QUOTE(`twinkles @ Jan 8 2011, 04:02 PM)
Thanks so much, it is such a hassle to take leave and see the doctor again. Thanks.
I am so demotivated and feel like giving up already although it is only 5 days. It was worse than what I thought. I mean there's not much pain for me. Eating is still OK, I don't usually enjoy eating(I diet all the time haha) so cannot eat nice food is still OK. It is just that I could not bear with the excessive teasings of me. My sister was always telling how ugly I am and when I talked I seemed to be talking with my lips pouted. My sister is seriously inconsiderate and insensitive. I can just say, there are lots of negative comments from her. She wasn't intending to hurt me, but it is just her character. My friends were saying I am too old for braces and my bf doesn't find me attractive anymore now(not to brag here, but I used to be having quite perfect features to be called beautiful except for the ugly set of rabbit deep bite teeth). It is going to be Chinese New Year soon, and my relatives are very sarcastic. I don't feel like going back to hometown due to this reason. How pathetic. I feel so regret now. Only my younger sister and my mum are very supportive, my younger sister always tell me I am going to be really pretty for the rest of my life by only suffering for two years and my mum thinks about creative ways to cook for me everyday.
I seriously need some support now.
Come on, don't you see everyone of braces who "graduate" , sure happy with the decision that took the braces.
Let me tell u in point form.
- People like to make joke with other. The more you react, they even happy with it. So, you must accept and confident with your braces. As you are walking to a right path to be even more pretty !!! (I been tell this in this forum many time)
- Have you notice friend surrounding you? 80% of them, their teeth is not tidy nicely. You, who wear the braces, for sure your teeth with better than them !
- People who like to tease you, just ignore them. After few times of teasing without your responses, they will bored and used to it and stop teasing you anymore.
- As your partner, hmm.. my following word may a bit bad. If he is love you, with the changes of your look, he will not love you anymore ? Some more it is not permanent wearing braces for life. It will remove eventually.. You should be confident with it and influent him to accept it. He is going to have even pretty gf later !
- Too old for braces ? A lot working adult starts wear braces after 30, some after 40 ! and I am the person who on later 30 !!! As said, nowaday people like to chat with me, i believe due to i have good smile now (of course, friendly too)~
We all here will support each other for sure. No worry ya ~ Cheers up !!!