QUOTE(bbmars @ Dec 2 2007, 11:40 PM)
Its okay if they don't understand... at least try explaining what it is like. My father in law used to engaged 2 indians from India to help with his mover business. I must say, those days... they were only here in SG on social pass, therefore, it made them illegal working for him, untill he finally got them as full time worker.... but they were paid local paid.. no undercutting as my in law is very generous with workers including meals and drinks.. I could recall.. years after they left and came back working as contract worker with HDB as cleaners. they look up my in law only to find him underground 6 feet.. they told us, he lived like a king back in India for 2 yrs, build a big spacious house, for his entire and related families, even employ several maids with the saving he made working for my in law..
I also remember too... these 2 workers had also brough along their other indians friends working here over the weekends offering FOC services just only asking for basic meals and drinks which my in-law provided them with soc they can save more..for their own in India. So given that kind of scenerio... I guess it really boils down to what do we really want to get out of this employment in SG...
My chinese colleague told me, its indeed expensive spending in SG initially. However, after some months, he said, its not that bad earning and spending here as compared to China.. which the cost index is much higher than SG.... no conversion of currency..Those were the days........I miss Singapore!!!!
On a serious note, it is very true that when you first move over, you will hit with tough time as everything is double the moolah - your savings was in RM and now spend in SGD. Depends on individual, normally it will take you like 3 months or more to get adjusted (someone told me they did it in 2 months). Well, for me it was like more than months cos I bought a lot of things.

The moment you have adjusted, well, well, well, SGD start flowing in like free beer (borrowing terms from drinking kaki). If you do not simply throw your SGD to partying, clubbing, unnecessary gadgets, etc., you can easily save 50% of your earning (case by case basis la). Food there are reasonably price, so it is not really a concern. The biggest concern is how comfortable do you choose to live/sleep/rest. You can live very near to MRT and pay a little bit ore. Or, you can choose to live in fully air-con room and pay more. Of course, the ultimate is staying in your own studio!

Well, I once dreamt of staying in my own studio there but can't afford to realise my dream.