I also would like to add my experience on detecting a scam. Hope there is no dupes.

1) Too good to be true. Like suddenly this hot girl very nice to you, try to talk you. Well, when have this, firstly i think better be realistic and ask yourself whether your profile could attract those type of girl. Further, screenshot their profile picture and do a google image search in google as well as china equivalent google for image search too.

2) if you somehow think that you got chance for this hot girl, try give her a week and see how... Their SOP is unleash their product (eg. bitcoin platform) around 4-5 days..

3) instagram girl or FB girl who wants followers, usually dont talk or their profile description usually put their IG (their IG sometime has 50 post but mre than 1,000 followers) or FB and not active. TBH, i dunno whether this is consider a scam, but i feel shouldnt waste time on this kind... Unless you are rich or you damn handsome, or both..

To protect yourself, if lets say too sudden, like want to hang immediately, suggest you tell your friend where you heading, and propose a place that is crowded.

And another step to further protect yourself and not wasting time which I DONT RECOMMENDED AT ALL, stalk the shit out of the person to ensure he/she is single , legit and not a catfish. A google search, including linkedin fb instagram twitter would do.

This post has been edited by siew14: Feb 25 2021, 08:48 PM

so based on your experience, those answer they gave means what usually? can share?

i dont understand the last one... what are you doing here? and they reply with awesome? XD

For me, if they say friend, is like telling me she is up for anything, and is depend on your skill or how thich is you wallet... hahahaha

This post has been edited by siew14: Mar 18 2021, 11:21 AM

just forget about tinder la... tinder now full of scammers (if too good to be true, if u know whaat i mean?)

same goes to tantan...

i think can consider bumble, bumble so far havent meet any scammer yet... same goes to cmb.

can share more about the nurse? you think she is legit?

hahaha.. coincidentally, i also got a match nurse amoi, but different state lah and also not same age with yours... havent verify her via social media yet.

ahhh... thats nice... best of luck ya.. hehe

to all the users here, just wan to ask... have you ever skipped 1-2 days didnt reply the person or end the conversation first thereafter msg 1-2 days later? I notice if skip even 1 day, the feeling toward the person can be different already...

i seen some dating advice from youtube is like, they said no need to message everyday, quality > quantity. But this method didnt specifically say is for the person you have met or for online dating.

Logically speaking, i feel is OK to text once a while when you met some one randomly, but in dating app, somehow must keep the conversation going and not skipping 1-2 days only reply.

Hope you can understand where i m coming from....

Because matches coming in every day. Hard to stay focus on one. I m a not pro that can chat with multiple women yet still can maintain the flow/conversation, what ever you call it. Is like once I find this new match interesting, I put the rest aside first. Then once my core match not unavailable, I will go back to those that I have put aside. Then again, the feeling sometime is no longer there… maybe I m a beginner.
Hence, sometimes 1-2 days or just late reply. Btw, I don’t think I m a player/jerk, cause I believe girl does that too…

What do you mean by off grid? Means you:
1) logout from the app?
2) just read the msg that you receive and reply later
3) Didn’t bother about the app , just leave the notification there only

i feel it make you standout abit lah, but having said that, your profile does matters... like whether your profile suit her taste or not ... cause sometimes, the girl didnt have a chance to swipe when every time she swipe sure match. haha

also, once you know a person likes you, it is much easier to determine whether you want to proceed to have a chat with that person or not... simple as that.

This post has been edited by siew14: Oct 25 2021, 08:35 PM

er sir... is instagram the popular way of exchange contact right now? i thought fb or whatsapp aka phone number je? maybe telegram/wechat if uncomfortable to disclose further personal details... but instagram... really?


i m so outdated

i just created a new tinder account to check out.... walow, i didnt know tinder now is the place to flaunt instagram or to show off their sexiness. damn... where are all the normal wimmin?

all the wimmins in tinder is like instagram girl quality wei.. hahaha... and i m just a 5/10 guy in reality, although sometimes i feel like i can be 7/8 when i dress properly..

bumble was, well... kinda slow and , damn.. they now changed advanced filter to pay to use, last time can use 2 filters...

facebook dating app not too bad, at least more normal wimmin...

CMB, hmm.. slow as usual... maybe my picture,... haih...