Why are there still limiting beliefs everywhere?
because you project insecurities onto other people.
Its like when a person calls rich people are scammy or bad, its highly likelihood they have never been rich, by themselves. So they project onto them and wanted to bring em down to their same level.

This kind of person is manipulative, and toxic
Ive been meeting multi racial girls as a local chinese and been over hundreds of dates. None of these money and status matter unless you want to stay on the societal-accepted hierarchy environment, which is being a blue pill, beta provider.

If I am on a dating app and I'm a decent guy, but I give you a super like, will that make the girl more attracted or girl will think it's desperate and are interested in guys that give normal likes

i feel it make you standout abit lah, but having said that, your profile does matters... like whether your profile suit her taste or not ... cause sometimes, the girl didnt have a chance to swipe when every time she swipe sure match. haha

also, once you know a person likes you, it is much easier to determine whether you want to proceed to have a chat with that person or not... simple as that.

This post has been edited by siew14: Oct 25 2021, 08:35 PM

if you're tinder platinum user, giving superlike gives you an extra ''standout'' opening message line, that may help if the girl has some unique pictures on it (again, that also means she's more serious with meeting guys)

i also met girls without superlikes

If you had to resort to dating apps, you're already desperate.

So who cares? Give her a super like & hope she's equally desperate enough to respond.

That is a correct step. At least she can notice you from the sea of people.

Hi. Matched a random girl from cmb and proceed to Instagram afterwards. She's a genuine Malaysian girl, not fake profile.

She keep asking a pic of mine and is fine even if it's an old pic. Now I stopped responding.

Something wrong right, guys? She's late 20s and I'm early 30s.

Yeah, you.

Apasal ghost for no reason? Why are you reluctant to share a photo? If you're afraid to show face then don't bother dating cuz no one wants a 100% virtual date forever.

My cmb profile already got it.

Ok, so what's the problem sharing one more recent one? As long as you keep your private information safe, like phone number, IC, address... I don't think she can do anything with just a photo.

just video call them if they were genuinely real
i doubt it.

Don't think there is a need for further communication if in doubt.

Her work involves unit trust. Partially explain the push in knowing a person. I might be wrong though. 🤷

why get her instagram? your instagram very good profiled?
for me i will prefer wahtsapp or telegram

Before chat expire in cmb, common chat method is go into Instagram. Only when both sides is comfortable then only exchange in phone number.

Might be slow but not wrong taking one step at a time.

up to you, my method has always try to get their personal digit, at least it shows they're serious with this dating thing
any female who has more than 5k followers, she will probably not responding to guys

Any good dating apps to recommend?

All of them need to pay so i am thinking to choose one and pay only one

TS face problem is it? thats why scared to share photo

Just a normal guy. I prefer not being in public.

already asked her out or not? your time is ticking if you're average as myself
you might be forgetten very quick.

Hrm no i didn't ask her out. Let it be if is like what you said. Because I don't feel the spark during chat.

Being off from relationship for some time i think I'm not really rushing for it.

How about yours, any successful meet up? Here I don't call it a date because it sounds wrong.