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post Jul 25 2018, 12:24 PM

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QUOTE(cynthusc @ Jul 25 2018, 12:17 PM)
Clearly you don't know anything about academic admissions. You better get to know more. If your kid scores straight As you can save your 1 million.
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Don't worry if the parents has such thought process, I can confirm that the children won't be contributing much to the society.

And the 1 million also has been long spent on 200K cars and living up the lifestyle of a rich guy. The children prob wont have much left.
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post Jul 25 2018, 12:26 PM

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QUOTE(MeToo @ Jul 25 2018, 12:22 PM)
1. Ahh, the old "if I can why she cannot argument". Also, I'm sure you can show that every student who got straight A's in malaysia will get a scholarship to Harvard (or its equivalent)... right?

2. You are also the foremost authority in Harvard admission? I'm sure you can substantiate your assertion that "Every malaysian that got into Harvard had a scholarship" ... right?

3. Ah yes, when all else fails, resort to personal attacks, calling the other guy stupid is also a plus. I can see you are clearly highly educated.  thumbsup.gif
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1&2 Seek and you shall find. Don't be lazy.

3. What to do? a degrading post deserves a degrading response.
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post Jul 25 2018, 12:28 PM

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QUOTE(MeToo @ Jul 25 2018, 12:24 PM)
Notice you made lots of wide encompassing statements, but failed substantiate any of them.
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Because your statements clearly shows your lack of knowledge in this area. Substantiated by your own statements.
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post Jul 25 2018, 12:30 PM

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QUOTE(cfkoon @ Jul 25 2018, 12:24 PM)
Don't worry if the parents has such thought process, I can confirm that the children won't be contributing much to the society.

And the 1 million also has been long spent on 200K cars and living up the lifestyle of a rich guy. The children prob wont have much left.
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Was that directed at me? HAAHAHAHA...so I must spend 1 mil on my daughter's education so that she contributes to society.
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QUOTE(cynthusc @ Jul 25 2018, 12:26 PM)
1&2 Seek and you shall find. Don't be lazy.

3. What to do? a degrading post deserves a degrading response.
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You make a statement, substantiate it. That is the basic premise of a discussion. But apparently you failed to even understand that.

So basically you have no facts and just pulling statements out of thin air?

I think its pointless to continue discussing this topic with someone as obstinate as this.

Since this have, once again, drifted away from purpose of this thread/section, i'll agree to disagree and this will be my last response to you on this issue.
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post Jul 25 2018, 12:36 PM

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QUOTE(cynthusc @ Jul 25 2018, 12:30 PM)
Was that directed at me? HAAHAHAHA...so I must spend 1 mil on my daughter's education so that she contributes to society.
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Lolol haha not directed to you. I was riding on your comments because I'm allergic to stupidity and so I don't want to respond directly to MeToo.

I do believe that he also insulted you first but later in comments, framed that you resorted to personal attacks and calling him stupid - premise of a truly ignorant person.

And based on his comments of overseas studies, I don't think he has any clue (because first he hasnt been through it, and second his children are not nearing that age).
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post Jul 25 2018, 12:38 PM

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QUOTE(ehwee @ Jul 25 2018, 12:03 PM)
Agree on how you arrange these travelling journey with your daughter.

That's the value we should get from travelling and make our money spend while worth

Lots of people just travelling for short term happiness and photos shooting, if we can take travelling as an investment to our inner soul and knowledge about the world then this is a good way to spend our money.

As for education, for me I think it's depends on what our kids longing for, when they grow up they will gradually realise what they want to achieve for their life path.

We as parents just need to ready some education saving for them and guide them thru the process.

Degree holder not a compulsory, if our kids wish to obtain higher education, we have saving for that.

If they don't like to study further and have clear planning on venture into business world themselves, just sponsor them with the education saving we already have.

Yet we need to make them responsible for the decision they take and don't just simply feed them with cash.
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I respect your views on higher education. I just chose a different path for my daughter. Will help her if she wants it and is capable but not give her everything. I think I did mention that but not sure why suddenly other people getting their knickers in a twist and all upset that I am not putting aside millions for her education.
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post Jul 25 2018, 12:39 PM

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QUOTE(cfkoon @ Jul 25 2018, 12:36 PM)
Lolol haha not directed to you. I was riding on your comments because I'm allergic to stupidity and so I don't want to respond directly to MeToo.

I do believe that he also insulted you first but later in comments, framed that you resorted to personal attacks and calling him stupid - premise of a truly ignorant person.

And based on his comments of overseas studies, I don't think he has any clue (because first he hasnt been through it, and second his children are not nearing that age).
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Oh okay...sorry about that. I thought it was directed at me. Anyways I respect your approach and I just chose mine.
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post Jul 25 2018, 02:24 PM

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My 3-year in local uni costed me a total of RM5,000 in tuition fees, and I think I'm making more than my peers that spent 6-figure in private colleges.
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post Jul 25 2018, 02:41 PM

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QUOTE(kbandito @ Jul 25 2018, 02:24 PM)
My 3-year in local uni costed me a total of RM5,000 in tuition fees, and I think I'm making more than my peers that spent 6-figure in private colleges.
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Kudos for getting in to local university and not making your parents pay an arm and leg for it.
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post Jul 25 2018, 03:11 PM

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QUOTE(cynthusc @ Jul 25 2018, 12:39 PM)
Oh okay...sorry about that. I thought it was directed at me. Anyways I respect your approach and I just chose mine.
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No worries, you have my support on your decision - personally i find that it builds character for your child. There are definitely others who don't have the same opportunity (and vice versa there are also alot kids who do have that privilege). And it isn't up to strangers to question or criticize what is essentially just a "decision" for your children.


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post Jul 25 2018, 06:24 PM

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QUOTE(cynthusc @ Jul 25 2018, 08:35 AM)
My expenses for family of 2. Just me and my teen daughter:

Housing Loan RM3200
Other Property Loan RM2000
Rent (Before move in to house next year) RM1000
Car RM800
Tuition Fees RM1000
Pocket Money for Daughter RM120
Petrol RM500
Tolls RM300
Groceries RM400
Eating Out RM1000
Cat Food RM50
Electricity - RM60
Internet - RM150
HP bill - RM130
Insurance - RM1000
Savings  including EPF - RM2000
Emergency Fund (In case of emergencies and will be transferred to savings or used to pay off some of loan at the end of year) - RM1K

Yearly
Holidays RM30K
Educational Seminars RM2K
Road Tax Insurance RM1100
Car Repairs and Maintenance RM1200
Angpows RM2000
Presents for family and friends RM3K
Quit Rent and Assessment - RM2.5K
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wow, very impressive income you have there.
you are running a business?

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post Jul 25 2018, 10:44 PM

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QUOTE(fast_coder @ Jul 25 2018, 06:24 PM)
wow, very impressive income you have there.
you are running a business?
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Yes a very small one. 2 full time, 2 part time employees

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post Jul 26 2018, 11:25 AM

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QUOTE(cynthusc @ Jul 25 2018, 10:44 PM)
Yes a very small one. 2 full time, 2 part time employees
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You have a very good business there.

Like most of my SME clients, they too have problems hiring good attitude staff or worse they can't even find anyone to work. Probably retails or skill work it's " too dirty / low pay" for the fresh grads to even consider.

For my kids education, I'll would advise them to take the PTPTN loan and invest the savings I gave them else where. Still long way to as both my kids are still very young.


I'll chip in with my income & expense for first 6 months in 2018.

Income %
Permanent 40%
Freelance 60%
Total Income 100%

Expenses %
House upkeep & renovations 21%
House loan 15%
Savings/investments 15%
Car loan 14%
Eating Out 11%
Fuel 5%
Groceries & babies stuff 5%
Insurance 5%
Maxis bills 3%
Car maintenance 3%
Apartment sinking fund 2%
Outsource accounting work 1%
Electricity & water charges 1%
Total Expenses 100%

There are work that I've completed but fees still yet to be paid it's not included in the above.
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post Jul 26 2018, 01:51 PM

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QUOTE(rapple @ Jul 26 2018, 11:25 AM)
You have a very good business there.

Like most of my SME clients, they too have problems hiring good attitude staff or worse they can't even find anyone to work. Probably retails or skill work it's " too dirty / low pay" for the fresh grads to even consider.

For my kids education, I'll would advise them to take the PTPTN loan and invest the savings I gave them else where. Still long way to as both my kids are still very young.
I'll chip in with my income & expense for first 6 months in 2018.

Income                              %
Permanent                      40%
Freelance                              60%
Total Income                      100%

Expenses                                %
House upkeep & renovations 21%
House loan                        15%
Savings/investments          15%
Car loan                            14%
Eating Out                                11%
Fuel                                          5%
Groceries & babies stuff        5%
Insurance                          5%
Maxis bills                          3%
Car maintenance                3%
Apartment sinking fund        2%
Outsource accounting work  1%
Electricity & water charges        1%
Total Expenses                    100%

There are work that I've completed but fees still yet to be paid it's not included in the above.
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Personally, I feel PTPTN is a good loan/debt.
Lets say, even the parents are able to afford the tuition fees.
I don't see any wrong in getting full PTPTN loan.

Let me back my pov with 2 main points:
1. For 1%, lets say you get full 20 years loan.
You can put the money in any investment vehicle which can easily beat this non-compounding interest loan @ 1%!!
Yes, even FD!
2. If the kid ended up with good grades, the loan may be waived, ended up - free education! smile.gif

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QUOTE(razorknight @ Jul 26 2018, 03:41 PM)
wah all mature people in this thread!!!
i tot this forum all small kids and young adults only....

me chinese age almost 40 liao.... under employment with salary around 20k a month, manager level, MNC company ... got wife and daughter...

wife is full time house wife take care daughter...

i need help or advice from all sifus here .... as my gaji tak cukup.....

in todays world, house loan, and food expenses, utility bills, family medical expenses, insurance, all super expensive and all my money gone....

i drive local car only....

most people think that i am rich or well doing but deep down i pass by each month only....

i got frens whom is making 20k++ a month also same situation and just get by life only....

anyone here got any advice or any opportunity or us....can share with me??? 

i know Single, young people won't understand y not enuff punya....
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Try sharing your expenses here?

I don't say RM20k is more than enough, but it depends on how you allocate it.
Who knows 50% of the salary went to serve housing loan liaw?
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post Jul 26 2018, 05:15 PM

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QUOTE(razorknight @ Jul 26 2018, 04:32 PM)
i try to breakdown
house loan 3k
car loan on 2 local cars 1k
30 days food 2k
utilities bills 1k
insurance 1k
parents fund 2k
parents insurance 1k
husband pocket 2k
wife pocket 2k
children expenses 1k

savings 1k

monthly salary 20k deduct EPF liao is around 17k lor....

if any emergency happen??
future child education fund??
me lost of jobs??

all gone....
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Insurance is there to cover if any medical emergency happens.

No children fund. Apply PTPTN loan.

Lost of jobs looks for new job lo. I am sure there are lots of oppurtunity available.

As a manger of MNC i thought they would offer you a better car with Company interest free loan. Hmm?

I am sure the pocket money can be saved up for rainy days if you are really determined to do it. Not all of it but a little bit in the long run will make a difference. Just like how Rosmah did it.lol

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post Jul 26 2018, 06:11 PM

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QUOTE(razorknight @ Jul 26 2018, 04:32 PM)
i try to breakdown
house loan 3k
car loan on 2 local cars 1k
30 days food 2k
utilities bills 1k
insurance 1k
parents fund 2k
parents insurance 1k
husband pocket 2k
wife pocket 2k
children expenses 1k

savings 1k

monthly salary 20k deduct EPF liao is around 17k lor....

if any emergency happen??
future child education fund??
me lost of jobs??

all gone....
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Woahhh, very very good man, looking after the ENTIRE family - top, side & bottom. But kinda GG weh. RM1k for a daughter only, if 2nd one comes..... rclxub.gif

Any existing investment or passive income e.g. unit trust? properties?

Advise:
- Relook into your insurance, whether you're over insured or not.
- Relook into your housing loan, whether currently you're getting the best rates or not

Opportunities
- Wife got any potential to contribute to the household income? It has to come from her heart, less effective to stress her into it.
- You holding a senior position in a MNC need to network A LOT for opportunities as you're quite likely to be exposed to high leveled people as well
- Manager already, so polish up further on your leadership skill
- Learn up the flow of business & gain business logics from your job or company
- If you got no interest in business, then aim to climb higher for more salary & opportunities
- Invest in yourself to enhance your value, it increases your opportunities
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post Jul 26 2018, 07:30 PM

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QUOTE(razorknight @ Jul 26 2018, 04:32 PM)
i try to breakdown
house loan 3k
car loan on 2 local cars 1k
30 days food 2k
utilities bills 1k
insurance 1k
parents fund 2k
parents insurance 1k
husband pocket 2k
wife pocket 2k
children expenses 1k

savings 1k

monthly salary 20k deduct EPF liao is around 17k lor....

if any emergency happen??
future child education fund??
me lost of jobs??

all gone....
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From what I see here your food, personal expense of 2K for both you and your wife and utilities can be cut down drastically.
Can save about 2K there.
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post Jul 26 2018, 08:27 PM

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QUOTE(rapple @ Jul 26 2018, 11:25 AM)
You have a very good business there.

Like most of my SME clients, they too have problems hiring good attitude staff or worse they can't even find anyone to work. Probably retails or skill work it's " too dirty / low pay" for the fresh grads to even consider.

For my kids education, I'll would advise them to take the PTPTN loan and invest the savings I gave them else where. Still long way to as both my kids are still very young.
I'll chip in with my income & expense for first 6 months in 2018.

Income                               %
Permanent                       40%
Freelance                               60%
Total Income                      100%

Expenses                                 %
House upkeep & renovations 21%
House loan                         15%
Savings/investments           15%
Car loan                             14%
Eating Out                                 11%
Fuel                                          5%
Groceries & babies stuff         5%
Insurance                           5%
Maxis bills                          3%
Car maintenance                 3%
Apartment sinking fund         2%
Outsource accounting work   1%
Electricity & water charges         1%
Total Expenses                     100%

There are work that I've completed but fees still yet to be paid it's not included in the above.
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I get a lot of applicants but very few work out because they can't handle the work. They don't have the interest or personality. I pay slightly above market rate so no short of applicants.

Yes PTPTN is a good option. My daughter can explore that if she wants to. At the moment she is still targeting scholarships. At least a partial one where she can also work part time. So far she has saved enough to pay for her first year in a local private university. If she can get in to local university, even without a scholarship she has enough saved up coz a year of private local university is almost 100% of a 4 year local university like UM and UKM. We are also exploring US universities as she can work as well as study if she can't get a full ride.

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