...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 3:::...., The Fellowship of LDR
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 Apr 22 2007, 11:25 PM
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Ya in LDR you won't be able to know what's your partner doing and that you must trust your partner and believe what he/she says.. - That's what I'm facing sometimes but after she told me that she gone somewhere then without any hesitation I accepted her explanation.
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Apr 22 2007, 11:28 PM
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QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 22 2007, 10:45 PM) lelong1234... listen to Joshua's advice... be in LDR, TRUST is vy vy important.. dun ever try control your gf... give her space... Yup, this is important. Or else, you will be in deep shit like what I faced last time hope she can see your effort and appreciate the relationship.. GANBATEH!   |
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Apr 23 2007, 01:25 AM
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let the gal know u will always be able to get it over with if she leaves u, and make it darn clear that u are able to get better gal than her. then ur relationship is secured
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Apr 23 2007, 02:04 AM
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QUOTE(radical85 @ Apr 23 2007, 01:25 AM) let the gal know u will always be able to get it over with if she leaves u, and make it darn clear that u are able to get better gal than her. then ur relationship is secured  I don't think this is a good idea leh. This could lead to misunderstanding and make loved one think you are not serious in the relationship  |
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Apr 23 2007, 09:12 AM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 23 2007, 02:04 AM) I don't think this is a good idea leh. This could lead to misunderstanding and make loved one think you are not serious in the relationship |
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Apr 23 2007, 07:09 PM
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QUOTE(lelong1234 @ Apr 22 2007, 10:14 PM) hey...i am also in an ldr... No, you're just an insecure wuss. She has a life too you know. You think too much.got a small problem... lately my gf has been returning to her room late.. like past 2am (i know coz i call her room then no 1 answer, then the following day i ask her what time she come back then she says 2am)... she says that she was in a friends room watching drama and chatting... would you guys allow your gf to behave like this?? especially since you are so far away and dont know what shes up to. i dont know but i just cant help felling insecure because of this... |
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Apr 23 2007, 08:45 PM
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Alamak ..edi V3!!
EVERYBODY ,Gd evening  |
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Apr 23 2007, 08:50 PM
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lol.. Hi there Rena
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Apr 23 2007, 08:59 PM
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QUOTE(Rena_blue @ Apr 23 2007, 08:45 PM) Alamak ..edi V3!! Good Evening....~~~EVERYBODY ,Gd evening |
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Apr 23 2007, 09:02 PM
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Guys, I got my gf into trouble accidentally. We were on MSN and I ask her some question, which I don't know she suddenly went toilet and left her MSN on. Her colleague went and read her MSN.
 And now, she is angry of me..... I feel very 'Nei Jiu' and feel very sorry to her. How? Grrrr... Stupid me.... Recently, she keep on say I ask too much questions, and she said asking much questions will bring trouble. She now blaming me that.....  |
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Apr 23 2007, 10:46 PM
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Aih.. I also sometimes ask her a lot of questions as well.. Many times some more.. - She didn't say anything all she said was 'I don't mind'.. Actually I also know that if I keep on like this she will get annoyed someday..
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Apr 23 2007, 10:49 PM
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QUOTE(BlueWind @ Apr 23 2007, 10:46 PM) Aih.. I also sometimes ask her a lot of questions as well.. Many times some more.. - She didn't say anything all she said was 'I don't mind'.. Actually I also know that if I keep on like this she will get annoyed someday.. Actually... Mmm... Sometime, I ask some question just to start some topic. As she do not want us always keep quiet on the phone. So...... Haiz....She now having her bath, she said she got some matter to talk to me Kinda scare now actually |
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Apr 24 2007, 12:44 PM
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I feel you man.. Same here.. Sometimes I tend to ask her some questions just to start a topic.. - Like few days before.. she sms me telling me that she got something to talk to me.. And I was like, scared.. It was kinda scary when she told me she has got something to tell me and ask me to online.. But phew.. It turned out to be expressing her own feelings which she didn't really do it previously.. So I was like glad that she did that so right now everything is fine now
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Apr 24 2007, 02:36 PM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 23 2007, 10:49 PM) Actually... Mmm... Sometime, I ask some question just to start some topic. As she do not want us always keep quiet on the phone. So...... Haiz.... how how Josh... wat she talked to you???She now having her bath, she said she got some matter to talk to me Kinda scare now actually hope nothing serious.... Added on April 24, 2007, 3:09 pmok la... time for me to share photo of my and my lovely darling... kekeke Me and my darling taken last month then she won the 1st runner up and miss personality of Miss Tourism Pahang 2007...   Below pic u all can find in today's newapaper.. my darling wearing No1...  This post has been edited by kokuryo: Apr 24 2007, 03:09 PM |
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Apr 24 2007, 03:18 PM
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QUOTE(Joshua_0718 @ Apr 23 2007, 09:02 PM) Guys, I got my gf into trouble accidentally. We were on MSN and I ask her some question, which I don't know she suddenly went toilet and left her MSN on. Her colleague went and read her MSN. actually, it isnt your fault that her colleague saw what you asked in MSN. it's in fact her colleague's fault for going to see her things without your gf's permission. And now, she is angry of me..... I feel very 'Nei Jiu' and feel very sorry to her. How? Grrrr... Stupid me.... Recently, she keep on say I ask too much questions, and she said asking much questions will bring trouble. She now blaming me that..... and believe it or not, it is also your gf's fault for not turning off the screen or her msn chatting before she goes to washroom. Added on April 24, 2007, 3:21 pmkokuryo... Aren't so proud of your gf. she's pretty... that's so sweet ... This post has been edited by miyoko: Apr 24 2007, 03:21 PM |
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Apr 24 2007, 03:47 PM
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 24 2007, 03:18 PM) actually, it isnt your fault that her colleague saw what you asked in MSN. it's in fact her colleague's fault for going to see her things without your gf's permission. i agreed with miyoko here, it for sure isnt your fault...and believe it or not, it is also your gf's fault for not turning off the screen or her msn chatting before she goes to washroom. Added on April 24, 2007, 3:21 pmkokuryo... Aren't so proud of your gf. she's pretty... that's so sweet ... thanks for your compliment miyoko... even thou our distance is near now, im in cheras and she in sunway, but we still canot meet each other..  |
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Apr 24 2007, 04:18 PM
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definitely not your fault. it's everybody's. One, you shouldn't have asked her the question then. Two, she should have known better than to go to the bathroom without turning off or locking her screen. Three, that stupid nosy colleague it's none of his/her business!
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Apr 24 2007, 04:28 PM
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QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 24 2007, 04:18 PM) definitely not your fault. it's everybody's. One, you shouldn't have asked her the question then. Two, she should have known better than to go to the bathroom without turning off or locking her screen. Three, that stupid nosy colleague it's none of his/her business! yalo... i hate those vy bz body punya people...  spoiled people's life onli.... |
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Apr 24 2007, 05:54 PM
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Apr 24 2007, 03:18 PM) actually, it isnt your fault that her colleague saw what you asked in MSN. it's in fact her colleague's fault for going to see her things without your gf's permission. and believe it or not, it is also your gf's fault for not turning off the screen or her msn chatting before she goes to washroom. Added on April 24, 2007, 3:21 pmkokuryo... Aren't so proud of your gf. she's pretty... that's so sweet ... QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 24 2007, 03:47 PM) i agreed with miyoko here, it for sure isnt your fault... thanks for your compliment miyoko... even thou our distance is near now, im in cheras and she in sunway, but we still canot meet each other.. QUOTE(spunkberry @ Apr 24 2007, 04:18 PM) definitely not your fault. it's everybody's. One, you shouldn't have asked her the question then. Two, she should have known better than to go to the bathroom without turning off or locking her screen. Three, that stupid nosy colleague it's none of his/her business! QUOTE(kokuryo @ Apr 24 2007, 04:28 PM) yalo... i hate those vy bz body punya people... If I dun ask, these problem won't occur right? spoiled people's life onli.... I didn't think the consequence and ask. Anyway, yesterday phone call. I nearly can't breath. When I call her, she start the conversation with "Wo Yao Gen Ni Jiang......."(I want to say that.... )... Then she pause. I that time try to be as calm as possible... Told her got anything just say it out.... She then said forget about the matter, let's just hope her colleague didn't say anything. Phew..... Luckily.. I thought she talk about.... Guess?  She scolded me for thinking that 'end' Added on April 24, 2007, 5:56 pmkokuryo, you and your gf photo has been posted in post #1. Really really sweet couple. I can see your smile with full of TEETH (HAPPINESS) This post has been edited by Joshua_0718: Apr 24 2007, 05:56 PM |
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Apr 24 2007, 08:05 PM
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Waah.. Really nerve-wrecking leh.. Say wo yao gen ni jiang then pause for while.. For me I will certainly get heart attack.. lol..
Kokuryo, very sweet leh.. Nice photo you got there man haha  |
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