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amxpayne67
post Feb 6 2018, 08:01 AM

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if they already calculative about stuff like this, they should not get married in the first place.
amxpayne67
post Feb 6 2018, 08:05 AM

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QUOTE(nightshade_nova @ Feb 6 2018, 08:03 AM)
RM10 so cheapskate...
Those are ang pows you give to kids during raya.
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when you get invited to someone's wedding, and is pretty close to the bride and/or bridesmaid, you are torn between your commitment as a friend, your financial situation, your own personal problems. It is not you to judge someone is cheapskate based on the angpao they give for your wedding.

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amxpayne67
post Feb 6 2018, 08:22 AM

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QUOTE(nightshade_nova @ Feb 6 2018, 08:20 AM)
If close then should be no problem. They will understand. Im just saying in general situation, independent of any extenuating circumstances.
You said it yourself. RM10 also cant buy KFC, thats why its cheapskate.
Raya and CNY give to a lot of kids ang pows vs wedding which is one party only.
Bottom line is only the people who host the wedding's perception is important, not other people.
How important they are to you, how understanding they are, and how important it is that you want to keep a good image of yourself.

You dont tell how much you give, people wont know also.
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that is why a lot of people hate to attend wedding ceremony. The so called "close" friend being understanding is really an understatement, because what happens behind the scene is badmouthing the guest based on their "gives / angpow".
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post Feb 6 2018, 10:13 AM

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QUOTE(incubus_skj @ Feb 6 2018, 10:10 AM)
Eleh cakap banyak, cheapskate lettew

Kalau finance buruk, hantar angpow cukup la jangan pergi makan
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so, money is more important than the wedding?

 

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