You don't expect me to go "Hey babe" on you right? Lol.

my best guy friend in Japan asked me out last week. As in asked me to date him.

Berry's got a cookie....

yes I dooooo ahhaha

Report on the date?

weee....i went bak n met him........
but now bak in kl...have to wait another 3 weeks only can see him again....sigh......

hahahaha he asked me out last Thursday...I had lunch with him on Saturday. Just had a nice Italian lunch...that he bought...and won't let me pay him back...and then sat in the park for two hours together just talking.

At least you get to meet him for another time right? Even though you have to wait for another 3 weeks. - Unlike me, I have absolutely no idea when I could meet my gf once again.. So cheer up girl.

Guys, be strong alright.

What to do .. we can just wait for the next visit when they are coming down again oh .. Cheers Mate !

@suiteng
Sherly jie back in KL liao? I also sick.. many ppl sick coz of the bad weather. Sigh...
Hello ! Ya, I've send her to the bus station back to KL liao ... now she is still sick .. aikz. you take care too ...

huggie, actually you base in KL, right?

Hey dark.. Never realise you're in a LDR..
Might end up in one as well.. Hmmm...

Hello ! Last time I used to be in KL but now transferred to Ipoh already ...

how far can u consider a LDR?kilometer?state?

As long as both of you are not in the same town/city.

KL-Ipoh is as much an LDR as KL-Tokyo

Hi, this is my first time posting on this LDR thread. I've been with my girl for almost 6 months now, she's at Australia while I'm studying in Singapore. We're both Malaysians lah

Anyway, she just told me last night that she is planning to stay back in Aus after her graduation end of this year. She's planning to do her postgrad or look for a job. So yeah she's not sure if we could go on, although I've already foresee this to happen someday, and I'm prepared to go through this for another 2 or more years. Well, the thing is I'm not sure if she does. She told me that maybe we should take a break. But for me I don't think I can "take a break" when it comes to feelings, once its gone, it will be hard to get it back. Besides, how long is this break? 2 or 3 years?

So I told her maybe we should take it one step at a time, when the time comes where we can no longer tolerate the absence of one another then we shall "take a break" or discuss about it. What do you think guys? Am I holding on to something superficial here? I know its gonna be hard but I'm prepared to hold on to it because she's worth it. I wished I could be selfish and convince her to come back but I'm not like that, I don't want to hold her back in her career.

Well another thing I'm concerned with is whether she sees a future for both of us. I feel that if you really love someone, you would make a decision that will benefit both parties unless you're ready to give up the relationship. I mean I'm ready to sacrifice alot for this, but is she willing to do the same? Hmm am I giving myself too much false hope? I'm kind of confused too. I wonder what's in her mind. Ahhh love is so tough sometimes.

Sorry for this long post, I just need to let it out. Thanks for reading

Life is like this, if it's really yours then it's really yours. Same thing if it's not yours then it's not. - I'm pretty sure you've heard of this before.. Since there are some questions in your mind, why don't you ask her? I know it is hard when it comes on doing stuff, but it's better that making yourself wondering here and there and not discussing with your partner while you can't see what the future is going to be like. From what I've read, you stated that she wanted to take a break which I personally don't think that she is prepared to go through this with you.. You know in this world nothing is certain, so if you are keen in trying this relationship, then you should go talk to her more. If she's still tell you those negative kind of hints and things like that meaning she isn't prepared to go through this with you.. Ok, this is what I thought from your post. If any of my statement is making you feel offended, I'm terribly sorry..

So, that's just my IMHO.. Bear me..

That's exactly the same as my opinion.

Try talk to her about it, don't make yourself wondering alone but try to let her know. A relationship is about two person. So, if one fails to commit himself/herself, then basically it's not worth to hold on to. Don't drag it any longer if she has decided to withdraw from this journey. Respect her and yourself.

All the best.