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post Nov 13 2020, 12:38 AM

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there are many ways to skin a cat so i'll just tell you two stories then you see how you can fit into your personal scenario.

1) i have a female friend (unmarried) that owns two properties she bought from the sub-sale market. the first she bought was a small apartment in SS2. she told me that time the asking price was around 100k. originally it was in a sorry state but at least the previous tenant didn't pour cement down the drain. so she basically clean it up and repainted, then offer it for rental as bare unit. part of it was due to her financial situation at the time and she was thinking whatever tenant she gets that area might be low class people won't appreciate the furniture anyway. she got lucky a chinese couple rented the place because want to send their daughter to the chinese school there. her income was good that she decided to get another property and thinking for the future she decided to get a landed property, she found something cheap in SS14 (she didn't disclose the amount to me) and her target weren't students as most owners in SS14 partition up the houses then rent to students studying at Taylors/Inti, instead she did basically the same as her SS2 property target families wanting a Subang Jaya address for the public and chinese schools in that area for their kids. both properties doing well with long term tenants as the parents would be invested in that area for their kids for at least 5 years and longer if they have more kids. location is important for this, there is less chance of them renting elsewhere or buying their own as prices have risen over the years for sub-sale and new ones would put them in financial burden. heard stories from her that the parents either have no plans to move or bought property which is cheaper but further away in places like Bangi and Rawang, and would move there once the education of their kids is complete or retire as they're working nearby so don't plan to commute. she manage to avoid MCO issues other owners having in subang jaya because colleges are closed so all the students went home and nobody renting their pigeon hole partitioned rooms. yes, u can earn more with partitioning and renting out individually but collection is a headache. she also previously lived a frugal life of renting a small room near any office she works at, now is living rent free with her bf/fiance.

2) i have a male friend whom bought a high-end condo quite recently. he comes from a slightly broken house with an abusive mom and absent father, so whatever he do is always quite kiasu so instead of getting something reasonable and sensible he has to get something really cool to show off as he was convinced after a friend bought at 'tropics @ 3 damansara' that a condo atop a shopping complex was the way to go. so he got a SOFO at atria, i think he got it from developer with all the developer perks but at the height of property price a few years back. he got influence by minimalist lifestyle which lead him to caravan lifestyle which lead him to steath camper lifestyle, he thought of a way to keep his property and earn from it. he converted his mpv unto a stealth camper to stay in while he rented out his SOFO, he then rented an extra car park from the management to park his camper while his original parking spot is for tenant use. in his words he is using all the condo facilities for RM100 parking fee per month and earning rental from his property. he tells me every morning he go to gym, swim, sauna then bath at the common bathroom and change into his work clothes then go to office, he told me slight inconvenience changing in the public shower room and getting up early so nobody uses the facilities yet but apart from that he doesn't pay a single cent for water and electricity. during mco period he either uses the lounge, meeting rooms for WFH (free wifi) or go down to the shopping complex to have lunch then lepak at the cafe for a few hours. he had to make some sacrifices but i think it is smart, he told me if he lived in a camper earlier but didn't own a condo with facilities he would've just gotten a gym membership.
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post Nov 13 2020, 08:23 AM

 
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QUOTE(zenix @ Nov 13 2020, 12:38 AM)
there are many ways to skin a cat so i'll just tell you two stories then you see how you can fit into your personal scenario.

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Cool story but TS was asking for own stay though.
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post Nov 13 2020, 09:20 AM

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QUOTE(zack1919 @ Nov 12 2020, 08:49 PM)
Even with exhaust fan the smells still linger around the area?
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It still lingers, but at a minimum.
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post Nov 13 2020, 09:21 AM

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QUOTE(clockpulses @ Nov 12 2020, 10:43 PM)
Thanks guys, ive decide to proceed buying a house. Although still worry me a lot
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If financially you're stable, then just do it. Buy and wait, dont wait to buy.
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post Nov 13 2020, 09:49 AM

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QUOTE(clockpulses @ Nov 10 2020, 05:10 PM)
It'd been few years already,  iam a very fickle minded whenever to decide buying a house. I WANT to buy a house because i want it, not saja saja, but Everytime i seriously thought about buying a property (own stay), i put hours hours hours of research and consideration. So many what ifs in my mind,  to the point i gave up tbe idea of buying a house and going debt free route and save as much and enjoy life as much as i can.

The What Ifs

1. I lost my job?
2. My salary got cut?
3. More pandemic coming?
4. if i buy a house can i still afford to do thing i used to do?
5. What if i change job or company relocate me somewhere more farther?
6. What If there's a sudden big increment of non bank commitment,  like kids, etc etc
7. Age is middle 30, what If i hold a little longer,  save money and buy house at 45 year old, then only eligible for 25 years loan. Donno can afford or not
8. Unexpected repair bill?
9. Will iable to save more for retirement?

Above questions are not for you.

At the moment I'm enjoying my life, car loan will finish soon, sometimes i felt too comfortable and boring. Can own a house make life less dull?

Seen and heard many cases that many people were getting fired this year i suddenly become coward to commit. Even a high income like pilots can be layed off.

Should i enjoy my debt free life?

Do you have the fear of buying a house?
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no... 12 years in klang valley had move in and out 5 property under my name. had only rent in the first 3 years in KV and 2018-2019 when my wife wanted to test out if she can adapt to the lifestyle near my working place. what you really need to do is take the first step and when you repeat this step..you will notice actually there isn't much to worry about. to answer some of your questions:

1. I lost my job? find another one
2. My salary got cut? does it matter? get a house which you could comfortably afford
3. More pandemic coming? no one can tell and yet you still need a roof not?
4. if i buy a house can i still afford to do thing i used to do? why not?
5. What if i change job or company relocate me somewhere more farther? the house will change together with ya
6. What If there's a sudden big increment of non bank commitment, like kids, etc etc you married mei?
7. Age is middle 30, what If i hold a little longer, save money and buy house at 45 year old, then only eligible for 25 years loan. Donno can afford or not. when you hit age 45.. you better be damn sure you can buy the house cash. Else for F sick you keep those cash?
8. Unexpected repair bill? like what?
9. Will iable to save more for retirement? sell the house
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post Nov 13 2020, 10:07 AM

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QUOTE(K.I.T.T @ Nov 12 2020, 08:37 PM)
if u get house u like it or u dream about it u will automatic need know what to do.

i dont mind renovation up to 100k tiles per unit RM 10 because property always price up.
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I plan to get a villa for my vacation home oversea and I'm working towards it now ..

Hopefully can materialise this with my partner ..
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post Nov 13 2020, 12:03 PM

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QUOTE(kidmad @ Nov 13 2020, 09:49 AM)
no... 12 years in klang valley had move in and out 5 property under my name. had only rent in the first 3 years in KV and 2018-2019 when my wife wanted to test out if she can adapt to the lifestyle near my working place. what you really need to do is take the first step and when you repeat this step..you will notice actually there isn't much to worry about. to answer some of your questions:

1. I lost my job? find another one
2. My salary got cut? does it matter? get a house which you could comfortably afford
3. More pandemic coming? no one can tell and yet you still need a roof not?
4. if i buy a house can i still afford to do thing i used to do? why not?
5. What if i change job or company relocate me somewhere more farther? the house will change together with ya
6. What If there's a sudden big increment of non bank commitment,  like kids, etc etc you married mei?
7. Age is middle 30, what If i hold a little longer,  save money and buy house at 45 year old, then only eligible for 25 years loan. Donno can afford or not. when you hit age 45.. you better be damn sure you can buy the house cash. Else for F sick you keep those cash?
8. Unexpected repair bill? like what?
9. Will iable to save more for retirement? sell the house
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Point #9 got me laughing rclxms.gif biggrin.gif

On another hand, mind elaborating point #5?
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post Nov 13 2020, 01:53 PM

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QUOTE(zack1919 @ Nov 13 2020, 12:03 PM)
Point #9 got me laughing  rclxms.gif  biggrin.gif

On another hand, mind elaborating point #5?
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I shift so frequent now i just stay opposite of my company.. well still a distance walking. So I'm at the a point where is i ever change job I'll just buy a small apartment near my company. Easy peasy.
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post Nov 13 2020, 02:39 PM

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probably now is the best time to buy, since no stamp duty for first time buyers

look for subsales, i'm sure some owners are letting go at lower prices these days

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post Nov 13 2020, 03:06 PM

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Once u buy the first. The 2nd 3rd 4th feels natural already, go for it
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post Nov 13 2020, 11:05 PM

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QUOTE(pisces88 @ Nov 13 2020, 03:06 PM)
Once u buy the first. The 2nd 3rd 4th feels natural already, go for it
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The multiplying effect. rclxm9.gif
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post Nov 14 2020, 12:08 PM

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Don't worry. Your thoughts are normal. I can understand. The fear is there, I felt the same too.
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post Nov 14 2020, 12:11 PM

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TS, I had the same hesitation before I decided to buy a condo and own some property.

To cut the story short - if you plan to be single, renting maybe a good idea. But if you have family or planning to get married, owning is good.

Buying a house is a form of investment in your life. Everything in life has its cost. Buying a house means you have to trade off some of the luxury and comfort in life , maybe temporarily for next 20 years before you finish the loan. But in return, you have the comfort that you have your own place, own house, own condo.

My advice to you is, even if you decide not to buy property, KEEP the CASH, and don't YOLO it away. Cash will become your security for old days.

I got a friend who YOLO , now 44 years, still renting. I think his old days are a bit insecure.
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post Nov 14 2020, 03:49 PM

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QUOTE(Chrono-Trigger @ Nov 14 2020, 12:11 PM)
TS, I had the same hesitation before I decided to buy a condo and own some property.

To cut the story short - if you plan to be single, renting maybe a good idea. But if you have family or planning to get married, owning is good.

Buying a house is a form of investment in your life. Everything in life has its cost. Buying a house means you have to trade off some of the luxury and comfort in life , maybe temporarily for next 20 years before you finish the loan. But in return, you have the comfort that you have your own place, own house, own condo.

My advice to you is, even if you decide not to buy property, KEEP the CASH, and don't YOLO it away. Cash will become your security for old days.

I got a friend who YOLO , now 44 years, still renting. I think his old days are a bit insecure.
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Your friend YOLO squandered all his money?

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post Nov 14 2020, 04:47 PM

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QUOTE(gashout @ Nov 14 2020, 03:49 PM)
Your friend YOLO squandered all his money?
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Dine out quite frequent , Starbucks , gym, travel. Not much savings from what I heard.


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QUOTE(Chrono-Trigger @ Nov 14 2020, 04:47 PM)
Dine out quite frequent , Starbucks , gym, travel. Not much savings from what I heard.
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That's real living the moment and forgotten about the future.

He still has 14 years to catch up till retirement.


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post Nov 14 2020, 09:35 PM

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QUOTE(clockpulses @ Nov 10 2020, 05:10 PM)
It'd been few years already,  iam a very fickle minded whenever to decide buying a house. I WANT to buy a house because i want it, not saja saja, but Everytime i seriously thought about buying a property (own stay), i put hours hours hours of research and consideration. So many what ifs in my mind,  to the point i gave up tbe idea of buying a house and going debt free route and save as much and enjoy life as much as i can.

The What Ifs

1. I lost my job?
2. My salary got cut?
3. More pandemic coming?
4. if i buy a house can i still afford to do thing i used to do?
5. What if i change job or company relocate me somewhere more farther?
6. What If there's a sudden big increment of non bank commitment,  like kids, etc etc
7. Age is middle 30, what If i hold a little longer,  save money and buy house at 45 year old, then only eligible for 25 years loan. Donno can afford or not
8. Unexpected repair bill?
9. Will iable to save more for retirement?

Above questions are not for you.

At the moment I'm enjoying my life, car loan will finish soon, sometimes i felt too comfortable and boring. Can own a house make life less dull?

Seen and heard many cases that many people were getting fired this year i suddenly become coward to commit. Even a high income like pilots can be layed off.

Should i enjoy my debt free life?

Do you have the fear of buying a house?
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I've invested in many properties over the years and this is the advice I would give you

The What Ifs

1. I lost my job?
>> Ensure you have 6 months or more emergency funds. If you earn 1k a month, you should have 6k as your emergency fund.

2. My salary got cut?
>> Ensure you have 6 months or more emergency funds. If you earn 1k a month, you should have 6k as your emergency fund.

3. More pandemic coming?
>> Ensure you have 6 months or more emergency funds. If you earn 1k a month, you should have 6k as your emergency fund.

4. if i buy a house can i still afford to do thing i used to do?
>> You would have to sacrifice a bit here and there, but in the long term, it would be well worth it for you and your future generations.

5. What if i change job or company relocate me somewhere more farther?
>> Only you can answer this question. You would have to choose a strategic location based on your current and future job. Even if you would have to relocate, there are many ways around this.

6. What If there's a sudden big increment of non bank commitment, like kids, etc etc
>> Don't over-commit by buying something that is too lavish that you can't effort.

7. Age is middle 30, what If i hold a little longer, save money and buy house at 45 year old, then only eligible for 25 years loan. Donno can afford or not
>> Inflation will reduce the value of your money while the price of the property will keep on increasing. This is assuming you save your money in FD.

8. Unexpected repair bill?
>> Don't over-commit by buying something that is too lavish that you can't effort.

9. Will iable to save more for retirement?
>> If you are renting now, yes you would be able to save more for retirement since once day your house will be fully paid for unlike renting.

Read the following books even if you don't like reading:-
1. Rich Dad, Poor Dad By Robert Kiyosaki.
2. CAsh flow quadrant By Robert Kiyosaki.
3. Guide to Investing By Robert Kiyosaki.
4. Millionaires are from a different planet by Azizi Ali




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post Nov 15 2020, 01:29 AM

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QUOTE(clockpulses @ Nov 10 2020, 06:10 PM)
It'd been few years already,  iam a very fickle minded whenever to decide buying a house. I WANT to buy a house because i want it, not saja saja, but Everytime i seriously thought about buying a property (own stay), i put hours hours hours of research and consideration. So many what ifs in my mind,  to the point i gave up tbe idea of buying a house and going debt free route and save as much and enjoy life as much as i can.

The What Ifs

1. I lost my job?
2. My salary got cut?
3. More pandemic coming?
4. if i buy a house can i still afford to do thing i used to do?
5. What if i change job or company relocate me somewhere more farther?
6. What If there's a sudden big increment of non bank commitment,  like kids, etc etc
7. Age is middle 30, what If i hold a little longer,  save money and buy house at 45 year old, then only eligible for 25 years loan. Donno can afford or not
8. Unexpected repair bill?
9. Will iable to save more for retirement?

Above questions are not for you.

At the moment I'm enjoying my life, car loan will finish soon, sometimes i felt too comfortable and boring. Can own a house make life less dull?

Seen and heard many cases that many people were getting fired this year i suddenly become coward to commit. Even a high income like pilots can be layed off.

Should i enjoy my debt free life?

Do you have the fear of buying a house?
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Ts before we answer..asking are you in relationship and planning to get married or have kids?
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post Nov 15 2020, 01:48 AM

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QUOTE(zack1919 @ Nov 11 2020, 12:02 AM)
Oh wow!
Mind giving detail on how much you’re earning and how much the property cost when you purchase it?

I’m 24 hardly 4K earner (not the standard 20k ktard), I’m stuck like ts currently with all the what ifs
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Kind to share what occupation you in? Me only gaji 2.3k in 25 year old


QUOTE(kkkw80 @ Nov 11 2020, 12:08 AM)
200k condo when I was earning 3k, 420k terrace house when I was earning 8.5k and new semid 1.75m with salary confidential (way above 5 figures definitely to afford it) 🤐

Life is all about taking chances, work smart to achieve what you want in life.
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You seem successful ..can I know what industry you in?
QUOTE(K.I.T.T @ Nov 11 2020, 03:09 AM)
Daripada sibuk2 PRIma / WIP baik bukak bussiness kedai makan ke francais serbenaka ke kedai dobi ke kalau air mineral 500ml rm1.50 kat depan prima/wip. Diorang pun x boleh komplen sebab tu je pilihan je ada

Nak murah? Start you engine pergi la kedai lain. Bayar la duit parking & duit masa.

Untung niaga dapat dari situ beli la rumah kat EcoCity ke desapark ke.
Apa nak gaduh mana rumah mana rumah mahal
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desapark sounds nice.
Vibrant place..any good deals there?

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post Nov 15 2020, 01:59 AM

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QUOTE(poweredbydiscuz @ Nov 13 2020, 08:23 AM)
Cool story but TS was asking for own stay though.
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see my first sentence sherlock

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