Congrats! It gonna be sleepless night awaiting you!

I got a father of two, one age 7 and the other 2. While I appreciate the baby bed, I prefer my kids to be sticky. I mean, how many more years they will stick to you? At least for now, I prefer my kids cuddling me to bed. In the end, I guess it is all down to parents' preference in bringing up the kids.

My wife is very emotional when it comes to our son

Everytime he is sick or refuse to eat or cry non stop, she will be very emotional.

Shout, cry, throw plate, pour all out on me (but never on the baby)

I did sat her down many times, tell her that if she can't cope, just pass to me and walk away

It is like one hand I need to calm my son down, another hand I need to calm her down

Is it something common happen to you all and if yes, how do you cope with the emotional outburst from your spouse

I find it very emotional taxing to me hence I no longer keen to have another children

the cost to raise the kids is not cheap nowadays. my daughter per month in international school over RM 1.4k. And some cost even higher. I just do not have enough confidence in Malaysia's schooling system, as of now.