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andreaschan
post Nov 18 2020, 05:17 PM

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QUOTE(clockpulses @ Nov 10 2020, 05:10 PM)
It'd been few years already,  iam a very fickle minded whenever to decide buying a house. I WANT to buy a house because i want it, not saja saja, but Everytime i seriously thought about buying a property (own stay), i put hours hours hours of research and consideration. So many what ifs in my mind,  to the point i gave up tbe idea of buying a house and going debt free route and save as much and enjoy life as much as i can.

The What Ifs

1. I lost my job?
2. My salary got cut?
3. More pandemic coming?
4. if i buy a house can i still afford to do thing i used to do?
5. What if i change job or company relocate me somewhere more farther?
6. What If there's a sudden big increment of non bank commitment,  like kids, etc etc
7. Age is middle 30, what If i hold a little longer,  save money and buy house at 45 year old, then only eligible for 25 years loan. Donno can afford or not
8. Unexpected repair bill?
9. Will iable to save more for retirement?

Above questions are not for you.

At the moment I'm enjoying my life, car loan will finish soon, sometimes i felt too comfortable and boring. Can own a house make life less dull?

Seen and heard many cases that many people were getting fired this year i suddenly become coward to commit. Even a high income like pilots can be layed off.

Should i enjoy my debt free life?

Do you have the fear of buying a house?
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Well this is a question of personal finance secure and choice hmm.gif But if you have this kind of thoughts it mean you are thinking ahead which is a good thing but if you focus too much on the negative side only then you will not see the positivity in front.

1. There is not absolute job security these days, more jobs are getting replaced. Just look at a few example, macdonald no longer need a lot of cashier because order by flat screen, factory no longer need a lot workers as it can be computerize... etc... so yes your concern is true about job

2. Buying a house is a liability until you finish pays off and if you invest in the correct one. It will give you a proper return.

3. If your job has the probability of relocate you also, they will still provide you with a place to stay. Plus the house that you bought will still be there or you can sell it afterwards?

4. If you plan to have a family, dont forget your wife and you is working together so you are not alone in the house loan

5. It depends on your life planning, if you dont like to being tied down to a property and feeling adventurous then you can consider about rent a property where you can move from place to place for a different experience. But if you plan to have a family, perhaps have a own house would be a better idea

However, your problem actually can be solve easy which is "MONEY". The reason why is easy because there is a lot of ways you can earn some bucks and these days is filled with a lot of opportunities that you can venture into and some is without capital plus you don't need to sacrifice your job to do that. You will be surprised about the opportunities you can venture into. And if you are able to earn good, stable income, all these is not a drama.

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wawasan2200
post Feb 16 2025, 03:39 PM

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post Feb 16 2025, 06:53 PM

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Can do like me, buy few properties.

then load up on EPF....20 over years of work after graduate, now I am shopping for new bigger house to stay in.

no need to take any loan.

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post Feb 16 2025, 09:40 PM

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QUOTE(kkkw80 @ Nov 15 2020, 08:51 AM)
My new house ready next month  tongue.gif

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Congrats. Where is this?
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post Feb 16 2025, 10:54 PM

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QUOTE(Icehart @ Feb 16 2025, 09:40 PM)
Congrats. Where is this?
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post Feb 16 2025, 11:00 PM

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Job security scare buy property? So far
all my 3 properties appreciate 30-50% including my current bought 1.67m now valued around 2.4-2.5m. Touch wood if lose my job, at least with a property if I sell gain back 700-800k 😉
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post Feb 16 2025, 11:24 PM

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QUOTE(kkkw80 @ Feb 16 2025, 10:54 PM)
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Nice. I did have a look at it but location just an issue for me. Great township though.
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post Feb 16 2025, 11:24 PM

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Want to buy house, get it when you are still young with many years of earning powers, eg late 20s to early 30s. It will force you to have financial discipline, die die have to settle your house payment before other “enjoyment” comes. That way you have some form of financial security and peace of mind as you hit your 50s with the house payments cleared.
Don’t be like my cousin; eat good food, travel, spa, buying lots of bags and shoes and only started buying her house when turned 40. Now 50 so stressed cos house have to pay until 65 but retirement is looming soon and have no extra spare cash for rainy days. During covid, was retrench and had to borrow money to pay for her house. This is due to lack of financial literacy and discipline. Regret now also useless.
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QUOTE(nauticat99 @ Feb 16 2025, 11:24 PM)
Want to buy house, get it when you are still young with many years of earning powers, eg late 20s to early 30s. It will force you to have financial discipline, die die have to settle your house payment before other “enjoyment” comes. That way you have some form of financial security and peace of mind as you hit your 50s with the house payments cleared.
Don’t be like my cousin; eat good food, travel, spa, buying lots of bags and shoes and only started buying her house when turned 40. Now 50 so stressed cos house have to pay until 65 but retirement is looming soon and have no extra spare cash for rainy days. During covid, was retrench and had to borrow money to pay for her house. This is due to lack of financial literacy and discipline. Regret now also useless.
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Maybe she overestimate her income and bought a house that is beyond her mean?
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post Feb 17 2025, 02:02 AM

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QUOTE(Icehart @ Feb 16 2025, 11:25 PM)
Maybe she overestimate her income and bought a house that is beyond her mean?
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Nah! Bank also see your payslips before giving you the loans. The condo is definitely within her means if she has spare money to cover rainy days. Until today salary is just enough for monthly commitments but always run short due to extravagant spending eg holidays. My guess would be due to the standards set before owning a house so still continue the habit of spending like no tomorrow

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post Feb 17 2025, 05:53 AM

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i think buy it with cash/epf without loan will be peace of mind.....got different housing price from 50k - infinite
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post Feb 17 2025, 06:25 AM

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depends on life goals and lifestyle....if you going be single for life, just get a studio or condo.

if want have family in future then get the house.

Property is not so liquid-able and long term, I predict chaos in the next 5-10 years.

AI is coming rapid, alot of people will lose thier jobs across the globe....so I waiting to buy houses on discount in the coming years.
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post Feb 17 2025, 08:18 AM

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Property price nowadays is crazy.

Just buy for stay purpose. Long gone investment through property
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post Feb 17 2025, 08:37 AM

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There are wide range of housing price. Plan well and you will not have fear of buying house.
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post Feb 17 2025, 08:43 AM

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QUOTE(Icehart @ Feb 16 2025, 11:24 PM)
Nice. I did have a look at it but location just an issue for me. Great township though.
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Yeah its been great so far, management is doing good job, neighbors are all nice and professionals mainly and value appreciated quite a lot
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post Feb 17 2025, 09:35 AM

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can buy, but to ur affordability!!
if harga umah tak mampu, cari condo or apartment dulu (freehold title). no matter what, sebelum beli, must have backup saving for emergencies, and always pay more 4 down payment with shorter term loan... aka 15 to 18yrs. if take 30yrs, can forget about it, unless lu keja in gomen.


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post Feb 17 2025, 10:28 AM

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Owning a home different from renting...

Renting, you don't really feel you have a "home".. you are not willing to renovate or buy anything in rented home/room because it will "benefit" the owners.

You are also at risk to be booted out when landlord wants to increase rent or stay themselves...
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QUOTE(burn22 @ Feb 17 2025, 09:35 AM)
can buy, but to ur affordability!!
if harga umah tak mampu, cari condo or apartment dulu (freehold title). no matter what, sebelum beli, must have backup saving for emergencies, and always pay more 4 down payment with shorter term loan... aka 15 to 18yrs. if take 30yrs, can forget about it, unless lu keja in gomen.
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No. A wiser way is pay the lowest deposit and take the longest loan, then park the additional money in the flexi/semi loan to offset the interest while able to access it.
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post Feb 17 2025, 01:43 PM

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QUOTE(poweredbydiscuz @ Feb 17 2025, 12:30 PM)
No. A wiser way is pay the lowest deposit and take the longest loan, then park the additional money in the flexi/semi loan to offset the interest while able to access it.
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People who are not investment minded will always think like him, everything want to pay off fast because afraid of debt, will argue better take car loan for 3 years, house loan 10-15 years. Leaving no bullets left in the bank investment opportunities.

If car and house loan can take 100 years period by stretching razor thin for the monthly payment, I will take it
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post Feb 17 2025, 02:08 PM

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I rather have a house (more is a bonus) instead of renting. if anything happens to me, I would rather let my family and kids have a free house to stay in. Else we keep hearing story family had to transfer around after a sole breadwinner passed away, as landlord not receive rental

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