RM10 chinese wedding dinner angpaos
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 Feb 6 2018, 09:54 AM
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kalau mau berkira sangat, dont do wedding dinner.
kalau mau buat jugak, pay out of own pocket is expected. kalau ada hati mau buat profit from the dinner, then i say padan muka kena rm10 angpau. in fact if you kena newspaper in angpau lagi bagus. |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:57 AM
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QUOTE(Glockers @ Feb 6 2018, 08:23 AM) Kau bodoh nak mampos takde duit nak buat wedding dinner pergi kahwin dalam hutan la jempot monyet dengan babi hutan datang wedding kau. Bagi pisang. +1 its true man. U wanna held wedding dinner u dont take it as business. Wedding dinner is suppose u wanna share the moments with ur close friend relatives family. I dont understand y chinese like this. Kau buat wedding dinner sebab nak celebrate wedding kau dengan close friends, family and relatives. Pastu kau expect monetory return dari wedding kau? Kau tak ikhlas lah tu bangsat! Takde duit jangan buat wedding dinner lah bingai! Pergi register kahwin pastu pergi kerja macam biasa. Cheapskate bodoh macam lembu punya orang! Orang dah bagi duit pastu demand lebih plak! PUIIII!   |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:57 AM
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QUOTE(andrewhtf @ Feb 6 2018, 09:54 AM) kalau mau berkira sangat, dont do wedding dinner. bagi packet angpao ngan gula sebijik kt dlm da cukup tuh.kalau mau buat jugak, pay out of own pocket is expected. kalau ada hati mau buat profit from the dinner, then i say padan muka kena rm10 angpau. in fact if you kena newspaper in angpau lagi bagus. |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:58 AM
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RM10 also money what. U should be grateful they didn't put hell note inside the ang pao.
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Feb 6 2018, 09:59 AM
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QUOTE(shephard86 @ Feb 6 2018, 09:58 AM) RM10 also money what. U should be grateful they didn't put hell note inside the ang pao. choi |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:01 AM
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QUOTE(Coup De Grace @ Feb 6 2018, 07:59 AM) I just talked to my fren who had his chinese wedding reception last week Not trying to be racist, from my experience those are non Chinese frens. I accepted because probably its the norm for them.He told me they received 15 RM10 angpao from the guests during that night What do u think about this? RM10 angpaos not acceptable? |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:01 AM
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waa 2018..still chinese so calculative...kiasuness too strong...
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Feb 6 2018, 10:01 AM
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Angpow is "lai see".
No need complain guests give u lai see. If want fixed or minimum cash then set door charge la. Don't pretend to invite guests for dinner to celebrate yr wedding |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:05 AM
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QUOTE(HoneyPink @ Feb 6 2018, 09:57 AM) bagi packet angpao ngan gula sebijik kt dlm da cukup tuh. itu untuk event lain bhai |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:06 AM
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QUOTE(EdBaaBaa @ Feb 6 2018, 10:01 AM) Angpow is "lai see". invitation card must write clearly. Ang pow money should not be less than RM100No need complain guests give u lai see. If want fixed or minimum cash then set door charge la. Don't pretend to invite guests for dinner to celebrate yr wedding |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:07 AM
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QUOTE(Coup De Grace @ Feb 6 2018, 08:59 AM) I just talked to my fren who had his chinese wedding reception last week dont expect reasonable sum FROM EVERY SINGLE TIME/PERSON, ALL THE TIME. When he gets generous sum (lets say rm500 from boss )... did he felt syukur coz its able to offset the less then favorable ones?He told me they received 15 RM10 angpao from the guests during that night What do u think about this? RM10 angpaos not acceptable? btw, some of my relatives arent' well to do... they make a point to help out during wedding events and we insist that they shouldnt worry about angpau during wedding dinner coz its waived. This post has been edited by alanyuppie: Feb 6 2018, 10:08 AM |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:08 AM
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another sei sohai chinamen mindset. people invite you to their wedding supposed to feel happy for them, now first thing come into thought is financial burden
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Feb 6 2018, 10:09 AM
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belanja makan ma. why expect the guests u invited to belanja your wedding dinner yo? it's your marriage, u wanna host dinner, u belanja makan. not the other way round. those who whine on the amount of cash in 'lai see' is cheapskate+vague. think twice if u have friends of that kind. are they genuinely happy to have u to witness their wedding grandeur, or do they just want u eat your soft rice?
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Feb 6 2018, 10:10 AM
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QUOTE(amxpayne67 @ Feb 6 2018, 08:05 AM) when you get invited to someone's wedding, and is pretty close to the bride and/or bridesmaid, you are torn between your commitment as a friend, your financial situation, your own personal problems. It is not you to judge someone is cheapskate based on the angpao they give for your wedding. Eleh cakap banyak, cheapskate lettewKalau finance buruk, hantar angpow cukup la jangan pergi makan |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:11 AM
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QUOTE(nightshade_nova @ Feb 6 2018, 08:03 AM) RM10 so cheapskate... Hehe..my angpow just RM2 for kidsThose are ang pows you give to kids during raya. |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:12 AM
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QUOTE(stimix @ Feb 6 2018, 10:11 AM) Hehe..my angpow just RM2 for kids ok la at least you dont only put fai chun inside. |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:13 AM
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Remember the ppl who gave, then bagi balik rm10 for their wedding la
It's good practice to note down the names of the angpow givers on the angpows, you know which one paid how much, so that next time you can return the favor This post has been edited by incubus_skj: Feb 6 2018, 10:13 AM |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:13 AM
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QUOTE(incubus_skj @ Feb 6 2018, 10:10 AM) Eleh cakap banyak, cheapskate lettew so, money is more important than the wedding?Kalau finance buruk, hantar angpow cukup la jangan pergi makan |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:14 AM
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BTW, to avoid getting smaller angpows from poorfags, he shouldn't imvited them. Only choose those loaded friends & relatives liao.
My yardsticks: if normal restaurant/malay wedding- RM30/pax. Hotel wedding- rm50/pax |
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Feb 6 2018, 10:14 AM
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QUOTE(amxpayne67 @ Feb 6 2018, 10:13 AM) so, money is more important than the wedding? depend it suksesful marriage or not  |
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