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Serious Dear All : "I'm falling for my best friend.", Moral : Learn from my downfall

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post Oct 30 2006, 10:47 PM

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QUOTE(Invince_Z @ Oct 30 2006, 10:28 PM)
Owh..u way sure bcome million times ezier now.Do something that will touch her heart..then confess her.she sure got feeling towards u.Do it fast...or u'll regret it.

p/s: looks like my advice not really neded by u.But certain part still ned to be use even after u & her oledi couple

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You are my NO 1 SUPPORTER!! THANKS BROTHER... On the contrary, it's your advice and moral "push" gives me the boost that I needed. Thanks again, sincerely from me..
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post Oct 30 2006, 11:11 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Oct 30 2006, 10:47 PM)
You are my NO 1 SUPPORTER!! THANKS BROTHER... On the contrary, it's your advice and moral "push" gives me the boost that I needed. Thanks again, sincerely from me..
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No la rolleyes.gif ..just dun want u to bcome like me. laugh.gif

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post Oct 31 2006, 12:17 AM

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QUOTE(Invince_Z @ Oct 30 2006, 11:11 PM)
No la  rolleyes.gif ..just dun want u to bcome like me.  laugh.gif
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Noted. Anyway, I want to go slow and steady with her. I know her, she doesn't like things to be rushed. If we were meant to be together (hopefully wub.gif ) then it will be, eventually. Lets just hope that God gives me the right moment and hints on when/where/how to take the next step.
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post Oct 31 2006, 12:26 AM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Oct 31 2006, 12:17 AM)
Noted. Anyway, I want to go slow and steady with her. I know her, she doesn't like things to be rushed. If we were meant to be together (hopefully  wub.gif ) then it will be, eventually. Lets just hope that God gives me the right moment and hints on when/where/how to take the next step.
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also ask for theballstodosocourage...

patience,and waiting for the right moment is one thing,having the guts to do something when the chance presents itself is another!

dont chicken out when the signs are so obvious tongue.gif



did that a few times...regret grumble.gif laugh.gif

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post Oct 31 2006, 07:06 AM

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QUOTE(Mgsrulz @ Oct 31 2006, 12:26 AM)
also ask for theballstodosocourage...

patience,and waiting for the right moment is one thing,having the guts to do something when the chance presents itself is another!

dont chicken out when the signs are so obvious tongue.gif

did that a few times...regret  grumble.gif laugh.gif

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post Oct 31 2006, 11:36 AM

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good luck to u bro.. may the Force be with u..
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post Oct 31 2006, 02:38 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Oct 23 2006, 05:10 PM)
I have a friend (girl) that I'm really close with. Slowly, I started to have feelings for her. I can't deny it anymore. I gave her a portrait of her that I sketched myself as a present on her birthday recently. That clearly shows that it means something, right? Well hopefully she got the meaning. I know that she knows that I care for her, I always be there for her and I know she knows that I really, really like her. It's complicated as both of us seems to "ignore" it.

The problem is she is so beautiful and angelic while I'm just a plain average guy. I haven't express my feelings for her yet because I'm so afraid. I'm afraid that things won't be the same after I'll spill my heart out. Do you think that things would work for both us? Can beauty and (not beast though) average joe be one? What is the best way for me to express my love for her. For all these time, we have been the best of friends. We share the same interests, laugh at the same joke, all worked well...

I desperately need some guidance,

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once interesting fact that will motivate u:
walking on the street or city mall, you will find that 90% bf/husband who walking beside the pretty gals are in fact average joe or ugly or bald.

tips for u:
dont tell her you like her, at least until u impress her or create enough spark between u and her. enough meaning when she need u more than just a friend.
friend wast time togather, have hard time togather
couple find time togather and romantic time togather.
understand the difference is important
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post Oct 31 2006, 11:18 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Oct 31 2006, 12:17 AM)
Noted. Anyway, I want to go slow and steady with her. I know her, she doesn't like things to be rushed. If we were meant to be together (hopefully  wub.gif ) then it will be, eventually. Lets just hope that God gives me the right moment and hints on when/where/how to take the next step.
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Being not too rush is gud.Since she already give u some 'hint', y not take the chance?She might expecting u to understand what she wanna say.Its ok if u dun wan confess yet..but try to trigger her to confess it 1st.Male her feel comfortable to confess.Next time if she act like b4, support her..ask her what her wanna say.U should tell her that it is ok to say it...also, tell her that she shouldnt hasitate.Take her for a walk..lunch..dinner..treat her nicely.Make the situation romantic & comfortable.Here also u can tease her about what she wan to say.But make sure that ur teasing not making her mad..or pissed her of.If u w8 to long, she might think that u not as understanding as she think thus ur 'saham' goes down a bit.
If she still shy..then there is no other way.U hv to confess 1st.Look at her eyes & face at the moment.If she look shy or u can c that she calmer than b4 u ask her that what she wan to tell u.
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post Nov 1 2006, 12:20 PM

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Guys always want to rush rush rush... All the rush to the sex part and then tame down, sienz and byebye... This kind of things cannot be hurried, it needs to be nurtured so take your time because if you truly love her and spends the rest of your life with her, if that ever happens, you can have sex with her as long as your d**k can stand.
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QUOTE(Pennywise @ Nov 1 2006, 12:20 PM)
Guys always want to rush rush rush... All the rush to the sex part and then tame down, sienz and byebye... This kind of things cannot be hurried, it needs to be nurtured so take your time because if you truly love her and spends the rest of your life with her, if that ever happens, you can have sex with her as long as your d**k can stand.
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Honestly, I can only see her heart now. Her physical appearance comes second. I can swear to God on that. I LOVE her...
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Nov 1 2006, 03:00 PM)
Honestly, I can only see her heart now. Her physical appearance comes second. I can swear to God on that. I LOVE her...
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That's a good start. Not trying to put a damper on your spirit, but love's a lot more than just seeing her interact in public. Alot of it has to do with what you and her do in private (and I'm not talking sex). How you interact with each other when there is no one else around is where the love really counts. If you can live with THAT personality (the one when no one is looking), that's when you know you have love.

But you're off to a good start. Don't get me wrong, I'm not putting you down. To be able to put physical appearance second to attitude and "heart" is a big step to a successful relationship. Keep it up. thumbup.gif
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post Nov 2 2006, 04:50 AM

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Now depend on u.

Do it nicely.U got her.
Do it badly.U lost her.


I better stay away for awhile..just wan c how u handle it. icon_rolleyes.gif

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post Nov 2 2006, 09:32 AM

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well if she doesn't like you, at least she's still your goodfriend. to me, bestfriends will always be bestfriends..
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post Nov 2 2006, 09:43 AM

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Good things come to those who wait - dont rush.
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post Nov 2 2006, 03:03 PM

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QUOTE(Invince_Z @ Nov 2 2006, 04:50 AM)
Now depend on u.

Do it nicely.U got her.
Do it badly.U lost her.


I better stay away for awhile..just wan c how u handle it.  icon_rolleyes.gif
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Right now I'm still waiting for God to give me hints when is the right moment. I'll go with the flow and what my heart tells me...
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post Nov 3 2006, 12:33 PM

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Spoke to her just now. It seems the oddities between us have gone. She told me that she just broke up with her bf on the 5th Raya. He cheated on her. God I wish I could smack that s.o.a.b who treated her like thrash!!. I've always waited patiently for her, but for now I want to be her crying shoulder. I'va always been there for her, supporting her and hopefully, she will realize my love for her after this...
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Nov 3 2006, 12:33 PM)
Spoke to her just now. It seems the oddities between us have gone. She told me that she just broke up with her bf on the 5th Raya. He cheated on her. God I wish I could smack that s.o.a.b who treated her like thrash!!. I've always waited patiently for her, but for now I want to be her crying shoulder. I'va always been there for her, supporting her and hopefully, she will realize my love for her after this...
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Good news for u........
Now's the time to show how much you cared for her......lend her yr shoulder, help her 4get those bad memories, make her happy again
Usually the chances of success during these times are higher thumbup.gif
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catch girls during the times of loneliness?

haha. works on some though. smile.gif
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post Nov 3 2006, 03:51 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Nov 3 2006, 12:33 PM)
Spoke to her just now. It seems the oddities between us have gone. She told me that she just broke up with her bf on the 5th Raya. He cheated on her. God I wish I could smack that s.o.a.b who treated her like thrash!!. I've always waited patiently for her, but for now I want to be her crying shoulder. I'va always been there for her, supporting her and hopefully, she will realize my love for her after this...
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huh? she alredi got a BF? I tot she was single all the while? rclxub.gif
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post Nov 3 2006, 04:24 PM

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QUOTE(weiheng @ Nov 3 2006, 03:51 PM)
huh? she alredi got a BF? I tot she was single all the while?  rclxub.gif
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I thought I have mentioned it here but there was a double post that I made in the Kopitiam section before I moved it here at Cupid's Corner. My mistake, sorry..

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