RM10 chinese wedding dinner angpaos
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 Feb 6 2018, 09:03 AM
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1,374 posts Joined: Feb 2016 From: Milky Way 
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Should follow Shanghai style (if I'm not mistaken), they announce your angpow figure thru microphone immediately. Fuuyo....
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Feb 6 2018, 09:08 AM
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Too cheapskate
As i only attend close friend or family wedding, at least 100 to 200 |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:12 AM
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1. where was the wedding dinner value held first? low class place of coz get low value angpao should be expected
2. you wanna invite the people then you should already know what to expect. |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:17 AM
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izzit true that some wedding they put a statement that only cash is acceptable, gift is not allowed?
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Feb 6 2018, 09:18 AM
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216 posts Joined: Jul 2016
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Not Acceptable
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Feb 6 2018, 09:20 AM
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353 posts Joined: Nov 2015
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ask ppl come but want money. LOL chinese logic 404.
Its named ang pow for a reason. Its their right to give any amount. |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:20 AM
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If you have an chinese wedding, expect to be able to settle the bill by yourself, don't go expecting your guests to settle the bill for you. If you cannot afford it, just don't have the dinner
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Feb 6 2018, 09:22 AM
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cukur melayu
kawin dtg makan tak payah kasi pun takpa |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:23 AM
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lol typical chinaman wedding also want business kek QUOTE(nelienuxe_sara @ Feb 6 2018, 09:22 AM) cukur melayu not reallykawin dtg makan tak payah kasi pun takpa  ade je melayu2 bangsat bikin kenduri kalau salam keruk tangan wtf This post has been edited by cikalakacikaci: Feb 6 2018, 09:25 AM |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:24 AM
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QUOTE(Glockers @ Feb 6 2018, 08:23 AM) Kau bodoh nak mampos takde duit nak buat wedding dinner pergi kahwin dalam hutan la jempot monyet dengan babi hutan datang wedding kau. Bagi pisang. bhai kau tu bukan cina bhaiKau buat wedding dinner sebab nak celebrate wedding kau dengan close friends, family and relatives. Pastu kau expect monetory return dari wedding kau? Kau tak ikhlas lah tu bangsat! Takde duit jangan buat wedding dinner lah bingai! Pergi register kahwin pastu pergi kerja macam biasa. Cheapskate bodoh macam lembu punya orang! Orang dah bagi duit pastu demand lebih plak! PUIIII! asal kau tacing bhai |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:25 AM
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Its the not married people belanja guest meh?
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Feb 6 2018, 09:26 AM
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QUOTE(nelienuxe_sara @ Feb 6 2018, 09:22 AM) cukur melayu i went to 2 malay weddings. not hotel one, at home punya. both times the mother of the groom will do ala carte. you just order what you want and she cooks it on demand. dem.kawin dtg makan tak payah kasi pun takpa |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:28 AM
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I think also have to depend on the guest you are inviting, is the guest is someone you knoe or is a very distant friend?
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Feb 6 2018, 09:31 AM
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179 posts Joined: May 2006 From: Kuala Lumpur
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next time when they get married n u r invited u give the same lor
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Feb 6 2018, 09:34 AM
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rich people wont complain. if you scare lose money. do smaller wedding
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Feb 6 2018, 09:34 AM
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i don't have control or say on the cost for the dinner, the date nor time yet I have to pay according to what you wish ?
RM10 mebe too little to your fren, but some family can fed few mouth liao for a day .... |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:36 AM
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that's why I feel the big Chinese wedding dinner mentality should die fast, it's expensive, tiring, a hassle, and 80% of the people invited are not even someone you know closely. Most of it are from the parent's friends. And those old people karaoke galore is a torture to boot.
Just invite really close friends and family, ideally not more than 60 people, a small dinner with bride and groom giving brief speech then done. Don't even need the guest to pay for anything since it's affordable. |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:36 AM
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QUOTE(lalala_lalala @ Feb 6 2018, 09:17 AM) izzit true that some wedding they put a statement that only cash is acceptable, gift is not allowed? Attended more than a dozen weddings & never seen anyone do this. |
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Feb 6 2018, 09:37 AM
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673 posts Joined: May 2008 From: City of Kittehs
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get married with the expectation of getting a profit via the angpow kah? lel
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Feb 6 2018, 09:47 AM
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169 posts Joined: Nov 2010 From: Black Dragon River
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QUOTE(nelienuxe_sara @ Feb 6 2018, 09:24 AM) bhai kau tu bukan cina bhai Nak ajar mereka adab bai. Kita 1 Malaysia. Ramai jugak kawan aku cina jemput wedding. Tapi blum ada yang macam TS.asal kau tacing bhai |
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