Hi. Matched a random girl from cmb and proceed to Instagram afterwards. She's a genuine Malaysian girl, not fake profile.

She keep asking a pic of mine and is fine even if it's an old pic. Now I stopped responding.

Something wrong right, guys? She's late 20s and I'm early 30s.

My cmb profile already got it.

Don't think there is a need for further communication if in doubt.

Her work involves unit trust. Partially explain the push in knowing a person. I might be wrong though. 🤷

Before chat expire in cmb, common chat method is go into Instagram. Only when both sides is comfortable then only exchange in phone number.

Might be slow but not wrong taking one step at a time.

Just a normal guy. I prefer not being in public.

Hrm no i didn't ask her out. Let it be if is like what you said. Because I don't feel the spark during chat.

Being off from relationship for some time i think I'm not really rushing for it.

How about yours, any successful meet up? Here I don't call it a date because it sounds wrong.

Just pure texting and just a couple of messages. No daily greetings nor asking whether taken food or not. Like I said, there is no sparks in between and go worse when being pushy in private matters. Let alone get numbers to call, it's a complete waste of her time and I shall not proceed imo.

Having said that, I do meet up and dine with profile that matched. Only when the conversation goes through and gel well. Just like how I am replying on your question because you show a simple sign of respect in conversation and I shall treat you equal too as a stranger.

This post has been edited by Chisinlouz: Nov 5 2021, 11:58 AM

Hi. People nowadays connect through social media especially under Facebook umbrella. Typical profile does show how to further connect ie: Wechat/Telegram and now, Instagram/Snapchat/Tiktok; but not a direct contact. Direct contact here means phone number.

Perhaps you are a busy person or a married man. "Unavailable" is the right word, not outdated.

Nice meet up you got there. I don't really in dating mood seriously, perhaps Im old. This might affecting my partner selection as well. Laid back and chill lady is great.

Some OK to share to stranger. Some not.

Yeah true.