I just talked to my fren who had his chinese wedding reception last week

He told me they received 15 RM10 angpao from the guests during that night

What do u think about this? RM10 angpaos not acceptable?

if they already calculative about stuff like this, they should not get married in the first place.

Post their name and shame them in FB. Come eat RM 100+ per pax dinner. Ang Pao RM10.

RM10 so cheapskate...
Those are ang pows you give to kids during raya.

people short of cash now, CNY coming

so gip RM10 loh instead or RM100

Previously I gave RM 20 because the meals were cold and bad. If hotels like Hilton, easily RM 200 per pax. Min also RM 50.

when you get invited to someone's wedding, and is pretty close to the bride and/or bridesmaid, you are torn between your commitment as a friend, your financial situation, your own personal problems. It is not you to judge someone is cheapskate based on the angpao they give for your wedding.

This post has been edited by amxpayne67: Feb 6 2018, 08:05 AM

people give what they can afford... what is the problem? blame the groom not choosing their guest properly.

RM10 for kids? kfc also need RM12 nowadays... RM10 for CNY is so cheapskate too... hari raya also people give RM10

how's that burn feel to you?

The fact that they come is good enough. I would rather not attend any wedding.waste my time.

kiasu

If close then should be no problem. They will understand. Im just saying in general situation, independent of any extenuating circumstances.

You said it yourself. RM10 also cant buy KFC, thats why its cheapskate.
Raya and CNY give to a lot of kids ang pows vs wedding which is one party only.


Bottom line is only the people who host the wedding's perception is important, not other people.
How important they are to you, how understanding they are, and how important it is that you want to keep a good image of yourself.

You dont tell how much you give, people wont know also.

that is why a lot of people hate to attend wedding ceremony. The so called "close" friend being understanding is really an understatement, because what happens behind the scene is badmouthing the guest based on their "gives / angpow".

Kau bodoh nak mampos takde duit nak buat wedding dinner pergi kahwin dalam hutan la jempot monyet dengan babi hutan datang wedding kau. Bagi pisang.

Kau buat wedding dinner sebab nak celebrate wedding kau dengan close friends, family and relatives. Pastu kau expect monetory return dari wedding kau? Kau tak ikhlas lah tu bangsat!

Takde duit jangan buat wedding dinner lah bingai! Pergi register kahwin pastu pergi kerja macam biasa.

Cheapskate bodoh macam lembu punya orang!

Orang dah bagi duit pastu demand lebih plak! PUIIII!

give any rm but all table full or minimum rm100 but only 2 table full?

which one they prefer? end of the day need pay all table they reserve also.

Rm10?
I'm still receiving RM2 these few years

cukur la dpt 10. haha.

This post has been edited by HafeesFadil: Feb 6 2018, 08:28 AM

No money don't hold dinner la sohai