Join lowyat forum in 2005 back when I just graduated

Now in my mid 30es

Waiting outside delivery room

Expecting my first child

Government hospital only allows pregnant ladies to go in

Man can't even go into the lobby

We have to wait at the car park

Btw, just got a boy

Can only hold him when he got discharge

My wife is very emotional when it comes to our son

Everytime he is sick or refuse to eat or cry non stop, she will be very emotional.

Shout, cry, throw plate, pour all out on me (but never on the baby)

I did sat her down many times, tell her that if she can't cope, just pass to me and walk away

It is like one hand I need to calm my son down, another hand I need to calm her down

Is it something common happen to you all and if yes, how do you cope with the emotional outburst from your spouse

I find it very emotional taxing to me hence I no longer keen to have another children

This post has been edited by loui: Jun 8 2023, 09:47 PM

Both of our parents are ready to help

But when it comes to our son, she refused to let others to get involved

Hence I feel like stuck in a situation where all I can do is to pray that she will grow emotionally

Done that, didn't turn out well

In fact, it gotten worst