With time and persistence, she can overcome her lack of motivation and become more productive.

but if u ask me, probably she’s lack of motivation just because she’s a landwhale and have a face problem, just like u TS
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Gila babi 6am ask ppl go out for jogging. Orang gila punya activity.
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No join your hobbies doesn't mean no motivation.

Maybe her motivation is in other stuff which she does until 3am.

Don't need to force someone else into your interest.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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Maybe you could talk to her and listen non-judgementally.

It takes some time for her to open up and if she doesn't want to talk, it's okay. Just tell her you are available to talk when she needed to.

Don't give your opinion or force your values on her during the talk. Just reply oh, I see or um hmm... Or keep quiet.

Maybe you could ask her if she is feeling down. How long has she been feeling down/depressed. Acknowledge her feeling of being down/depress and show empathy (feelings that you care). If it is more than 6 months, then you could suggest to bring her to see a clinical psychology or psychiatrist.

Remember that depression is not permanent and it will pass. It takes time.
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Seems young, tbh just let them be. You can't force change. You can't help those that don't wanna be help.
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QUOTE(mrg220t @ Mar 26 2023, 12:52 PM)
Gila babi 6am ask ppl go out for jogging. Orang gila punya activity.
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I wake up at 6 to go gym ;(
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I wake up at 6 to go gym ;(
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U don’t need worry too much. She will find her life 1 day. When she got bf, she will learn to b pretty n clean. When got husband will learn to cook n wash. When got kids will learn to b a mum. She is just same as 90% of the teen in the world.
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she might be suffering from depression
especially if she wasn't like this before
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Big 5 personality test that measures your personality for openness, conscientiousness
You are phycologist?

I do this test before i enter college

I also do not know what course should i study

Useful?
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Useful. I am a change management practitioner under programme transformation domain, focusing on the people side of the change. Qualified as a psychologist? No. It is a tool that I used to understand and help groups of people go thru change in large corporations where change is forced and inevitable.
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QUOTE(mrg220t @ Mar 26 2023, 02:44 PM)
Why?
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Other time busy? After work usually less motivated? Been doing so for the past 2 years and used to it already lol
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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Maybe she got depression? icon_question.gif
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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If you sleep at 3am, can you wake up at 7am go jogging?
Invite her go jogging at the time she wakes up at 12 or 2pm.

She already completed all her subjects except 1 project, shows how competent she is.
Why do you label her lazy and lack motivation?

Bring her to help with house chores & charity work.
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Question is why must you be one responsible to bring any change to her life?

True, you can feel responsible to her life but it's only to some extent, don't exert and blame yourself on other's shortcomings, it will weigh you down and it's not a burden you MUST carry.
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QUOTE(Chanwsan @ Mar 25 2023, 11:26 PM)
I can piap the motivation out of her, as long as she is kiut like my kiut sister
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QUOTE(Pikichu @ Mar 26 2023, 09:48 PM)
If you sleep at 3am, can you wake up at 7am go jogging?
Invite her go jogging at the time she wakes up at 12 or 2pm.

She already completed all her subjects except 1 project, shows how competent she is.
Why do you label her lazy and lack motivation?

Bring her to help with house chores & charity work.
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Second time repeat final year project edi

I plan to bring her to my sg cousin house.....
Live few days

Anyway after graduate,sure will come to sg work

See see walk walk sg some place around
Hope to motivate a bit
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 10:32 PM)
Second time repeat final year project edi

I plan to bring her to my sg cousin house.....
Live few days

Anyway after graduate,sure will come to sg work

See see walk walk sg some place around
Hope to motivate a bit
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Reveal to her the realities of life.
If don't complete degree than all the education wasted.
Most jobs are low paying jobs, then work out the maths vs inflation.

Hopefully you can talk some sense into her.
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I bet she will claim kena depression if u or ur parents keep nagging her later
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QUOTE(Pikichu @ Mar 26 2023, 10:38 PM)
Reveal to her the realities of life.
If don't complete degree than all the education wasted.
Most jobs are low paying jobs, then work out the maths vs inflation.

Hopefully you can talk some sense into her.
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Thanks...
Your reply is very useful
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QUOTE(Milupa @ Mar 26 2023, 09:06 PM)
Maybe she got depression?  icon_question.gif
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QUOTE(mrg220t @ Mar 26 2023, 12:52 PM)
Gila babi 6am ask ppl go out for jogging. Orang gila punya activity.
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Healthy mah

Air also damn good

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 10:32 PM)
Second time repeat final year project edi

I plan to bring her to my sg cousin house.....
Live few days

Anyway after graduate,sure will come to sg work

See see walk walk sg some place around
Hope to motivate a bit
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SG life more stress out right?
But good money.
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She getting a big allowance from parents or something?

Get a job...

dulu dulu like uni/college time, we also like that... chat or game until 6am then go to sleep until 12 noon or later, then wake up for lunch...

holiday time, once work start, no more such life... so nice that time
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Imaginary sister. Hmmm hmmmm hmmm
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This reminds me a friend of mine when i still in college, sometimes we have a bbq, movie times, jogging and basketball etc.

But he never want to join us, almost every day after class he play dota. That time was garena time, he actually bought a broadband just for that. Else is RAN or some other online games, guys only have virtual life.

Not sure how he's doing now, yet we managed to graduate together. He might have this overly attached online games addiction, but i respect his task management though. Never missed a class, always finished the assignment, study for exam etc.

One time i told him, "I'll join yr dota if you join us go out". Lol bad idea though, we were having a bbq at the beach but he keeps on asking when we be going back.
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QUOTE(Napalm_man @ Mar 27 2023, 07:31 AM)
This reminds me a friend of mine when i still in college, sometimes we have a bbq, movie times, jogging and basketball etc.

But he never want to join us, almost every day after class he play dota. That time was garena time, he actually bought a broadband just for that. Else is RAN or some other online games, guys only have virtual life.

Not sure how he's doing now, yet we managed to graduate together. He might have this overly attached online games addiction, but i respect his task management though. Never missed a class, always finished the assignment, study for exam etc.

One time i told him, "I'll join yr dota if you join us go out". Lol bad idea though, we were having a bbq at the beach but he keeps on asking when we be going back.
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Diploma or degree?
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QUOTE(Virlution @ Mar 27 2023, 07:07 AM)
She getting a big allowance from parents or something?

Get a job...

dulu dulu like uni/college time, we also like that... chat or game until 6am then go to sleep until 12 noon or later, then wake up for lunch...

holiday time, once work start, no more such life... so nice that time
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I sometimes do that before ,but not healthy

After wake up still very tired
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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your sister cun or not??
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QUOTE(abelyap @ Mar 27 2023, 07:04 AM)
SG life more stress out right?
But good money.
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Work in sg 1 year equal to work in my 3 years

Work in sg 10 years equal to work in my 30 years


Many people can buy 500k landed house only after work in sg 1 or 2 years


Provided they have diploma or degree


Now johor bahru have many less than 600 sq ft cond
Somemore 2 bedroom 2 bathroom

Very near to jb custom


Jb become hk?



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QUOTE(achong09 @ Mar 27 2023, 07:46 AM)
your sister cun or not??
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If cun can lazy ,no cun cannot lazy?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 27 2023, 07:47 AM)
Work in sg 1 year equal to work in my 3 years

Work in sg 10 years equal to work in my 30 years
Many people can buy 500k landed house only after work in sg 1 or 2 years
Provided they have diploma or degree
Now johor bahru have many less than 600 sq ft cond
Somemore 2 bedroom 2 bathroom

Very near to jb custom
Jb become hk?
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which project with 600sqft with 2 bedroom n bathroom? looking for condo as well recently


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QUOTE(abelyap @ Mar 27 2023, 08:19 AM)
which project with 600sqft with 2 bedroom n bathroom? looking for condo as well recently
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Centro residences

Jalan yahya awal


So small

You work at sg?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 27 2023, 08:28 AM)
Centro residences

Jalan yahya awal
So small

You work at sg?
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Nope in JB. but HQ SG public listed company.
so used to SG work culture.
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QUOTE(Xsence @ Mar 26 2023, 02:11 PM)
I wake up at 6 to go gym ;(
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Everday?

What time you sleep at night?
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QUOTE(Femsroot @ Mar 26 2023, 03:00 PM)
U don’t need worry too much. She will find her life 1 day. When she got bf, she will learn to b pretty n clean. When got husband will learn to cook n wash. When got kids will learn to b a mum. She is just same as 90% of the teen in the world.
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Your family also like that?
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QUOTE(skyblu3 @ Mar 26 2023, 10:44 AM)
Your sis got bf ?
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QUOTE(enviro @ Mar 26 2023, 11:38 AM)
Do online test for autism to exclude.
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does she have low self esteem issue?
maybe her social circle is toxic
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QUOTE(vaksin @ Mar 26 2023, 06:55 AM)
tell her do grab food/car, slowly see how...
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We do not Possess a vehicle that’s not older than 10 years.

So grab taxi cannot
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QUOTE(jay @ Mar 27 2023, 08:49 AM)
does she have low self esteem issue?
maybe her social circle is toxic
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She just lazy
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 27 2023, 07:43 AM)
Diploma or degree?
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Diploma, after that i don't know if he continue to degree or start working.
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QUOTE(Knnbuccb @ Mar 26 2023, 11:51 AM)
Depends on what she do if she sleep late. If she the kind sleep late bingeing on Korean drama, I can say Ur sister is ggfied unless she pretty. If she pretty sure got many simps, don't mind charsiew wife as long as can be trophy for him to show off .

I'd rather have an average looking hardworking woman as my wife than a pretty but lazy materialistic woman.
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I also same mind with you.Last time my collague also face like that
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No

She just lazy
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then she need a heart breaker cool2.gif
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Rotan her until she berbelang2 like harimau.
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No.why
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I also same mind with you.Last time my collague also face like that
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Face what. Pretty gf but gold digger and useless?
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If cun can lazy ,no cun cannot lazy?
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Of course, that's the most important asset of a woman.cun, u appear in tiktok insta also earn a lot. Not cun everyday work like banggala also no become rich

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no picture...... i'm guess not active for 2 years maybe sister so wide till cannot fit into picture.
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Opening a sister thread in /k/. Whatchu expect ?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 27 2023, 08:01 AM)
If cun can lazy ,no cun cannot lazy?
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Although if unlucky when old and kena dump usually they cry victim
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 27 2023, 08:35 AM)
Everday?

What time you sleep at night?
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I workout 4 days a week, hike once a week.

Regardless I still wake-up around 6-7 daily. I don't need alarm at this point.
I sleep at 1030-12 depending. I try my best to get 7-8 hour. And I usually get it.
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But your work 1 year in sg = work 3 year in myr I don't agree thou. Unless you stay in JB. But then you sacrifice qol by alot.
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SG life more stress out right?
But good money.
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See how much a typical SG making in a common gig work = https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5367527

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Thanks...
Your reply is very useful
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QUOTE(Xsence @ Mar 27 2023, 10:31 AM)
But your work 1 year in sg = work 3 year in myr I don't agree thou. Unless you stay in JB. But then you sacrifice qol by alot.
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https://ec.europa.eu/eurostat/web/quality-of-life/data

I rent room in sg.
Actually depends,if you got your own family like kids then you lost time spent with them

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Your family also like that?
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No
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Sounds really like a hidden depression.
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Since 2020 year never go back to school anymore....

2020 and 2021 is online school
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Online school because of pandemic? While I'm in college, I sleep 4-5 am, woke up 12-2pm, unless got class. After graduated still able to adjust to normal life ok jer, earning decent income now.
What she love to do during her younger age? I use to be artistic person, love drawing, instrument and history, but my parent love to discourage my interests, typical asian parent don't like this kind of talent. After years of discouragement I kinda losing the inner me, lost interest in everything. So end up I just spending my time on the internet until late night playing and chatting in the game with friend during my college life.

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 27 2023, 12:24 PM)
https://ec.europa.eu/eurostat/web/quality-of-life/data

I rent room in sg.
Actually depends,if you got your own family like kids then you lost time spent with them

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Well I for one can't stay in room lol so yeah. And a studio cost a bomb there 🤷
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QUOTE(ragk @ Mar 27 2023, 05:33 PM)
Online school because of pandemic? While I'm in college, I sleep 4-5 am, woke up 12-2pm, unless got class. After graduated still able to adjust to normal life ok jer, earning decent income now.
What she love to do during her younger age? I use to be artistic person, love drawing, instrument and history, but my parent love to discourage my interests, typical asian parent don't like this kind of talent. After years of discouragement I kinda losing the inner me, lost interest in everything. So end up I just spending my time on the internet until late night playing and chatting in the game with friend during my college life.
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But do you fail your final year project?
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But do you fail your final year project?
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Dint fail my final year, but I did repeat 1 subject which cause me to extend 1 year
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We do not Possess a vehicle that’s not older than 10 years.

So grab taxi cannot
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Can buy 2nd hand bro.. still can cover it...
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Can buy 2nd hand bro.. still can cover it...
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Buy proton saga?
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If cun can lazy ,no cun cannot lazy?
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BHMD3203 Research Methodology In Arts

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which is the date of presentations?


i want to buy bus tickets

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QUOTE(red_satu @ Mar 26 2023, 12:02 AM)
Ask her what she's doing until 3am first. You don't seem to know what she's actually doing even if you say "almost nothing". Remember, your own definition of "productive activity" might not be the same as hers.
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I agree with your viewpoint.

I suspect she's either playing computer or mobile phone games, or else watching ALL kinds of weird videos on the Net?
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First I applaud TS for wanting to be a good brother to your sister?

But I would suggest that you might wanna tone down a bit on the calling her lazy part?

Neither useful nor helpful.

This post has been edited by Adelyyne: Apr 22 2023, 02:59 PM
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?
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Probs she has other issues shes dealing with? Friends? peers? Probably keeping to herself? Maybe should ask her if shes okay or not first... Then re-affirm her youre there to help her if she has any issues. sweat.gif
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 22 2023, 01:09 PM)
Kuala Lumpur Main Campus
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DEPARTMENT OF CREATIVE INDUSTRIES BACHELOR OF CREATIVE MULTIMEDIA (HONOURS)
BHMD3203 Research Methodology In Arts

Bachelor of Creative Multimedia (Honours)
which is the date of presentations?
i want to buy bus tickets
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Another thing is what kinda work are your family members expecting from her AFTER she completed her project and finally managed to graduate?? (Wow! I didn't even realise that the final year project can drag on for this amount of time??)

I suspect she herself has no clue.

If you wanna motivate her to complete her uni studies, maybe you can start here??
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Anyway whatever happened to her first final year project? Because you mentioned she is repeating this subject.

The professors failed her?

Any reason(s) they gave?
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Big bro don't know youngest sister doing OF until 3AM
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 22 2023, 01:47 PM)
Anyway whatever happened to her first final year project? Because you mentioned she is repeating this subject.

The professors failed her?

Any reason(s) they gave?
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she need to wrote 30 pages of articles....

she cannot complete
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she need to wrote 30 pages of articles....

she cannot complete
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Ask chatgpt for help
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Ask chatgpt for help
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she need to wrote 30 pages of articles....

she cannot complete
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Then you can help her la!!

Help her write at least one third of THAT 30 pages.
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she need to wrote 30 pages of articles....

she cannot complete
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Or else start a new thread here in kopitiam and ask for input.

On the kinda stuff she can and should include in her final year thesis.

BTW it's a thesis, not a project.

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Normal student life?

I remember staying up very late, sometimes missing classes bec overslept or too cold to get out of bed or hangover.


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QUOTE(countingcrows @ Apr 22 2023, 03:06 PM)
Normal student life?

I remember staying up very late, sometimes missing classes bec overslept or too cold to get out of bed or hangover.
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but final year thesis done?


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Normal student life?

I remember staying up very late, sometimes missing classes bec overslept or too cold to get out of bed or hangover.
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Hangover because of drinking alcohol??

Wow.
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Hangover because of drinking alcohol??

Wow.
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Uni life is supposed to be fun, no? biggrin.gif
Total freedom. You're in charge of your life. Period.

No one is going to wake you up to go to class. No one cares if you go to class.

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but final year thesis done?
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Sure. For me lectures were not important as attendance is not taken.
Tutes, assignments, and finals were.


I remember cramming all my classes and tutes from Mon to Wed.
So, I had Thu, Fri, Sat, and Sun free to do whatever...
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Pic of sis , so we can give better advice
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Uni life is supposed to be fun, no?  biggrin.gif
Total freedom. You're in charge of your life. Period.

No one is going to wake you up to go to class. No one cares if you go to class.
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I don't recall having your kinda mentality.

To me it was just the beginning of adulthood with its corresponding responsibilities, freedom, rights etc.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Apr 22 2023, 01:09 PM)
Kuala Lumpur Main Campus
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BHMD3203 Research Methodology In Arts

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which is the date of presentations?
i want to buy bus tickets
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Just marry her of to RtK. RtK will provide her and give her guidances


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I don't recall having your kinda mentality.

To me it was just the beginning of adulthood with its corresponding responsibilities, freedom, rights etc.
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I don't know. I suppose it's different living on your own.
But it sucks when you fall sick or injure yourself.
You want your mom to do stuff for you but you have to suck it up and deal with it on your own.


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QUOTE(countingcrows @ Apr 22 2023, 08:15 PM)
I don't know. I suppose it's different living on your own.
But it sucks when you fall sick or injure yourself.
You want your mom to do stuff for you but you have to suck it up and deal with it on your own.
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I didn't stay on my own during the 4 years of uni life in Sydney.

I was totally HOMESICK!!

Anyway I stayed in the students' hostel for ALL 4 years and went to church on Sundays to try get over my homesickness. And also to try make some human connections.

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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 22 2023, 08:26 PM)
I didn't stay on my own during the 4 years of uni life in Sydney.

I was totally HOMESICK!!

Anyway I stayed in the students' hostel for ALL 4 years and went to church on Sundays to try get over my homesickness. And also to try make some human connections.
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what you study in degree?
you got scholarship?


do you like Australia or sg more ?
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 22 2023, 08:26 PM)
I didn't stay on my own during the 4 years of uni life in Sydney.

I was totally HOMESICK!!

Anyway I stayed in the students' hostel for ALL 4 years and went to church on Sundays to try get over my homesickness. And also to try make some human connections.
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I did stay in halls too. So many activities, no? Esp during orientation. Barbies and beer, toga parties.
And all the MY, SG, HK student unions will organize activities like Asian Night at clubs, trips like skiing at Blue Mtns, Ayers Rock.
Plus my friends liked to frequent the casino which wasn't such a good idea now that I'm wiser but at the time YOLO.
We went to strip clubs, movies, and one of my Indonesian friends was addicted to brothels and kept pestering me to go but I didn't.

Anyway, I was never homesick and TS's sister is pretty good if all she's doing is staying up late playing games I think.

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QUOTE(countingcrows @ Apr 22 2023, 11:30 PM)
I did stay in halls too. So many activities, no? Esp during orientation. Barbies and beer, toga parties.
And all the MY, SG, HK student unions will organize activities like Asian Night at clubs, trips like skiing at Blue Mtns, Ayers Rock.
Plus my friends liked to frequent the casino which wasn't such a good idea now that I'm wiser but at the time YOLO.
We went to strip clubs, movies, and one of my Indonesian friends was addicted to brothels and kept pestering me to go but I didn't.

Anyway, I was never homesick and TS's sister is pretty good if all she's doing is staying up late playing games I think.
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She probably stayed in uni lodge not Malaysian Hall
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what you study in degree?
you got scholarship?
do you like Australia or sg more ?
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I studied electrical engineering. Yes, I got the Australian government's full scholarship. If not I wouldn't have gone.

I was born in Singapore and grew up there. Guess I much prefer the foods in SG la!
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QUOTE(countingcrows @ Apr 22 2023, 11:30 PM)
I did stay in halls too. So many activities, no? Esp during orientation. Barbies and beer, toga parties.
And all the MY, SG, HK student unions will organize activities like Asian Night at clubs, trips like skiing at Blue Mtns, Ayers Rock.
Plus my friends liked to frequent the casino which wasn't such a good idea now that I'm wiser but at the time YOLO.
We went to strip clubs, movies, and one of my Indonesian friends was addicted to brothels and kept pestering me to go but I didn't.

Anyway, I was never homesick and TS's sister is pretty good if all she's doing is staying up late playing games I think.
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The hostel I stayed is called the Women's College in Sydney University.

I don't think there was a casino or any strip clubs at my time?? I was there from 1991-1994. But yes I did go to the Asian night dinners, watched a few movies and also went skiing at Blue Mountain or maybe the location was in Canberra. Not sure anymore. I didn't manage to go to Ayers Rock though.

TS's sister is staying with her family members during her uni days. And so is definitely leading a very different life from overseas students. Even though she is just staying up late and playing online games, I feel her lack of motivation and discipline is indeed worrying and will be the stumbling block for her graduation.
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QUOTE(Adelyyne @ Apr 23 2023, 07:29 AM)
The hostel I stayed is called the Women's College in Sydney University.

I don't think there was a casino or any strip clubs at my time?? I was there from 1991-1994. But yes I did go to the Asian night dinners, watched a few movies and also went skiing at Blue Mountain or maybe the location was in Canberra. Not sure anymore. I didn't manage to go to Ayers Rock though.

TS's sister is staying with her family members during her uni days. And so is definitely leading a very different life from overseas students. Even though she is just staying up late and playing online games, I feel her lack of motivation and discipline is indeed worrying and will be the stumbling block for her graduation.
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finally she submit all thesis and video


But video cannot be played


Code issue

But lecturer should be ok with it
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finally she submit all thesis and video
But video cannot be played
Code issue

But lecturer should be ok with it
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Wow.

Very good la 🙏😊😊

TS sounds like a caring, loving and excellent brother 👍👍.
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QUOTE(red_satu @ Mar 26 2023, 12:02 AM)
Ask her what she's doing until 3am first. You don't seem to know what she's actually doing even if you say "almost nothing". Remember, your own definition of "productive activity" might not be the same as hers.
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Watch tiktok or bilibili


this is May 2023


But finally finish

Now september 2023

No yet make resume

Jobstreet.....
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Sep 10 2023, 08:06 AM)
Watch tiktok or bilibili
this is May 2023
But finally finish

Now september 2023

No yet make resume

Jobstreet.....
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sure a landwhale thats why no motivation
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Just marry her of to RtK. RtK will provide her and give her guidances
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Waifu "lazy and unmotivated".
Hubby gila.
Imagine how the kids will turn out.

Just don't.
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can do OF or fansonly content, step bro videos, cousin videos. maybe you guys should stop providing her money and food so if she want to survive she have to work for it.
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Sis needs piap to be motivated
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when you put 1 person's survival at stake, there will be only 2 result... either they grow become better person, or they end their life.
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Ask her what she's doing until 3am first. You don't seem to know what she's actually doing even if you say "almost nothing". Remember, your own definition of "productive activity" might not be the same as hers.
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Finally, she received a job offer with a degree in Multimedia Design for the position of Marketing Officer at a property company.



The basic salary is RM 2200, with an additional RM 300 for meals, which may not be included in the KWSP calculation.




Should she accept this offer at johor bahru, or should she explore job opportunities in Singapore?


I'm concerned about the work permit and the potential difficulty in obtaining an S Pass, even with her experience.
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before married I didn't know. 30+  no kid.
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Finally, she received a job offer with a degree in Multimedia Design for the position of Marketing Officer at a property company.



The basic salary is RM 2200, with an additional RM 300 for meals, which may not be included in the KWSP calculation.




Should she accept this offer at johor bahru, or should she explore job opportunities in Singapore?


I'm concerned about the work permit and the potential difficulty in obtaining an S Pass, even with her experience.
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Finally, she received a job offer with a degree in Multimedia Design for the position of Marketing Officer at a property company.
The basic salary is RM 2200, with an additional RM 300 for meals, which may not be included in the KWSP calculation.
Should she accept this offer at johor bahru, or should she explore job opportunities in Singapore?
I'm concerned about the work permit and the potential difficulty in obtaining an S Pass, even with her experience.
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Can just accept job offer first and look for job in singapore or any other country for that matter
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Can just accept job offer first and look for job in singapore or any other country for that matter
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Just work at johor bahru 1 year first?
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Just work at johor bahru 1 year first?
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My daughter also getting that amount
Just out of university.


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Mar thread now Oct, topic still on?
ts your sister ok?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
Finally, she received a job offer with a degree in Multimedia Design for the position of Marketing Officer at a property company.
The basic salary is RM 2200, with an additional RM 300 for meals, which may not be included in the KWSP calculation.
Should she accept this offer at johor bahru, or should she explore job opportunities in Singapore?
I'm concerned about the work permit and the potential difficulty in obtaining an S Pass, even with her experience.
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?

Finally she finish FYP and submitted.

Now, it's September 2023, and she hasn't even started looking for a job.

Jobstreet.com.my - just complete your profile.

Yesterday, I asked her in the car, and she said she's scared of interviews
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My straight and realistic answer is NO. Stay in malaisya and get some working experience first. Stop thinking that sinkapok is some gold mine that you can instantly earn t20 salary. It is not.

You need to know and understand that every job you are looking at, there are easily 20 malaisyans with way more experience wanting it also.

Sinkapok is extremely competitive and slacking is not an option. If you don't work hard and strive to improve, you will be left behind and you could lose your job very fast. I have just seen someone who lost his job after just 3 weeks.


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Multimedia degree but get a marketing job?
It just doesnt sound right what your sister really wants

Anyhow, property developer is a big pool and she can starts from there
who knows she'd become property agency top 10 agent in 10years driving latest i4 and park infront TS: "masuk je la my useless brother" thing like that
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My daughter also getting that amount
Just out of university.
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Degree holder also?


So she accept the offer?

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Mar thread now Oct, topic still on?
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At least better than me. Last time my salary 1600 only year 2012.. im spm only

Now i working in gov.. salary rm 2700 only..
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At least better than me. Last time my salary 1600 only year 2012.. im spm only

Now i working in gov.. salary rm 2700 only..
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the change have to be from within, you can't force your sister to change.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 26 2023, 12:24 AM)
Finally, she received a job offer with a degree in Multimedia Design for the position of Marketing Officer at a property company.
The basic salary is RM 2200, with an additional RM 300 for meals, which may not be included in the KWSP calculation.
Should she accept this offer at johor bahru, or should she explore job opportunities in Singapore?
I'm concerned about the work permit and the potential difficulty in obtaining an S Pass, even with her experience.
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?

Finally she finish FYP and submitted.

Now, it's September 2023, and she hasn't even started looking for a job.

Jobstreet.com.my - just complete your profile.

Yesterday, I asked her in the car, and she said she's scared of interviews
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Finally, she received a job offer with a degree in Multimedia Design for the position of Marketing Officer at a property company.
The basic salary is RM 2200, with an additional RM 300 for meals, which may not be included in the KWSP calculation.
Should she accept this offer at johor bahru, or should she explore job opportunities in Singapore?
I'm concerned about the work permit and the potential difficulty in obtaining an S Pass, even with her experience.
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Accept current offer. Today strawberry gen really topkek one, you think she can survive in Singapore leh
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Accept current offer. Today strawberry gen really topkek one, you think she can survive in Singapore leh
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But same job environment suffer..

Why not take high salary in sg?
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But same job environment suffer..

Why not take high salary  in sg?
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if she lack of motivation, hardly she can survive in singapore environment. Accept job jer, get some working experience, learn to be socialize with co-worker, once she familiar with working, she can decide herself to continue, jump company or to singapore, you don't need to plan too much for her.
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But same job environment suffer..

Why not take high salary  in sg?
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Same same suffer, but doesn't mean SG company willing to pay for non-efficient foreign worker. We are the kuli there


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She will not survive in Singkie Land. The job is either she take it or leave it. There are still many shortlisted applicants.
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May I know what is the sector?
Nutrition food

Degree holder also?
So she accept the offer?
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Food industry (Health food)

Yes degree holder in Nutrition

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Cukor. Take the job. At least she can learn how to sleep and wake up for normal work hours.

Not sleep 3am wake up noon. Got a job in white house, us also susah la ni macam.

You get my point

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Cukor. Take the job. At least she can learn how to sleep and wake up for normal work hours.

Not sleep 3am wake up noon. Got a job in white house, us also susah la ni macam.

You get my point
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You are right man

But I worry that after she works in Johor, she will settle down in Johor. She might not go to Singapore to find a job after gaining one year of experience in Johor.


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with abundance of fresh grads... having a job considered very lucky.

want to demand higher salary.... wait got few years experience first.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Oct 5 2023, 12:35 PM)
You are right man

But I worry that after she works in Johor, she will settle down in Johor. She might not go to Singapore to find a job after gaining one year of experience in Johor.
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Let her decide on that later ba.
Most importantly get her out from the house to a work life. Mix around with coliqs, talk work, experience humans at work, a life after work exhaustion, tasking, kena grind, what is role play, assignments, responsibility at work and finally the reward of a hardwork on her (hopefully). Let her tune in

All the best to your sis, mate. You can only monitor and guide step-by-step.

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Let her decide

people nowadays everyday play rubbish tiktok and pink book

everyday watching rich people, what is 2.2k for her?
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want to demand higher salary.... wait got few years experience first.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
Finally, she received a job offer with a degree in Multimedia Design for the position of Marketing Officer at a property company.
The basic salary is RM 2200, with an additional RM 300 for meals, which may not be included in the KWSP calculation.
Should she accept this offer at johor bahru, or should she explore job opportunities in Singapore?
I'm concerned about the work permit and the potential difficulty in obtaining an S Pass, even with her experience.
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?

Finally she finish FYP and submitted.

Now, it's September 2023, and she hasn't even started looking for a job.

Jobstreet.com.my - just complete your profile.

Yesterday, I asked her in the car, and she said she's scared of interviews
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Bring her to pasar seni, Central market. Let her see the beggars sitting at the side of the road, pedestrian bridge and ask her. Which one u are more scared now?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Oct 5 2023, 12:35 PM)
You are right man

But I worry that after she works in Johor, she will settle down in Johor. She might not go to Singapore to find a job after gaining one year of experience in Johor.
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I know a lot of rejected Johor ppl who can't find work in Singapore usually come to KL to cari makan ... LOL
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what sector?
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Anyway, RM 2.5k is a good starting pay for non-KL / Selangor job.. I started way lower than that on my 1st job
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Ask her what she's doing until 3am first. You don't seem to know what she's actually doing even if you say "almost nothing". Remember, your own definition of "productive activity" might not be the same as hers.
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Sorry TS...she is richer than you.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
Finally, she received a job offer with a degree in Multimedia Design for the position of Marketing Officer at a property company.
The basic salary is RM 2200, with an additional RM 300 for meals, which may not be included in the KWSP calculation.
Should she accept this offer at johor bahru, or should she explore job opportunities in Singapore?
I'm concerned about the work permit and the potential difficulty in obtaining an S Pass, even with her experience.
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.

Now, she is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.
She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

I asked her to join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6am or 7am, but she refused.

How can someone bring about change in their life?

Finally she finish FYP and submitted.

Now, it's September 2023, and she hasn't even started looking for a job.

Jobstreet.com.my - just complete your profile.

Yesterday, I asked her in the car, and she said she's scared of interviews
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Finance / Accounts sector

Anyway, RM 2.5k is a good starting pay for non-KL / Selangor job.. I started way lower than that on my 1st job
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Johor Bahru area salary so low
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She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.

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sounds like my sister last time, but now she has changed
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After careful consideration and reviewing the responsibilities of the role, I believe that a salary of RM 2,500 + RM 300 is more aligned with the value I can bring to the company.


I appreciate the offer exceeding my initial request and believe this adjustment reflects my qualifications and the market standard for this position.


Like this ok?
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Fresh grads RM2500++ is considered the minimum wage in developed states (Johor, Penang, KL). We are only getting RM1500 here for fresh grads in undeveloped states and things are not as cheap as everyone thought.

Take the offer first, no ? Gain experience and money to work in SG later ? Going to SG is not an easy feat. You need a lump sum of money to settle down first such as food and rental. Unless the family can pay the bills first.

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QUOTE(kawa_e @ Oct 6 2023, 04:08 PM)
Fresh grads RM2500++ is considered the minimum wage in developed states (Johor, Penang, KL). We are only getting RM1500 here for fresh grads in undeveloped states and things are not as cheap as everyone thought.

Take the offer first, no ? Gain experience and money to work in SG later ? Going to SG is not an easy feat. You need a lump sum of money to settle down first such as food and rental. Unless the family can pay the bills first.
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She work 6 months then resigned.

She just resigned on april 2024,now no job........
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So the update is, she graduated, got a job, then she resigned on Apr 2024?

What is she doing now?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.
She is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.(March 2023)

She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

Fortunately, her university lecturer helped her. I even asked her to check her university email. However, she kept ignoring her lecturer's inquiries and didn't want to reply.
July 2023,The subject result is out.She passed.
I also suggested she join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6 am, but she refused.
Normally, I wake up at 5:20 am or 5:30 am, and Hutan Bandar opens at 6 am, so few people come that early, and there are plenty of parking spaces available.
She joined a company in October 2023 but resigned in April 2024. She only worked for 6 months and is now jobless.

Now she have a formal university certificate.
How can someone bring about change in their life?
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don't give her money and flash nice stuff/ food in front of her.
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She needs to find someone to chat and bring her there for jogging
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QUOTE(GTA5 @ May 18 2024, 09:37 AM)
So the update is, she graduated, got a job, then she resigned on Apr 2024?

What is she doing now?
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She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.


After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.


My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.


From April 11 th until today, May 18th, there are 37 days.
Haiz....
No find job

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 09:46 AM)
She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.
After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.
My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.
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Wah same lifestyle as me
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Wah same lifestyle as me
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Why you no job also?
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Got job. But still similar lifestyle. Wfh advantage
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wah still alive this thread. so younger sister found job already? or now top paid content creator in of MY?
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macam hikikimori...

some of them lack self confidence, and locks themselves in the house , can last for entire life.

Dependent on parents 100%.

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 09:46 AM)
She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.
After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.
My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.
From April 11 th until today, May 18th, there are 37 days.
Haiz....
No find job
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Is there a chance perhaps she is undergoing some form of depression?
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Is there a chance perhaps she is undergoing some form of depression?
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Totally no.

Just lazy..

What is the solution?
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Totally no.

Just lazy..

What is the solution?
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What major she graduated in?

Perhaps not she don't want to find, but lacking of opportunities?

What does your parents say?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 10:27 AM)
Totally no.

Just lazy..

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Kek lazy

Go die
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see can save or not
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 10:46 AM)
She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.
After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.
My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.
From April 11 th until today, May 18th, there are 37 days.
Haiz....
No find job
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For 8 months my wife

Sleep at 4am
Wake up at 3pm

Doing nothing but mostly sleep, eat, play her mobile games , Facebook and Instagram and TikTok

Note: she was in her maternity leave

Now she back to work 9-5 job , but still remote working
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get married.
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Can change life?
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Just ignore her and do not give her any money . If possible ask your mum not to give to. Force her out of comfort zone

Once she desperate to buy something she will get a job.
Hopefully she don't have credit card
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm or 12pm.
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.
She is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.(March 2023)

She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

Fortunately, her university lecturer helped her. I even asked her to check her university email. However, she kept ignoring her lecturer's inquiries and didn't want to reply.
July 2023,The subject result is out.She passed.
I also suggested she join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6 am, but she refused.
Normally, I wake up at 5:20 am or 5:30 am, and head straight to Hutan Bandar, arriving around 5:50 am.
Since Hutan Bandar opens at 6 am, few people arrive that early, and there are plenty of parking spaces available.
She joined a company in October 2023 but resigned in April 2024. She only worked for 6 months and is now jobless.

Now she has a formal university certificate.
She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.
After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.
My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.
How can someone bring about change in their life?
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so free

ask her to play shopee to collect more coins lah

shake shake shake...shopee shopee shopee
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 09:34 AM)
She work 6 months then resigned.

She just resigned on april 2024,now no job........
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QUOTE(Phoenix_KL @ May 18 2024, 10:02 AM)
get married.
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This^^^^

Meleis way to fix it thru marriage, cinis may not like it but having real responsibilities pushes some people for the better
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She wants a family. How pretty is she? Can she take care of kids? Looking for a partner to build a nest with
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What is her hobby beside scrolling those app?
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u are facing generation shift, may i know how old your gap between her ?

yes she produce result and earn her degree with repeat that is perfectly normal because degree will show people true colour that it come with suicide thought and desperation as a phase before growing into more human.

people like her wont want to stay active with outside activity, i fully understand that as well due to traumatic degree time , she probably feel burden or waste of time going with someone outside

she resign after 6 month, u need someone around her age or her close social friend to talk with her, there is nothing u can do

to bring someone change their life , it would be very difficult, generally to say repeated student dont have much greater in later life due to everyone moving at flash speed and ''stomped her'' along the competition way that loss her motivation to live

is she that type of girl who love anime and game also ? make sense if she cosplay and saw her at cf 2024

anyway did she have family parent problem also ? that contributed to her mental well being also

how old she is ? 29 ? she probably worry whether to marry or not because once it hit 35-40 life changed

got inheritance issue ?



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Traumatic past make her what she become today and some existing family / personal issue should solve as soon as possible

the only way to improve herself is not to bring competition thing to her and bring her someone around her age , around her level and give them space to talk

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Zhut her so that she got the motivation to go outside
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Must be more than 25% body fat. Even sleep at Chow kit also need to maintain body shape la.
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QUOTE(nelson969 @ May 18 2024, 11:39 AM)
u are facing generation shift, may i know how old your gap between her ?

yes she produce result and earn her degree with repeat that is perfectly normal because degree will show people true colour that it come with suicide thought and desperation as a phase before growing into more human.

people like her wont want to stay active with outside activity, i fully understand that as well due to traumatic degree time , she probably feel burden or waste of time going with someone outside

she resign after 6 month, u need someone around her age or her close social friend to talk with her, there is nothing u can do

to bring someone change their life , it would be very difficult, generally to say repeated student dont have much greater in later life due to everyone moving at flash speed and ''stomped her'' along the competition way that loss her motivation to live

is she that type of girl who love anime and game also ? make sense if she cosplay and saw her at cf 2024

anyway did she have family parent problem also ? that contributed to her mental well being also

how old she is ? 29 ? she probably worry whether to marry or not because once it hit 35-40 life changed

got inheritance issue ?
TLDR
Traumatic past make her what she become today and some existing family / personal issue should solve as soon as possible

the only way to improve herself is not to bring competition thing to her and bring her someone around her age , around her level and give them space to talk
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This sounds like the solution. TS can try.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 09:46 AM)
She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.
After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.
My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.
From April 11 th until today, May 18th, there are 37 days.
Haiz....
No find job
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Hi TS your sister is addicted to contents. This addiction is like a drug it already alter her brain pattern and she won't be able to focus much less work. Solution is to remove the hp and all electronics. She will suffer withdrawal symptoms but later will improve. China is doing it lol. Some people do all that but they can still work and perform well. They can separate their life between work and play, each different attitude and personality. Your sister probably been spoiled since young and thus she doesn't learn to stop indulging herself and control her impulse. Sadly no easy way to help her. Even if you stop giving her money and kick her out, she will take easy way out like sell body to make ends meet and buy a new phone. You as brother did your best, your parents is the wrong failed in teaching their daughter.

My younger sister also play games until 2am watch anime discord etc mostly because influenced by me when young but she excel in uni 4.0 cgpa the entire way and got herself into a good company earning good money and my parents pamper her very much now. She got all sorts of gadgets and gaming consoles bought using her own salary.

Another example is my wife friend's husband, also into anime go comic fiesta house full of figurines that's his hobby his friends all similar otakus but when work he performs. Now go to sg and earning a lot money but will indulge in expensive food and luxury goods with their own salary.

So it's not about the games and anime etc, it's the mindset. She just lazy to work because addicted to contents.
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What is her hobby beside scrolling those app?
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I kinda understand your situation TS, my youngest brother kinda like that too. Graduated 2 years ago I think, till now still goyang kaki at home. Me and my middle brother dunno what to do anymore. Help finding him job openings, my wife helped do his resume, talked to some friends who are willing to help interview..mom started to become annoyed also. Dad already retired. Mom will retire next year
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 09:34 AM)
She work 6 months then resigned.

She just resigned on april 2024,now no job........
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None of us could afford to resign unless being fired. No matter how hard or dislike you are with the job, we have to secure a new job first then only resign the current. To date I am still working in my current company. Just one increment after working for 6 years.. I tried sending out resumes for half a year but hearing no feedback. Maybe I am not trying hard enough and don't have demandable skills.

I bet your sister will have higher chance because she is still young. Nowadays companies are seeking young grads and not older people like me. Srs post.. not trolling.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 10:27 AM)
Totally no.

Just lazy..

What is the solution?
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Lazy won't get bad karma la. Not like she doing bad thing to harm people in online or outside. After reach 30 age will more mature lor.
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Hi TS, I suspect your sister have psychological issues.

It could be autism or something not permanent due to affect from surrounding

Better bring her to psychologist
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must be lazy fk landwhale faceprob juior.

if hot being paiap daddy already no job no lazy issue
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QUOTE(buka tingkap @ May 18 2024, 12:18 PM)
I kinda understand your situation TS, my youngest brother kinda like that too. Graduated 2 years ago I think, till now still goyang kaki at home. Me and my middle brother dunno what to do anymore. Help finding him job openings, my wife helped do his resume, talked to some friends who are willing to help interview..mom started to become annoyed also. Dad already retired. Mom will retire next year
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What is his course?

Why he happen like that?
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QUOTE(nelson969 @ May 18 2024, 11:39 AM)
u are facing generation shift, may i know how old your gap between her ?

yes she produce result and earn her degree with repeat that is perfectly normal because degree will show people true colour that it come with suicide thought and desperation as a phase before growing into more human.

people like her wont want to stay active with outside activity, i fully understand that as well due to traumatic degree time , she probably feel burden or waste of time going with someone outside

she resign after 6 month, u need someone around her age or her close social friend to talk with her, there is nothing u can do

to bring someone change their life , it would be very difficult, generally to say repeated student dont have much greater in later life due to everyone moving at flash speed and ''stomped her'' along the competition way that loss her motivation to live

is she that type of girl who love anime and game also ? make sense if she cosplay and saw her at cf 2024

anyway did she have family parent problem also ? that contributed to her mental well being also

how old she is ? 29 ? she probably worry whether to marry or not because once it hit 35-40 life changed

got inheritance issue ?
TLDR
Traumatic past make her what she become today and some existing family / personal issue should solve as soon as possible

the only way to improve herself is not to bring competition thing to her and bring her someone around her age , around her level and give them space to talk
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She is 24.I am 32.

family parent problem.No.


Covid-19 too free at home.

Eat sleep wake up toilet

Repeat almost 3 years...


Many contribute

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: May 18 2024, 06:33 PM
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QUOTE(vapanel @ May 18 2024, 12:55 PM)
Hi TS, I suspect your sister have psychological issues.

It could be autism or something not permanent due to affect from surrounding

Better bring her to psychologist
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She is 24.I am 32.

family parent problem.No.


Covid-19 too free at home.

Eat sleep wake up toilet

Repeat almost 3 years...


Many contribute


Not break up from boyfriend.
No lost money scam....


Should be no psychological issue.....

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 06:34 PM)
She is 24.I am 32.

family parent problem.No.
Covid-19 too free at home.

Eat sleep wake up toilet

Repeat almost 3 years...
Many contribute
Not break up from boyfriend.
No lost money scam....
Should be no psychological issue.....
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she could be only fans at 2am and aready multimilliojnar. dont worry, she will kenang budi. next year she buy 3 S70. one for her, one for her mum, and one for spareparts.

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 06:31 PM)
She is 24.I am 32.

family parent problem.No.
Covid-19  too free at home.

Eat sleep wake up toilet

Repeat almost 3 years...
Many contribute
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same age as my sis,
but now working at MNC

She's working to pay for her pets
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she could be only fans at 2am and aready multimilliojnar. dont worry, she will kenang budi.  next year she buy 3 S70. one for her, one for her mum, and one for spareparts.
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You are dreaming.....
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QUOTE(rtk74 @ May 18 2024, 07:47 PM)
same age as my sis,
but now working at MNC

She's working to pay for her pets
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She got lazy before?
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She got lazy before?
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after work will become extremely lazy
no do housework.
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QUOTE(Accord2018 @ May 18 2024, 12:50 PM)
Lazy won't get bad karma la. Not like she doing bad thing to harm people in online or outside. After reach 30 age will more mature lor.
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Now she only 24...

Need to wait 6 years?



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after work will become extremely lazy
no do housework.
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But she happen before after graduate no find job?

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But she happen before after graduate no find job?
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Nope, before graduate ady find job
we b40
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Your sister is a Nicole?
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What is a nicole?
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ur sister pretty or not
if pretty i marry je la

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QUOTE(Koranshita @ May 18 2024, 11:04 AM)
Just ignore her and do not give her any money . If possible ask your mum not to give to. Force her out of comfort zone

Once she desperate to buy something she will get a job.
Hopefully she don't have credit card
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this! if she has no money, she will have to work n find her own money
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this! if she has no money, she will have to work n find her own money
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what is she rebel and go sell body

thats what most parents afraid of
thats why they just give in
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What is a nicole?
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Word / rumour say nicole / adeline / weird unique english name beside the normal are consider unstable mental
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ur sister pretty or not
if pretty i marry je la
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For sure ugly lah

If pretty, TS wouldnt worry about her

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she could be only fans at 2am and aready multimilliojnar. dont worry, she will kenang budi.  next year she buy 3 S70. one for her, one for her mum, and one for spareparts.
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I kinda understand your situation TS, my youngest brother kinda like that too. Graduated 2 years ago I think, till now still goyang kaki at home. Me and my middle brother dunno what to do anymore. Help finding him job openings, my wife helped do his resume, talked to some friends who are willing to help interview..mom started to become annoyed also. Dad already retired. Mom will retire next year
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Careful, once these char siew leeches get used to this life, foveever will not work, come out that time 30? 35? Expect high celery but companies will omly hire fresh grads or with exp. Oldies at 35 without exp HR see also know got problem

Worse is when ur parents pass away or no money d they steal ur parents money, end up it fall to the siblings responsibility. When ur parents go their last wish is u take care the char siew, that time u really Kam lan I tell u.
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QUOTE(Lembu Goreng @ May 19 2024, 03:37 PM)
For sure ugly lah

If pretty, TS wouldnt worry about her
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u guys dont harap la.. if TS sis hot no way she gonna be at home everyday.. sure a lot BMW / MERZ / FERRARI bring her out daily.
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princess syndrome

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princess syndrome

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I think my mother should scold my sister at 10 PM tonight, saying, Tonight, you better not play on your phone and sleep early. Tomorrow, you need to wake up at 8 AM to prepare breakfast.

If tommorow morning , my sister still doesn't want to wake up, my mother should scold her again at 8 AM for at least 20 minutes.

Last night I asked you to sleep early. Why didn't you want to sleep early?



On the day after tommorow night at 10 PM, my mother should remind my sister to sleep early. There’s a high chance she will sleep early and wake up early to help my mother prepare breakfast.

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Hi TS your sister is addicted to contents. This addiction is like a drug it already alter her brain pattern and she won't be able to focus much less work. Solution is to remove the hp and all electronics. She will suffer withdrawal symptoms but later will improve. China is doing it lol. Some people do all that but they can still work and perform well. They can separate their life between work and play, each different attitude and personality. Your sister probably been spoiled since young and thus she doesn't learn to stop indulging herself and control her impulse. Sadly no easy way to help her. Even if you stop giving her money and kick her out, she will take easy way out like sell body to make ends meet and buy a new phone. You as brother did your best, your parents is the wrong failed in teaching their daughter.

My younger sister also play games until 2am watch anime discord etc mostly because influenced by me when young but she excel in uni 4.0 cgpa the entire way and got herself into a good company earning good money and my parents pamper her very much now. She got all sorts of gadgets and gaming consoles bought using her own salary.

Another example is my wife friend's husband, also into anime go comic fiesta house full of figurines that's his hobby his friends all similar otakus but when work he performs. Now go to sg and earning a lot money but will indulge in expensive food and luxury goods with their own salary.

So it's not about the games and anime etc, it's the mindset. She just lazy to work because addicted to contents.
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She does not want to buy a new phone. She has been working for 6 months but end up resign and has savings of around RM9000. However, she is still using her old phone.

What I dislike is when she sleeps upstairs in her room and then, after being woken up by my mother at 11:30 am, she comes downstairs and sleeps again in my parents' room on the ground floor.

Is she really that tired?


She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?


People outside are already lining up to buy lunch, and you're still sleeping?

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tell her do grab food/car, slowly see how...
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She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?

She is very lazy
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easy, she is yet to meet her Mr right. After she learn her life lesson, she will change. Everything is predefined. you no need to worry her much. mind your own business first. why said one??? everything is predetermined??? my big brother "he" said one. tongue.gif
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What is his course?

Why he happen like that?
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mechanical eng i think or something similar

the best chance he got last time was when a friend of mine looking to hire (he doesn't mind fresh grad or what), asked my brother to pass resume. my bro didn't even try.
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You're trying to 'solve' a problem of youth lying flat. Maybe go see how China / the rest of the world studies the topic of new generations disconnecting from society as a reference?
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easy, she is yet to meet her Mr right. After she learn her life lesson, she will change. Everything is predefined. you no need to worry her much. mind your own business first. why said one??? everything is predetermined??? my big brother "he" said one.  tongue.gif
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Some women only marry by the age of 45.

Some women remain unmarried their whole lives.

So I am worried my sister.

Nowadays, many young people are not getting married like they did in the 80s or 90s.
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You're trying to 'solve' a problem of youth lying flat. Maybe go see how China / the rest of the world studies the topic of new generations disconnecting from society as a reference?
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Actually, last time I logged into her JobStreet account and applied for jobs on her behalf. She was angry, but the next day she wasn't angry anymore.

We are siblings, after all. But unfortunately, she only worked for 6 months before resigning.


I think I should submit applications for her again.


No choice....
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 02:33 PM)
Actually, last time I logged into her JobStreet account and applied for jobs on her behalf. She was angry, but the next day she wasn't angry anymore.

We are siblings, after all. But unfortunately, she only worked for 6 months before resigning.
I think I should submit applications for her again.
No choice....
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I think you're wrong for trying to approach the problem from your perspective rather than hers.

Maybe have a heart-to-heart talk with her on how she imagine her life is going to be in the future, what are her plans long term, etc.
Alot of the China youths going about laying flat are mostly depressed about their own future outlook, if I can summarize that from interviews.
They're stuck between the previous gen's expectations vs their own prospects of the future based on their own observation. Kinda like a midlife crisis before reaching midlife I guess.

I'm not saying be soft, but try to empathize. Maybe if she thinks some future goal is too high of an obstacle then set smaller personal goals first?

-Have a relative that recently quit because she's 'overwhelmed' due to kept bringing home work, my aunt could not understand it because
she worked a factory operator before so homework is an alien concept so she's not helping the situation either with her remarks.
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She does not want to buy a new phone. She has been working for 6 months but end up resign and has savings of around RM9000. However, she is still using her old phone.

What I dislike is when she sleeps upstairs in her room and then, after being woken up by my mother at 11:30 am, she comes downstairs and sleeps again in my parents' room on the ground floor.

Is she really that tired?
She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?
People outside are already lining up to buy lunch, and you're still sleeping?
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quite good at saving if she only works 6 months.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 12:00 PM)
She does not want to buy a new phone. She has been working for 6 months but end up resign and has savings of around RM9000. However, she is still using her old phone.

What I dislike is when she sleeps upstairs in her room and then, after being woken up by my mother at 11:30 am, she comes downstairs and sleeps again in my parents' room on the ground floor.

Is she really that tired?
She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?
People outside are already lining up to buy lunch, and you're still sleeping?
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It's depression. Srs.
Also PM her pic

QUOTE(keybearer @ May 20 2024, 01:41 PM)
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It would be hard for TS since he's from a different generation. Srs.

But yeah, having little to no future outlook will cause this.
RtK felt the same during covid/mco
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QUOTE(keybearer @ May 20 2024, 01:29 PM)
You're trying to 'solve' a problem of youth lying flat. Maybe go see how China / the rest of the world studies the topic of new generations disconnecting from society as a reference?
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layflat or those hikikomori things, if kena depression or broken heart, you let them sink/hibernate in their room for 2 weeks the most, after they have to face the world again, seek external help if require.... once you let them continue for long period it will be harder for them to come out of the shell. those who are hidden away for years will eventually prefer starve to death then to come out. So many japan documentary about these happening.

TS and parents should set some rules, stay at home for free as long as young and stydying... once grad the kids should be expected to contribute to house hold (eletricity/internet) or even pay rent. parents can save the money for them and give back as downpayment is elite enough.

no commitment, sure la buang money here and there, just lepak at home while stretching out their ever savings, while parents folk out everthing, food, utilities, rent/etc
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QUOTE(rtk74 @ May 20 2024, 01:53 PM)
It's depression. Srs.
Also PM her pic
It would be hard for TS since he's from a different generation. Srs.

But yeah, having little to no future outlook will cause this.
RtK felt the same during covid/mco
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Symptoms and Types

During a depressive episode, a person experiences a depressed mood (feeling sad, irritable, or empty). They may feel a loss of pleasure or interest in activities.

A depressive episode differs from normal emotional fluctuations. Depressed mood occurs almost every day, for most of the day, and lasts for at least two weeks.

There are other symptoms, which may include:





Difficulty concentrating
Excessive guilt or low self-worth
Feelings of hopelessness about the future
Thoughts of death or suicide
Sleep disturbances
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Feeling very tired or lacking energy
Depression can create difficulties in various aspects of life, including community and family, work, and school.




Depressive episodes can be classified as mild, moderate, or severe, depending on the number and severity of symptoms and their impact on personal functioning.





I think my sister have internet addiction....

Those tiktok,xiao hong shu,bilibili,youtube is harmful for her.
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coz u guys pampering her too much

if she can get through her daily routines without any form of labor or hardwork invovled, why bother ?

got place to sleep, food to eat and phone to use with electricity and internet, of course she became charsiew
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm.
She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.
She is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.(March 2023)

She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

Fortunately, her university lecturer helped her. I even asked her to check her university email. However, she kept ignoring her lecturer's inquiries and didn't want to reply.
July 2023,The subject result is out.She passed.
I also suggested she join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6 am, but she refused.
Normally, I wake up at 5:20 am or 5:30 am, and head straight to Hutan Bandar, arriving around 5:50 am.
Since Hutan Bandar opens at 6 am, few people arrive that early, and there are plenty of parking spaces available.
She joined a company in October 2023 but resigned in April 2024. She only worked for 6 months and is now jobless.

Now she has a formal university certificate.
She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.
After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.
My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.
How can someone bring about change in their life?
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Buy her a big suitcase. Fill all her clothes in the suitcase and throw outside the gate. Go find job even if you have to squat at Pudu streets with th the tranny prostitute.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 01:30 PM)
Some women only marry by the age of 45.

Some women remain unmarried their whole lives.

So I am worried my sister.

Nowadays, many young people are not getting married like they did in the 80s or 90s.
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Errm it's gods plan. Lazy people with no shame and pride should not have offsprings lor. Omg if not world will be filled with this type of people. I can imagine the kids sleeping at 4am edi
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QUOTE(g5sim @ May 20 2024, 03:22 PM)
Buy her a large suitcase, pack all of her clothes into it, and throw it outside the gate. Then, go find a job, even if you have to live on the streets of Pudu with the transgender prostitutes.
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Wow.So cruel idea.
You do this way before?
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ur parent also no worry

why u worry
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 03:26 PM)
Wow.So cruel idea.
You do this way before?
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Choi! My bro sister kerja B40 jobs no problem. Atleast halal rezeki enough to feed family n save abit!
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 12:00 PM)
She does not want to buy a new phone. She has been working for 6 months but end up resign and has savings of around RM9000. However, she is still using her old phone.

What I dislike is when she sleeps upstairs in her room and then, after being woken up by my mother at 11:30 am, she comes downstairs and sleeps again in my parents' room on the ground floor.

Is she really that tired?
She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?
People outside are already lining up to buy lunch, and you're still sleeping?
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got 9k also no buy new phone consider jimat already. are you too over controlling maybe?
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QUOTE(Accord2018 @ May 20 2024, 03:32 PM)
got 9k also no buy new phone consider jimat already. are you too over controlling maybe?
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she never submit resume on any job vacancy.....
If you are her brother,do you worried?
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Most landwhales are lazy and not motivated to move.
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Most landwhales are lazy and not motivated to move.
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most but not all, some landwhales are hardworking and have good character...only their physicals are the drawback
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 03:58 PM)
she never submit resume on any job vacancy.....
If you are her brother,do you worried?
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Duno why u worry. Just marry and end of story
No matter how bad she look, sure got some simp will take care of her
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QUOTE(Accord2018 @ May 20 2024, 03:32 PM)
got 9k also no buy new phone consider jimat already. are you too over controlling maybe?
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Why must get new phone if the old one works well?


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she never submit resume on any job vacancy.....
If you are her brother,do you worried?
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Need more info la if not how to evaluate? Pretty? Size? IQ level?

QUOTE(Hobbez @ May 20 2024, 04:26 PM)
Why must get new phone if the old one works well?
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Girls will mostly spend on comestic, cloth or foods
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 02:56 PM)
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Those tiktok,xiao hong shu,bilibili,youtube is harmful for her.
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Is depression...
What she's doing is called doomscrolling BTW.

Also, send pic.
If good looking RtK will merries

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i didn't read all 18 pages
but i guess theres must be some good suggestions from ktards
did u try any, ts?
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typical ambitionless leech strawberry gen, 20s but live like 18 year old.

Live rent free, drive family car, spend FAMA money, utilities FAMA cover.

work not because of necessity but because parents ask to get a job only kek.
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Does your sister have depression ? She seems to act that way and don't want to tell you and whole family.
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Nah, she is just lying flat. She got savings, nice place to sleep and free food at the table, so why need bother go out susah payah work? There's no urgency for her to work hard as she already has easy life at her finger tips. To me, she is just enjoying life like a retiree. You need to get her to pay her own rent, food and utilities to give that sense of urgency which will motivate her to go out work for income.

As for the 6am jogging, of course la she won't follow you. You know she sleeps late and wakes up late. It's impossible for her to enjoy the 6AM walk at her current schedule. Either you move the jogging time to her timing, or you find something to incentivize her to sleep early and so she can wake up on at 6AM for your jogging.
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she got BF? if not ask her HMU. I will set her straight.
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She needs to move out. It's too comfortable at home, everything's taken care of. Need some tough love.

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Why TS keep want force sister to enter jungle at 6am?

Not everyone same lifestyle as you la, everyone got their own life, stop forcing your own idiology down your sister throat. She want sleep how late up to her la. First is kick her out of house so she will learn to work. That's what my parents did, kick us out provide a house but need pay maintenance fee, later got work d few savings d then pay installment. That also need to give them 500 a month but is they help save later give back, which they did when I not enough liquid lol
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Maybe ts sister was cheated and hurt by someone and still cannot get out from it

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I can piap the motivation out of her, as long as she is kiut like my kiut sister
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kiut like my sister? puke.gif

u r indicating u wan piap ur sister?
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kiut like my sister?  puke.gif

u r indicating u wan piap ur sister?
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QUOTE(dest9116 @ May 20 2024, 06:01 PM)
Why TS keep want force sister to enter jungle at 6am?

Not everyone has the same lifestyle as you. Everyone has their own life, so stop forcing your own ideology on your sister. If she wants to sleep late, let her. First, kick her out of the house so she will learn to work. That's what my parents did. They kicked us out, provided a house, but we needed to pay the maintenance fee. Later, when we had jobs and some savings, we paid the installment. They also required us to give them 500 a month, but they helped save it and gave it back to us when we needed more liquidity.
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Which year did your parents do this to you and your siblings?

How many years did they do this for you?
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i didn't read all 18 pages
but i guess theres must be some good suggestions from ktards
did u try any, ts?
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On the other hand, focusing on and limiting the use of mobile phones and other electronic devices is an effective way to address the issue at its root.


One possible approach is to create a physical space free from social media,

******** such as keeping all electronic devices out of the bedroom. *************

This can help eliminate the phenomenon of staying up late and doomscrolling, effectively mitigating the negative impacts of excessive use of electronic devices.


This is good method...


But she refused....
I think best is ask her cousin (same age) talk with her.


Same have degree
Now working already

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QUOTE(Fatimus @ May 20 2024, 05:00 PM)
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I ask her go out sometime she is ok..


Should be internet addiction....


Like watch fb or youtube or instagram all days

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QUOTE(suikod3n @ May 20 2024, 04:53 PM)
typical ambitionless leech strawberry gen, 20s but live like 18 year old.

Live rent free, drive family car, spend FAMA money, utilities FAMA cover.

work not because of necessity but because parents ask to get a job only kek.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 11:37 AM)
I think my mother should scold my sister at 10 PM tonight, saying, Tonight, you better not play on your phone and sleep early. Tomorrow, you need to wake up at 8 AM to prepare breakfast.

If tommorow morning , my sister still doesn't want to wake up, my mother should scold her again at 8 AM for at least 20 minutes.

Last night I asked you to sleep early. Why didn't you want to sleep early?
On the day after tommorow night at 10 PM, my mother should remind my sister to sleep early. There’s a high chance she will sleep early and wake up early to help my mother prepare breakfast.
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fatigue
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QUOTE(smallcrab @ May 21 2024, 12:10 AM)
fatigue
possible sign of depression
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But no other syndrome match depression
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QUOTE(sage61 @ May 20 2024, 05:13 PM)
Nah, she is just lying flat. She got savings, nice place to sleep and free food at the table, so why need bother go out susah payah work? There's no urgency for her to work hard as she already has easy life at her finger tips. To me, she is just enjoying life like a retiree. You need to get her to pay her own rent, food and utilities to give that sense of urgency which will motivate her to go out work for income.

As for the 6am jogging, of course la she won't follow you. You know she sleeps late and wakes up late. It's impossible for her to enjoy the 6AM walk at her current schedule. Either you move the jogging time to her timing, or you find something to incentivize her to sleep early and so she can wake up on at 6AM for your jogging.
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No, she is just taking it easy.
She has savings, a nice place to sleep, and free food, so why bother going out to work hard?
There's no urgency for her to work hard since she already has an easy life at her fingertips.
To me, she is just enjoying life like a retiree.
You need to get her to pay her own rent, food, and utilities to give her a sense of urgency that will motivate her to work for an income.
**Current Status**
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**Savings** Yes
**Housing** Comfortable residence
**Food** Free food
**Work** No sense of urgency

**Lying flat**
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**Description** Enjoying life like a retiree
**Reason** No sense of urgency to work

**Solution**
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**Measure** Make her pay for her own rent, food, and utilities
**Goal** Create a sense of urgency to motivate her to work for income


Actually my cousin(same age with my sister) told me this is called comfort zone...


She must be get rid of comfort zone.....

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QUOTE(ameliorate @ May 20 2024, 05:53 PM)
She needs to move out. It's too comfortable at home, everything's taken care of. Need some tough love.
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I don't think my parents will agree. Right now, she lives in her bedroom on the first floor.



I think we should move her room to the ground floor at least.

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QUOTE(Knnbuccb @ May 19 2024, 03:29 PM)
what is she rebel and go sell body

thats what most parents afraid of
thats why they just give in
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provided her body is sellable. parents want to give tongkat until how old? one day when parents not around already, end up she still sell body if she got no money
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syioknye free rent, food, tenet
basically free everything, maybe got pocket mani to buy things too?
liddat, konpem lah no need to work
why bother with work when you got everything for free?

later when parents dai, got inheritance. so free mani lagi, maybe got property/ies too lol
no need to work at all
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 01:33 PM)
Actually, last time I logged into her JobStreet account and applied for jobs on her behalf. She was angry, but the next day she wasn't angry anymore.

We are siblings, after all. But unfortunately, she only worked for 6 months before resigning.
I think I should submit applications for her again.
No choice....
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you can bring the horse to the river but can't force the horse to drink. Sometimes, asking another person whom she trusts to convince her will do the trick.
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It's quite simple. She doesn't have a goal.

When you don't have a goal, there is no purpose.
Also, her personality might be a 7, which is an introvert. Personality 7 would definitely prefer to stay indoors and only interact with stuff that interests her.

You can check the personality number here:
https://seventhlifepath.com/how-to-calculat...onality-number/
Input her name stated on her birth certificate.

If she's not a 7, then that's definitely a sign of depression (someone here already pointed that out). She probably doesn't know what to do, how to start and lost in life.


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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 20 2024, 12:24 PM)
She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?

She is very lazy
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need get new circle, ask her join running/ marathon/ hiking group.
challenge her lh to be active and win medal.... give present if win...
if lazy try become freelance promoter, see my link to consider... hehehe
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
However, she kept ignoring her lecturer's inquiries and didn't want to reply.
July 2023,The subject result is out.She passed.

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How can someone bring about change in their life?
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QUOTE(telement @ May 21 2024, 03:11 AM)
It's quite simple. She doesn't have a goal.

When you don't have a goal, there is no purpose.
Also, her personality might be a 7, which is an introvert. Personality 7 would definitely prefer to stay indoors and only interact with stuff that interests her.

You can check the personality number here:
https://seventhlifepath.com/how-to-calculat...onality-number/
Input her name stated on her birth certificate.

If she's not a 7, then that's definitely a sign of depression (someone here already pointed that out). She probably doesn't know what to do, how to start and lost in life.
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Those with Personality Number 8 are often seen as strong, ambitious, competitive, competent, and confident. You can project an aura of authority and power, and people tend to see you as being well rounded and grounded, with good decision making abilities and business sense. Be wary of appearing too egocentric and greedy.


Not accurate
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I used to be like that, sleep at 3-4am, wake at 2pm, hide in room play ps1, watch dragonball.. But that's during school holiday and college off day. Never jobless, after graduated can't find job immediately, so I work as freelancer designer for 3 months.

Mostly you sis find playing games are more fun than meeting people.
But she will be alright once she start working, have new friends, have some social interaction.

Asking her out for jogging at 6am while she sleep at 3am is too much for her. I agreed than morning breakfast in cafe is better approach in the beginning. Strawberry can't tahan panas, Cafe with aircon have better change to get it started.





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QUOTE(buka tingkap @ May 20 2024, 01:26 PM)
mechanical eng i think or something similar

the best chance he got last time was when a friend of mine looking to hire (he doesn't mind fresh grad or what), asked my brother to pass resume. my bro didn't even try.
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Your parents too manja your sister already, they should ask her do house work if she is not working (Sweeping floor, wipe floor & Etc)

If this drag too long your sister will be "used" to it and very hard to change her life style, just imagine when you marry and your wife stay the same house with your sister then sure your wife nag alot


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Maybe secretly got of acc and earning a lot that you don’t know
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QUOTE(darkwaka @ May 21 2024, 10:40 AM)
Your parents too manja your sister already, they should ask her do house work if she is not working (Sweeping floor, wipe floor & Etc)

If this drag too long your sister will be "used" to it and very hard to change her life style, just imagine when you marry and your wife stay the same house with your sister then sure your wife nag alot
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There is no one size fits all. Maybe TS also not telling the entire truth also.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 21 2024, 12:31 AM)
I don't think my parents will agree. Right now, she lives in her bedroom on the first floor.
I think we should move her room to the ground floor at least.
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stay home is fine.
just need commitment, like pay how much etc for living cost.
right now, all provided to her.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 21 2024, 01:20 AM)
| **Current Status** |                        |
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**Savings**        Yes                   
**Housing**        Comfortable residence 
**Food**          Free food             
**Work**          No sense of urgency   

**Lying flat**                        
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**Description**    Enjoying life like a retiree
**Reason**        No sense of urgency to work

**Solution**                             
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**Measure**        Make her pay for her own rent, food, and utilities
**Goal**          Create a sense of urgency to motivate her to work for income
Actually my cousin(same age with my sister) told me this is called comfort zone...
She must be get rid of comfort zone.....
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Look at it from this perspective. Her lower pyramid needs are being met by living with your parents. As such, she's now challenged by things on the upper segment of the pyramid.

If your goal is only to force a change, you can either a) stop providing her lower pyramid needs or b) you can help explore her challenges in the upper pyramid.

Remember, people can be depressed at any stage of the pyramid. See Kurt Cobain / Anthony Bourdain. Since everyone struggles with different part of the pyramid at any given time, it can sometime be hard to relate.
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Why I feel like the sister ticked all the checklist of a kokokai lifestyle?
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Why I feel like the sister ticked all the checklist of a kokokai lifestyle?
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her natural calling
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i can piap her all night long to keep her motivated.
cute or not cute also never mind.
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QUOTE(Accord2018 @ May 21 2024, 10:45 AM)
There is no one size fits all. Maybe TS also not telling the entire truth also.
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What you want to know?


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she's probably doing night jobs that you don't know.
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QUOTE(keybearer @ May 21 2024, 11:16 AM)
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Look at it from this perspective. Her lower pyramid needs are being met by living with your parents. As such, she's now challenged by things on the upper segment of the pyramid.

If your goal is only to force a change, you can either a) stop providing her lower pyramid needs or b) you can help explore her challenges in the upper pyramid.

Remember, people can be depressed at any stage of the pyramid. See Kurt Cobain / Anthony Bourdain. Since everyone struggles with different part of the pyramid at any given time, it can sometime be hard to relate.
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**Level** **Description**
**(1) Physiological Needs** The most basic requirements for survival, including the need for food, water, clothing, shelter, and mobility. These needs are the strongest motivators of human behavior.
**(2) Safety Needs** The need for security, avoiding threats to livelihood and property, protection from occupational diseases, and relief from harsh oversight. Once met, they no longer motivate.
**(3) Love and Belonging Needs** Includes the need for affection (harmonious relationships, love) and belonging (feeling part of a group). These needs are related to physical characteristics, experiences, education, and religious beliefs.
**(4) Esteem Needs** The desire for a stable social status and recognition of abilities and achievements. Divided into internal respect (self-respect) and external respect (status, prestige). Meeting these needs fills a person with confidence and purpose.
**(5) Self-Actualization Needs** The highest level, involving the realization of personal ideals and ambitions, fullest development of abilities, and performing competent work. This varies from person to person.



Thanks for sharing

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 21 2024, 09:10 AM)
Those with Personality Number 8 are often seen as strong, ambitious, competitive, competent, and confident. You can project an aura of authority and power, and people tend to see you as being well rounded and grounded, with good decision making abilities and business sense. Be wary of appearing too egocentric and greedy.
Not accurate
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She is personality 8? That makes sense. She is lacking power. Every number has a positive and negative side to it. Like I said earlier, she doesn't have a goal, or to be precise: hasn't found a goal yet. So she is leaning towards the negative side of the 8, which is wasteful, fear of taking risks, wasted talent, narrow minded, argumentative, stingy and tensed.

She needs to find a goal. Get out from the house, move to somewhere, get a different view or perspective of life. She needs new ideas, and one that grow from herself. Not ideas from other people.

Advice to her: Go travel...somewhere she never been.


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QUOTE(telement @ May 21 2024, 08:13 PM)
She is personality 8? That makes sense. She is lacking power. Every number has a positive and negative side to it. Like I said earlier, she doesn't have a goal, or to be precise: hasn't found a goal yet. So she is leaning towards the negative side of the 8, which is wasteful, fear of taking risks, wasted talent, narrow minded, argumentative, stingy and tensed.

She needs to find a goal. Get out from the house, move to somewhere, get a different view or perspective of life. She needs new ideas, and one that grow from herself. Not ideas from other people.

Advice to her:  Go travel...somewhere she never been.
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Why you said is opposite one?

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Those with Personality Number 8 are often seen as strong, ambitious, competitive, competent, and confident. You can project an aura of authority and power, and people tend to see you as being well rounded and grounded, with good decision making abilities and business sense. Be wary of appearing too egocentric and greedy.
Not accurate


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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 22 2024, 12:40 AM)
Why you said is opposite one?
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Like I mentioned above, every number has a positive and a negative side to it. The positive side of 8 for her would be ambitious, generous, courageous, competitive, hard-working etc etc. But if she leans towards the negative side of it, then her behavior would be what I mentioned above.

Here, check this YouTube for the positive & negative of each number.
https://youtu.be/2DEx0FyV6gc?si=vx0IaUFgZlTLDypE

Also, did you check her other numbers? Her expression number, Heart Desire or destiny number?

Another thing is also her Personal Year. To check her personal year, need to know her birthday. Her birthday without the year will do. Example: May 8, Sept 9, Oct 4 etc etc


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QUOTE(telement @ May 22 2024, 04:51 AM)
Like I mentioned above, every number has a positive and a negative side to it. The positive side of 8 for her would be ambitious, generous, courageous, competitive, hard-working etc etc. But if she leans towards the negative side of it, then her behavior would be what I mentioned above.

Here, check this YouTube for the positive & negative of each number.
https://youtu.be/2DEx0FyV6gc?si=vx0IaUFgZlTLDypE

Also, did you check her other numbers? Her expression number, Heart Desire or destiny number?

Another thing is also her Personal Year. To check her personal year, need to know her birthday. Her birthday without the year will do. Example: May 8, Sept 9, Oct 4 etc etc
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If only have 2 name how to key in?

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Why you said is opposite one?
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today holiday, she still sleeping?
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QUOTE(Accord2018 @ May 22 2024, 09:31 AM)
today holiday, she still sleeping?
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Today Wesak day.

He follow me to temple.

But yesterday my aunt from overseas come back and sleep with her.

If not she sure sleep at 3am or 4am....
And very tired ,impossible she can wake up at 9.20am today
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 22 2024, 04:00 PM)
Today Wesak day.

He follow me to temple.

But yesterday my aunt from overseas come back and sleep with her.

If not she sure sleep at 3am or 4am....
And very tired ,impossible she can wake up at 9.20am today
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not bad. But you still did not answer my questions previously so I can analyse further?
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QUOTE(Accord2018 @ May 22 2024, 04:02 PM)
not bad. But you still did not answer my questions previously so I can analyse further?
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If only have 2 name how to key in?

https://seventhlifepath.com/numerology-chart-calculator/


Middle name leave blank cannot submit
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If only have 2 name how to key in?

https://seventhlifepath.com/numerology-chart-calculator/
Middle name leave blank cannot submit
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If only Andy lau, then first is Andy and Lau is last? Not sure eh. Just put la and try.

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QUOTE(Accord2018 @ May 22 2024, 05:10 PM)
If only Andy lau, then first is Andy and Lau is last? Not sure eh. Just put la and try.
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Actually your website is like fortune telling right?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 22 2024, 05:14 PM)
Note: Your Current/Short Name should not include your middle name, if you have one, nor should it be a nickname. Rather it is a name you use on a daily basis to introduce yourself with. You might want to use Mike instead of Michael for example. If you are married, or had a name change, it would also apply here.

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Actually your website is like fortune telling right?
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You quote wrong people is it. Not my website. laugh.gif

What your sis doing now? Playing games or tablet or phone? You also playing leh. laugh.gif
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QUOTE(Accord2018 @ May 22 2024, 05:17 PM)
You quote wrong people is it. Not my website.  laugh.gif

What your sis doing now? Playing games or tablet or phone? You also playing leh.  laugh.gif
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She is watching a movie, video introduction, or song on Bilibili China apps.


I work tomorrow.


Today is my rest day.

Why I cannot play phone?

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 22 2024, 09:28 AM)
Note: Your Current/Short Name should not include your middle name, if you have one, nor should it be a nickname. Rather it is a name you use on a daily basis to introduce yourself with. You might want to use Mike instead of Michael for example. If you are married, or had a name change, it would also apply here.

If you see something that needs fixing, please use the BACK button below.
If only have 2 name how to key in?

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Use the name on the birth certificate. That's the most important one. You don't have to separate your name into the first name, middle name or last name. Can put the whole name into 1 field and leave the 2 empty.

Basically A is 1, B is 2, C is 3. Once it reaches 9, the next letter is 1. So J is 1.

It will add the numbers from your name alphabets and give you the following:
1) All alphabets from your name: Your expression number... This number tells you how to go about achieving your life path. (Life path btw is your date of birth)

2) All the consonants in your name = your personality

3) All the vowels in your name = your heart's desire (what truly makes you happy).




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QUOTE(telement @ May 23 2024, 08:48 AM)
Use the name on the birth certificate. That's the most important one. You don't have to separate your name into the first name, middle name or last name. Can put the whole name into 1 field and leave the 2 empty.

Basically A is 1, B is 2, C is 3. Once it reaches 9, the next letter is 1. So J is 1.

It will add the numbers from your name alphabets and give you the following:
1) All alphabets from your name: Your expression number... This number tells you how to go about achieving your life path. (Life path btw is your date of birth)

2) All the consonants in your name = your personality

3) All the vowels in your name = your heart's desire (what truly makes you happy).
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Thanks...

Now Result is :

Your Life Path Number is a vibration of duality and division, of truth and learning. Those with Life Path Number 2 tend to be sensitive, intuitive, reserved and a little on the shy side.

You are likely more drawn to quiet and relaxing atmospheres, and try to avoid conflict in any situation.


Because of your perceptive and tactful nature, you are good at finding a balanced and peaceful resolution to conflicts.

Be wary of being overly sensitive and touchy to the world and the people around you.

The double digit higher vibration from which your Life Path Number 2 is derived from is referred to as a Master Number. Those with Master Number 11 tend to be even more sensitive to the people and the world around them, and are often seen as having highly intuitive, even psychic abilities.

Master Numbers are discussed in much greater detail within the full Numerology Readings.



Your Expression/Destiny Number

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= 5


The 5 Expression Number indicates your love of freedom, excitement and new experiences. You are more of a free spirit, eager to explore and try new things. You tend to be very adaptable, hating the "routine" and not follow the social norms. Be wary of changing your mind too often, of getting bored too quickly, and leaving whatever the job or project at hand unfinished.




Your Heart's Desire/Soul Urge Number

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The 6 Heart's Desire Number indicates you tend to be more compassionate, sentimental, patient, and caring, and are able to empathize with people more so than others. As such, you are likely to focus more of your attention, and place much greater importance, on helping and caring for your family, loved ones, and those close to you.



Please explain to me.....

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She is an adult stop controlling her
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She is an adult stop controlling her
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Thanks...

Now Result is :

Your Life Path Number is a vibration of duality and division, of truth and learning. Those with Life Path Number 2 tend to be sensitive, intuitive, reserved and a little on the shy side.

You are likely more drawn to quiet and relaxing atmospheres, and try to avoid conflict in any situation.
Because of your perceptive and tactful nature, you are good at finding a balanced and peaceful resolution to conflicts.

Be wary of being overly sensitive and touchy to the world and the people around you.

The double digit higher vibration from which your Life Path Number 2 is derived from is referred to as a Master Number. Those with Master Number 11 tend to be even more sensitive to the people and the world around them, and are often seen as having highly intuitive, even psychic abilities.

Master Numbers are discussed in much greater detail within the full Numerology Readings.
Your Expression/Destiny Number

=********,
= 5
The 5 Expression Number indicates your love of freedom, excitement and new experiences. You are more of a free spirit, eager to explore and try new things. You tend to be very adaptable, hating the "routine" and not follow the social norms. Be wary of changing your mind too often, of getting bored too quickly, and leaving whatever the job or project at hand unfinished.
Your Heart's Desire/Soul Urge Number

= ******
= 15/6
The 6 Heart's Desire Number indicates you tend to be more compassionate, sentimental, patient, and caring, and are able to empathize with people more so than others. As such, you are likely to focus more of your attention, and place much greater importance, on helping and caring for your family, loved ones, and those close to you.
Please explain to me.....
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So her numbers are a life path 2, expression 5, heart desire 6 and personality 8.

Life path 2 are the usually sensitive people, they know what's going on in their surroundings and are diplomatic people. Coupled with the 6 heart desire, they truly want peace. They want all relationships to be peaceful and loving.

Expression 5 indicate the adventurous, the unpredictable and freedom seeking person. The expression or destiny number is the way for her to achieve her main goal - life path 2. So being in a job that has many changes, excitement, meeting various kind of people, projects that's different all the time may suit her. In this role, she can be the gel of the team, the diplomatic one who assists the team to their goals (life path 2). Her heart desire 6 will guide her to be a responsible and caring team member. Her personality 8 will empower her authority (which she might be uncomfortable) but that's how others might see her.

Btw, her life path 2 is from 11/2 or from 20/2?

Anyways, here's a YouTube video about life path 2, expression 5 : https://youtu.be/Wutv5FuTaPg?si=GIyE_KeH4vdC5KI9

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QUOTE(telement @ May 23 2024, 09:32 AM)
So her numbers are a life path 2, expression 5, heart desire 6 and personality 8.

Life path 2 are the usually sensitive people, they know what's going on in their surroundings and are diplomatic people. Coupled with the 6 heart desire, they truly want peace. They want all relationships to be peaceful and loving.

Expression 5 indicate the adventurous, the unpredictable and freedom seeking person. The expression or destiny number is the way for her to achieve her main goal - life path 2. So being in a job that has many changes, excitement, meeting various kind of people, projects that's different all the time may suit her. In this role, she can be the gel of the team, the diplomatic one who assists the team to their goals (life path 2). Her heart desire 6 will guide her to be a responsible and caring team member. Her personality 8 will empower her authority (which she might be uncomfortable) but that's how others might see her.

Btw, her life path 2 is from 11/2 or from 20/2?

Anyways, here's a YouTube video about life path 2, expression 5 : https://youtu.be/Wutv5FuTaPg?si=GIyE_KeH4vdC5KI9
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Your Life Path Number

= 2 + 7 + 2
= 11/2

Your Life Path Number is a vibration of duality and division, of truth and learning. Those with Life Path Number 2 tend to be sensitive, intuitive, reserved and a little on the shy side. You are likely more drawn to quiet and relaxing atmospheres, and try to avoid conflict in any situation. Because of your perceptive and tactful nature, you are good at finding a balanced and peaceful resolution to conflicts. Be wary of being overly sensitive and touchy to the world and the people around you.

The double digit higher vibration from which your Life Path Number 2 is derived from is referred to as a Master Number. Those with Master Number 11 tend to be even more sensitive to the people and the world around them, and are often seen as having highly intuitive, even psychic abilities.



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Your Life Path Number

= 2 + 7 + 2
= 11/2

Your Life Path Number is a vibration of duality and division, of truth and learning. Those with Life Path Number 2 tend to be sensitive, intuitive, reserved and a little on the shy side. You are likely more drawn to quiet and relaxing atmospheres, and try to avoid conflict in any situation. Because of your perceptive and tactful nature, you are good at finding a balanced and peaceful resolution to conflicts. Be wary of being overly sensitive and touchy to the world and the people around you.

The double digit higher vibration from which your Life Path Number 2 is derived from is referred to as a Master Number. Those with Master Number 11 tend to be even more sensitive to the people and the world around them, and are often seen as having highly intuitive, even psychic abilities.
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A 11/2, then she has more leadership qualities than she knows it. 1 is the leadership energy. With two 1s, she can be influential and charismatic. Her role is to be a good example for everyone. Leader but lead by example (because she is actually a 2). She really needs to go out and explore more. But she needs to find her path by herself. Personality 8 - she wants to find success, expression 5 requires excitement and change (no office job for her ya).

Timing is everything. Another very useful thing about numerology is Personal Year. You count her birthday with the current year, instead of the year she was born. Example: Born June 15, 1990, you count 6+1+5+2+0+2+4 = 20. 2+0 = 2. Personal Year 2 this year.

Another example. Born April 11. 4+1+1+2+0+2+4 = 14. 1+4 = 5. Personal Year 5.

Let me know her Personal Year.

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QUOTE(telement @ May 23 2024, 10:39 AM)
A 11/2, then she has more leadership qualities than she knows it. 1 is the leadership energy. With two 1s, she can be influential and charismatic. Her role is to be a good example for everyone. Leader but lead by example (because she is actually a 2). She really needs to go out and explore more. But she needs to find her path by herself. Personality 8 - she wants to find success, expression 5 requires excitement and change (no office job for her ya).

Timing is everything. Another very useful thing about numerology is Personal Year. You count her birthday with the current year, instead of the year she was born. Example: Born June 15, 1990, you count 6+1+5+2+0+2+4 = 20. 2+0 = 2. Personal Year 2 this year.

Another example. Born April 11. 4+1+1+2+0+2+4 = 14. 1+4 = 5. Personal Year 5.

Let me know her Personal Year.
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I think it's the time she's angry with me again...

I will use her laptop to submit the JobStreet application for her.

No choice again.

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Let her decide

people nowadays everyday play rubbish tiktok and pink book

everyday watching rich people, what is 2.2k for her?
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I think it's the time she's angry with me again...

I will use her laptop to submit the JobStreet application for her.

No choice again.




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I think it's the time she's angry with me again...

I will use her laptop to submit the JobStreet application for her.

No choice again.
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She dun have face problem right?
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QUOTE(Chanwsan @ Mar 25 2023, 11:26 PM)
I can piap the motivation out of her, as long as she is kiut like my kiut sister
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I will use her laptop to submit the JobStreet application for her.
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Blame urself

That’s why she fail in her life


And i believe this is not a one time or one day thing.

Your family must have been doing it for decades until she became complacent
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Blame urself

That’s why she fail in her life
And i believe this is not a one time or one day thing.

Your family must have been doing it for decades until she became complacent
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Someone who is complacent has become overly content — the junk-food-eating couch potato might be feeling complacent about his health.

Not lazy?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jun 1 2024, 02:49 AM)
I think it's the time she's angry with me again...

I will use her laptop to submit the JobStreet application for her.

No choice again.
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Urm .. thats not a good idea to do that. Worst thing to do is to force ppl. Many karma ahh. Don't.

She needs some inspiration. No one told her the purpose of life is to be useful to others. Our job here on Earth is first to build ourselves. Once we are capable, we should be serving others. You can be an inventor, a designer, doctor, bus driver, a cook, garbage collector, a salesperson - each one have a role in serving others.

An apple can never be an orange. A monkey cannot be a tiger. We are all different. So it's important for her to find herself first. What she likes to do? What role she see herself to serve others? Travel is good for her. Go out see see, breath some fresh air. Maybe can get some new ideas....


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QUOTE(Chanwsan @ Mar 25 2023, 11:26 PM)
I can piap the motivation out of her, as long as she is kiut like my kiut sister
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She looks like yufa just so u know
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ts got any friend you don't like?
marry your sister to him.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jun 1 2024, 02:51 AM)
I think it's the time she's angry with me again...

I will use her laptop to submit the JobStreet application for her.

No choice again.
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Not sure if this is legal? How can you login her account to submit for her leh? So controlling like differ liao...
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Wow. This thread is still alive?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jun 1 2024, 10:33 AM)
no
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QUOTE(carloz28 @ Jun 1 2024, 11:07 AM)
She looks like yufa just so u know
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pm photo.
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She looks like yufa just so u know
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What is yufa?
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Not sure if this is legal? How can you login her account to submit for her leh? So controlling like differ liao...
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At least she got her first job leh
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I think it's the time she's angry with me again...

I will use her laptop to submit the JobStreet application for her.

No choice again.
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Send her to 2feidei port jer la







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why so worried about your sister

Married to man then everything's solved for you =)
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why so worried about your sister

Married to /k then everything's solved for you =)
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why so worried about your sister

Married to man then everything's solved for you =)
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I really am not sure if ts is worried about his sis. Thread started in 2023..between then and now so many thing could had happened
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why so worried about your sister

Married to man then everything's solved for you =)
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Of course worried. Later parents retire d who want feed her? If parents savings no more d who want feed her? If parents died d who need to feed her? TS la. If TS no feed, his relatives and parents will say he char siew
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I really am not sure if ts is worried about his sis. Thread started in 2023..between then and now so many thing could had happened
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Sure i worried lah

You do not have siblings meh?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Mar 25 2023, 11:24 PM)
My younger sister is lazy and lacks motivation to engage in any productive activities.

She sleeps at 3am every day and wakes up at 2pm.
She lives on the second floor in the bedroom.

Should we request that she live on the ground floor instead?
She has no hobbies and has been at home doing almost nothing for the past 2 years.
She is repeating a final year project subject in her degree.(March 2023)

She has completed all her subjects and only has to finish her final year project to graduate.

Fortunately, her university lecturer helped her. I even asked her to check her university email. However, she kept ignoring her lecturer's inquiries and didn't want to reply.
July 2023,The subject result is out.She passed.
I also suggested she join me for a jog at Hutan Bandar at 6 am, but she refused.
Normally, I wake up at 5:20 am or 5:30 am, and head straight to Hutan Bandar, arriving around 5:50 am.
Since Hutan Bandar opens at 6 am, few people arrive that early, and there are plenty of parking spaces available.
She joined a company in October 2023 but resigned in April 2024. She only worked for 6 months and is now jobless.

Now she has a formal university certificate.
She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.
After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.
My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.

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If she pretty, can get rich hubby, no need worry.
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Nowadays still have people find this kind of wife?
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Ask her what she's doing until 3am first. You don't seem to know what she's actually doing even if you say "almost nothing". Remember, your own definition of "productive activity" might not be the same as hers.
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Multimedia designer degree graduate job path


# Job Title Description
1 Graphic Designer Create visual content for print and digital media, including logos, brochures, and advertisements.
2 Web Designer Design and create websites, focusing on layout, visual appearance, and user experience.
3 UI/UX Designer Specialize in user interface and user experience design, ensuring products are functional and aesthetic.
4 Animator Create animations for films, television, video games, and online content.
5 Video Editor Edit and assemble recorded footage into a finished project.
6 Multimedia Artist Produce visual and audio content for various platforms, including video games and films.
7 Digital Marketing Specialist Use multimedia skills to create compelling digital marketing campaigns.
8 Illustrator Create illustrations for books, magazines, advertisements, and websites.
9 Content Creator Produce engaging content for platforms like YouTube, Instagram, and other social media channels.
10 3D Modeler Create three-dimensional models for use in games, films, and simulations.
11 Interactive Media Developer Develop interactive applications and experiences, such as VR and AR projects.
12 Instructional Designer Develop multimedia instructional materials and e-learning modules.






Younger sister resign and cannot find another job

Why 00 generation like that?

She resign marketing executive job at april 2024.
She never did any video animation in April and May.




She want to be a animator.


But I think content creator and video editor is better for her.

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Multimedia designer degree graduate job path


# Job Title Description
1 Graphic Designer Create visual content for print and digital media, including logos, brochures, and advertisements.
2 Web Designer Design and create websites, focusing on layout, visual appearance, and user experience.
3 UI/UX Designer Specialize in user interface and user experience design, ensuring products are functional and aesthetic.
4 Animator Create animations for films, television, video games, and online content.
5 Video Editor Edit and assemble recorded footage into a finished project.
6 Multimedia Artist Produce visual and audio content for various platforms, including video games and films.
7 Digital Marketing Specialist Use multimedia skills to create compelling digital marketing campaigns.
8 Illustrator Create illustrations for books, magazines, advertisements, and websites.
9 Content Creator Produce engaging content for platforms like YouTube, Instagram, and other social media channels.
10 3D Modeler Create three-dimensional models for use in games, films, and simulations.
11 Interactive Media Developer Develop interactive applications and experiences, such as VR and AR projects.
12 Instructional Designer Develop multimedia instructional materials and e-learning modules.






Younger sister resign and cannot find another job

Why 00 generation like that?

She resign marketing executive job at april 2024.
She never did any video animation in April and May.




She want to be a animator.


But I think content creator and video editor is better for her.
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Multimedia designer degree graduate job path
Job Title      Description   
Graphic Designer            Create visual content for print and digital media, including logos, brochures, and advertisements.
Web Designer                Design and create websites, focusing on layout, visual appearance, and user experience.       
UI/UX Designer              Specialize in user interface and user experience design, ensuring products are functional and aesthetic.
Animator                    Create animations for films, television, video games, and online content.       
Video Editor                Edit and assemble recorded footage into a finished project.       
Multimedia Artist            Produce visual and audio content for various platforms, including video games and films.       
Digital Marketing Specialist Use multimedia skills to create compelling digital marketing campaigns.                       
Illustrator                  Create illustrations for books, magazines, advertisements, and websites.                     
Content Creator              Produce engaging content for platforms like YouTube, Instagram, and other social media channels.
10 3D Modeler                  Create three-dimensional models for use in games, films, and simulations.                     
11 Interactive Media Developer  Develop interactive applications and experiences, such as VR and AR projects.                 
12 Instructional Designer      Develop multimedia instructional materials and e-learning modules.                           
Younger sister resign and cannot find another job

Why 00 generation like that?

She resign marketing executive job at april 2024.
She never did any video animation in April and May.
She want to be a animator.
But I think content creator and video editor is better for her.
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Multimedia designer degree graduate job path
Job Title      Description   
Graphic Designer            Create visual content for print and digital media, including logos, brochures, and advertisements.
Web Designer                Design and create websites, focusing on layout, visual appearance, and user experience.       
UI/UX Designer              Specialize in user interface and user experience design, ensuring products are functional and aesthetic.
Animator                    Create animations for films, television, video games, and online content.       
Video Editor                Edit and assemble recorded footage into a finished project.       
Multimedia Artist            Produce visual and audio content for various platforms, including video games and films.       
Digital Marketing Specialist Use multimedia skills to create compelling digital marketing campaigns.                       
Illustrator                  Create illustrations for books, magazines, advertisements, and websites.                     
Content Creator              Produce engaging content for platforms like YouTube, Instagram, and other social media channels.
10 3D Modeler                  Create three-dimensional models for use in games, films, and simulations.                     
11 Interactive Media Developer  Develop interactive applications and experiences, such as VR and AR projects.                 
12 Instructional Designer      Develop multimedia instructional materials and e-learning modules.                           
Younger sister resign and cannot find another job

Why 00 generation like that?

She resign marketing executive job at april 2024.
She never did any video animation in April and May.
She want to be a animator.
But I think content creator and video editor is better for her.
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If you sister is introvert. Animator suits her better

Does she mastering any software?
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If you sister is introvert. Animator suits her better

Does she mastering any software?
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Suddenly Ts England so powderful
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If you sister is introvert. Animator suits her better

Does she mastering any software?
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I should ask her to go to Property company, Car company, Parkson, Padini, Uniqlo, Adidas,Nike, Original Classic, Al-Ikhsan,The Store, Machines, Starbucks, OldTown, Coffee Bean, or Kenny Rogers Roasters to find a job?


Steamboat restaurant



RM 1800 - RM 2000 ?


Starbucks have 5 days job culture.


Business Hours

Mon - Fri : 8.30am - 5.00pm

Sat : 8.30am - 12.30pm

Sun & P. Holiday : Closed

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序号 英文名称 中文名称 所属国家 Country
1 Tencent Holdings 腾讯控股 中国 China
2 Sony Interactive Entertainment 索尼互动娱乐 日本 Japan
3 Microsoft 微软 美国 USA
4 Activision Blizzard 动视暴雪 美国 USA
5 NetEase 网易 中国 China
6 Electronic Arts EA (电子艺界) 美国 USA
7 Nintendo 任天堂 日本 Japan
8 Epic Games Epic Games 美国 USA
9 Take-Two Interactive Take-Two Interactive 美国 USA
10 Ubisoft 育碧 法国 France
11 Bandai Namco Entertainment 万代南梦宫 日本 Japan
12 Square Enix 史克威尔艾尼克斯 日本 Japan
13 SEGA 世嘉 日本 Japan
14 Capcom 卡普空 日本 Japan
15 Konami 科乐美 日本 Japan
16 Riot Games Riot Games 美国 USA
17 Zynga Zynga 美国 USA
18 Supercell Supercell 芬兰 Finland
19 GungHo Online Entertainment GungHo Online Entertainment 日本 Japan
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Take-Two Interactive Software, Inc. Completes Combination with Zynga Inc.


NEW YORK--(BUSINESS WIRE)--May 23, 2022-- Take-Two Interactive Software, Inc. (NASDAQ: TTWO) (“Take-Two” or the “Company”)

announced today the completion of its combination with Zynga Inc. (“Zynga”). Under the terms of the merger agreement, Zynga stockholders received $3.50 in cash and 0.0406 shares of Take-Two common stock per share of Zynga common stock.

“We are thrilled to complete our combination with Zynga, which is a pivotal step to increase exponentially our Net Bookings from mobile, the fastest-growing segment in interactive entertainment, while also providing us with substantial cost synergies and revenue opportunities,” said Strauss Zelnick, Chairman and CEO of Take-Two.


“As we bring together our exceptional talent, exciting pipelines of games, and industry-leading technologies and capabilities, we believe that we can take our portfolio to another level of creativity, innovation, and quality.


Each of our teams has a strong history of operational execution, and together, we expect that we will enhance our financial profile through greater scale and profitability, paving the way for us to deliver strong shareholder value.”

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