belanja makan ma. why expect the guests u invited to belanja your wedding dinner yo? it's your marriage, u wanna host dinner, u belanja makan. not the other way round. those who whine on the amount of cash in 'lai see' is cheapskate+vague. think twice if u have friends of that kind. are they genuinely happy to have u to witness their wedding grandeur, or do they just want u eat your soft rice?