Done that, didn't turn out well

In fact, it gotten worst

Sorry, to hear that. You cannot eliminate the possibility of postpartum depression at this point, seek professional help early.

another way is to ask her friends who also are mothers to help with the talking, provided they are positive thinking type of person

I have similar issue.
For my case, it is more towards financial issue, we just dont have extra money to have another kid even though we want one, the stress of suddenly having one might be the problem.

You need to find out why yourself. It might be hormone change after birth, financially stress, trauma of childbirth, etc.

the cost to raise the kids is not cheap nowadays. my daughter per month in international school over RM 1.4k. And some cost even higher. I just do not have enough confidence in Malaysia's schooling system, as of now.

Why want to waste money on International school. Some local schools are really good.

Hi all I'm father of one son. Just want to ask, if we notice that our wife is facing with Post Partum Depression what is the best advice and action that we can do. I feel sorry for her since she's trying so hard to breastfeed our child. But sometime I thinking that, its taking tolls on her body. I tried once to feed our baby using bottle, but he rejected and he want to breasfeed only. Im in dilemma. Sometime my wife thinking of just let the baby with me. She seems frustrated with the demand of the baby. I try to convince her if breasfeed really that bad, we try to switch to formula milk. but formula milk also not so cheap. Appreciate for any comment and suggestion. Thank you everyone.

Hi, I suggest you to ask her out to meet her friends. Well, at least it works for me. Initially she a bit reluctant, but after few times, she will gets better.

In terms of breastfeed or formula, I said the same thing to my wife, but somehow being seen as "discouraging" to her and create stress for her. Her psychology is she wants the best for her baby, why no one is supporting? I would say just encourage to do her best in breastfeeding, and go out with her girl friends, makan, minum, wayang. The baby reject bottle because of nipple confusion. Once baby hungry, he will drinks. But try not to make big hole like old people always did. Small hole makes them suck harder and gives them feeling that they are sucking breastmilk, monitor and adjust. Once her feeling is better, then everything will sort out by itself.