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 Discussion about Dating Apps & Agency, Tinder, OKC, CMB, Lunch Actually, others

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post Jan 21 2022, 03:24 PM

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Shady app that requires you to purchase credits in order to chat with "girls".

Did that TanTan "girl" hard-sell the app to you?
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post Jan 25 2022, 07:55 PM

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QUOTE(dawnreaver @ Jan 20 2022, 11:24 PM)
Shady app that requires you to purchase credits in order to chat with "girls".

Did that TanTan "girl" hard-sell the app to you?
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Yes, i pulled myself out already. How about you?
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post Jan 26 2022, 08:54 AM

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QUOTE(StillAlive @ Jan 25 2022, 07:55 PM)
Yes, i pulled myself out already. How about you?
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Blocked the "girl" after she tried to hard-sell me the app. laugh.gif
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post Feb 4 2022, 11:43 AM

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i just removed my tinder subscription last night, got blocked after multiple attempt to message old leads, fucking rigged app haha.
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post Feb 6 2022, 05:11 PM

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i just created a new tinder account to check out.... walow, i didnt know tinder now is the place to flaunt instagram or to show off their sexiness. damn... where are all the normal wimmin?

all the wimmins in tinder is like instagram girl quality wei.. hahaha... and i m just a 5/10 guy in reality, although sometimes i feel like i can be 7/8 when i dress properly.. laugh.gif

bumble was, well... kinda slow and , damn.. they now changed advanced filter to pay to use, last time can use 2 filters...

facebook dating app not too bad, at least more normal wimmin...

CMB, hmm.. slow as usual... maybe my picture,... haih...

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post Feb 7 2022, 03:49 PM

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QUOTE(siew14 @ Feb 6 2022, 05:11 PM)
... where are all the normal wimmin?
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normal girls are those you see everytime you walk around shopping mall those are completely unfiltered except some makeups
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post Apr 30 2022, 07:06 AM

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hi. jus testing out. newbie here
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post Jul 17 2022, 03:33 PM

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I'm using Tinder. It feels like useless ad more than anything.
First, you have hos that are linking telegram or instagram (the intention is obvious).
Then, you have majority of people who just browse tinder for fun. Yes, just browse for fun. Not for relationship. Not to meetup. Not to chat.
Next, profile pics without their faces. Common, you're in a dating site.
If you look into >27yo category, majority were married. That wedding ring finger.

Do people filter by race?

What's the distance you guys/gals set?

I haven't tried other platform yet. Tried a few last time but they don't offer distance setting. IMO, no point travelling 1 hour for a meal. If you do know a platform with distance setting, do share.

No, I'm not going to pay for premium features.

This post has been edited by Skylinestar: Jul 17 2022, 10:01 PM
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post Jul 17 2022, 04:10 PM

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i set 15km radius, sometimes their pairing could be more than 30km.
if the distance too far, i will ask the girl the meet me up in middle
if she's open for opportunity, she will come, no excuses.

online dating is mostly for casual chats, don't expect too much of it
the landscape is not like 10-30 years ago where a lot of things were way slower pace, its getting competitive and saturated.
if you want more detail filtering, you can try bumble paid version.

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Jul 17 2022, 04:10 PM
kiddokitt
post Jul 17 2022, 04:22 PM

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I still think dating apps are so unnecessary. Just be ourselves and socialise and talk to women — like how our parents and grandparents did it.

I had a great chat with a sales promoter at Aeon this morning. Could see she was warming up to me too. No need no apps to get closer to women.
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post Jul 17 2022, 04:26 PM

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QUOTE(kiddokitt @ Jul 17 2022, 04:22 PM)
I still think dating apps are so unnecessary. Just be ourselves and socialise and talk to women — like how our parents and grandparents did it.

I had a great chat with a sales promoter at Aeon this morning. Could see she was warming up to me too. No need no apps to get closer to women.
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its also about generating volume and leads for yourself
it will take some energy time to go out socialize irl
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post Jul 18 2022, 12:31 AM

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I met my bf from here sweat.gif

Before I met him, I used a lot of apps end up all scams.

Becareful when using.

This post has been edited by nicole_4ever: Jul 18 2022, 12:31 AM
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post Jul 18 2022, 02:18 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jul 18 2022, 12:31 AM)
I met my bf from here sweat.gif

Before I met him, I used a lot of apps end up all scams.

Becareful when using.
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Ayy congratulations! All the best and may you both grow together smile.gif

@topic:
I have used these two and met genuine people:
1. Coffee Meets Bagel
2. Facebook Dating
...Met my current bf from (2) tongue.gif

Regardless of apps, you should just skip 10/10 profiles because if it's too good to be true, then it's not! Aside from CMB which has the 7-day match period, I see no need to connect outside the app. I spoke with more guys with (1) but less made it to meetup stage because I couldn't warm up quickly enough to feel comfortable to share my contact.
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post Jul 18 2022, 02:47 AM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Jul 18 2022, 02:18 AM)
, I see no need to connect outside the app. I spoke with more guys with (1) but less made it to meetup stage because I couldn't warm up quickly enough to feel comfortable to share my contact.
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Thats why girl like your pattern are mostly window shopping and couldnt make a decision to make effort to meet up or not. For me its either do or dont. Ive met some chill girl either they work for oversea travel or even single moms, they're straight down for chat irl.

No bull shit. I dont get why these girls or guys esp, chat for what online for how long? The more you chat the more you're going to make mistakes online.
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post Jul 18 2022, 03:08 AM

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QUOTE(-mystery- @ Jul 18 2022, 02:47 AM)
Thats why girl like your pattern are mostly window shopping and couldnt make a decision to make effort to meet up or not. For me its either do or dont. Ive met some chill girl either they work for oversea travel or even single moms, they're straight down for chat irl.

No bull shit. I dont get why these girls or guys esp, chat for what online for how long? The more you chat the more you're going to make mistakes online.
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Some ladies have lower threshold for safety (not wrong, just personal preference), but for those who are like me, we just want to avoid sharing contact to potential stalkers or scammers that sell your info yknow...

For me, I hate small talks that go nowhere like, what are you doing today, what you wear today, how was work, good morning afternoon evening night stfuuuu. I try to get to know the person la by asking things like interest, past experiences/traumas (not sexperiences ya sweat.gif ), travelling preferences etc, usually extrapolating from whatever they write on profile to make less boring "template like".

Again it's just preference, I can tolerate long ass text but I understand it might turn off someone else lol. I've had a fair share of matches who unmatched me straightaway when I said I prefer to chat a bit more than to meet irl immediately.
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post Jul 18 2022, 03:34 AM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Jul 18 2022, 03:08 AM)
For me, I hate small talks that go nowhere like, what are you doing today, what you wear today, how was work, good morning afternoon evening night stfuuuu.

Again it's just preference, I can tolerate long ass text but I understand it might turn off someone else lol. I've had a fair share of matches who unmatched me straightaway when I said I prefer to chat a bit more than to meet irl immediately.
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I will just keep the contact there, where it lasted over a year and we havent met since the first covid lockdown, some girls will say im damn persistent, im like if i really somehow find it boring or you can be my type, i wouldnt mind persist that far.

But i will agree usually the chat will be dead if the female just reply superb short like back to the original window shopping mentality or keep my number for future business opportunity (i had some beauty working related contacts, they're superb busy...seems like)

But in general, now most people are pretty busy esp those working adults, you may say long ass texts are for those who are still studying college below...

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Jul 18 2022, 03:36 AM
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post Jul 18 2022, 07:20 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jul 18 2022, 12:31 AM)
I met my bf from here sweat.gif

Before I met him, I used a lot of apps end up all scams.

Becareful when using.
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What u mean by scam? What happen?
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post Jul 18 2022, 07:25 AM

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QUOTE(Takudan @ Jul 18 2022, 02:18 AM)
Ayy congratulations! All the best and may you both grow together smile.gif

@topic:
I have used these two and met genuine people:
1. Coffee Meets Bagel
2. Facebook Dating
...Met my current bf from (2) tongue.gif

Regardless of apps, you should just skip 10/10 profiles because if it's too good to be true, then it's not! Aside from CMB which has the 7-day match period, I see no need to connect outside the app. I spoke with more guys with (1) but less made it to meetup stage because I couldn't warm up quickly enough to feel comfortable to share my contact.
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Can CMB set distance ?
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post Jul 18 2022, 08:48 AM

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QUOTE(nicole_4ever @ Jul 18 2022, 12:31 AM)
I met my bf from here sweat.gif

Before I met him, I used a lot of apps end up all scams.

Becareful when using.
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how long you guys exchanged PM before meeting up?


QUOTE(Takudan @ Jul 18 2022, 02:18 AM)
Ayy congratulations! All the best and may you both grow together smile.gif

@topic:
I have used these two and met genuine people:
1. Coffee Meets Bagel
2. Facebook Dating
...Met my current bf from (2) tongue.gif

Regardless of apps, you should just skip 10/10 profiles because if it's too good to be true, then it's not! Aside from CMB which has the 7-day match period, I see no need to connect outside the app. I spoke with more guys with (1) but less made it to meetup stage because I couldn't warm up quickly enough to feel comfortable to share my contact.
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i don't feel comfortable sharing my contact too early which i think is the deal breaker for most people. i am not on dating apps. been told that these apps are very toxic. still prefer meeting people the old fashioned way smile.gif

This post has been edited by ahjummma: Jul 18 2022, 02:55 PM
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post Jul 18 2022, 10:43 AM

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QUOTE(ahjummma @ Jul 18 2022, 08:48 AM)
i am not on dating apps. been told that these apps are very toxic. still prefer meeting people the old fashioned way smile.gif
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Not toxic when there's no match & no reply.

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