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dest9116
post May 18 2024, 12:01 PM

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 18 2024, 09:46 AM)
She sleeps at home around 1 am or 3 am and usually wakes up around 11 am.

Sometimes she skips breakfast because she wakes up too late.
After eating lunch or dinner, she goes back to her room to play on her phone, including TikTok, Xiao Hong Shu, Bilibili, and Facebook, as well as online games. She sleeps at 2 am.
My mother never asks her to help cut vegetables or cook, even though I've already told my mother many times.
From April 11 th until today, May 18th, there are 37 days.
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Hi TS your sister is addicted to contents. This addiction is like a drug it already alter her brain pattern and she won't be able to focus much less work. Solution is to remove the hp and all electronics. She will suffer withdrawal symptoms but later will improve. China is doing it lol. Some people do all that but they can still work and perform well. They can separate their life between work and play, each different attitude and personality. Your sister probably been spoiled since young and thus she doesn't learn to stop indulging herself and control her impulse. Sadly no easy way to help her. Even if you stop giving her money and kick her out, she will take easy way out like sell body to make ends meet and buy a new phone. You as brother did your best, your parents is the wrong failed in teaching their daughter.

My younger sister also play games until 2am watch anime discord etc mostly because influenced by me when young but she excel in uni 4.0 cgpa the entire way and got herself into a good company earning good money and my parents pamper her very much now. She got all sorts of gadgets and gaming consoles bought using her own salary.

Another example is my wife friend's husband, also into anime go comic fiesta house full of figurines that's his hobby his friends all similar otakus but when work he performs. Now go to sg and earning a lot money but will indulge in expensive food and luxury goods with their own salary.

So it's not about the games and anime etc, it's the mindset. She just lazy to work because addicted to contents.
dest9116
post May 19 2024, 05:48 PM

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Careful, once these char siew leeches get used to this life, foveever will not work, come out that time 30? 35? Expect high celery but companies will omly hire fresh grads or with exp. Oldies at 35 without exp HR see also know got problem

Worse is when ur parents pass away or no money d they steal ur parents money, end up it fall to the siblings responsibility. When ur parents go their last wish is u take care the char siew, that time u really Kam lan I tell u.
dest9116
post May 20 2024, 06:01 PM

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Why TS keep want force sister to enter jungle at 6am?

Not everyone same lifestyle as you la, everyone got their own life, stop forcing your own idiology down your sister throat. She want sleep how late up to her la. First is kick her out of house so she will learn to work. That's what my parents did, kick us out provide a house but need pay maintenance fee, later got work d few savings d then pay installment. That also need to give them 500 a month but is they help save later give back, which they did when I not enough liquid lol
dest9116
post Jun 1 2024, 01:00 PM

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QUOTE(submergedx @ Jun 1 2024, 12:42 PM)
why so worried about your sister

Married to man then everything's solved for you =)
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Of course worried. Later parents retire d who want feed her? If parents savings no more d who want feed her? If parents died d who need to feed her? TS la. If TS no feed, his relatives and parents will say he char siew

 

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