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Serious Dear All : "I'm falling for my best friend.", Moral : Learn from my downfall

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Mgsrulz
post Oct 29 2006, 08:28 PM

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QUOTE(Flizzardo @ Oct 28 2006, 01:23 PM)
dont do it cause no way she would accept you

if u confess... you will lose a friend TRUST ME!

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i've done that before...didnt lose her as a friend,in fact became closer tongue.gif


nothing progressed,though.......yet,anyway.. icon_idea.gif

QUOTE(sE_vIxEn @ Oct 29 2006, 07:53 PM)
i agree with the part that good friends slowly evolve into couple. unlike some crappy arses who got attracted to you at first sight and 'wants your number'.
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the way you say it is as if it will happen sweat.gif

This post has been edited by Mgsrulz: Oct 29 2006, 08:50 PM
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post Oct 29 2006, 08:49 PM

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i was referring to SkyJumper.

sorry, should rephrase. blush.gif
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post Oct 29 2006, 10:46 PM

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QUOTE(Mgsrulz @ Oct 29 2006, 08:28 PM)
i've done that before...didnt lose her as a friend,in fact became closer tongue.gif
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well.. some girls will some girls won't... depends on her personality.... or.. also depends on how u confess and able to mend it after she says no...

anyway.. go and confess.. u only live once~
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post Oct 29 2006, 10:51 PM

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QUOTE(Alone @ Oct 29 2006, 10:46 PM)
well.. some girls will some girls won't... depends on her personality.... or.. also depends on how u confess and able to mend it after she says no...

anyway.. go and confess.. u only live once~

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thats what i was thinking when i confessed...

just f*ck it...if she accepts,great..
if not,life goes on.. smile.gif

hell,untill today im still trying.. laugh.gif

This post has been edited by Mgsrulz: Oct 29 2006, 10:54 PM
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post Oct 29 2006, 10:52 PM

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QUOTE(sE_vIxEn @ Oct 29 2006, 03:59 PM)
you really dun wish to bring your relationship to the next level?! i've been good friends with a guy for a loooooooooong time, and i sorta hope he'd bring up the topic first~ girl shy to request~ blush.gif
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go 4 it gurl
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post Oct 29 2006, 10:59 PM

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hey bro, i not willing to risk my friendship for this leh~ blush.gif
Mgsrulz
post Oct 29 2006, 11:03 PM

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^you scared he reject?
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post Oct 29 2006, 11:12 PM

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yes bro. so how?! 2 years jor... never parted before... sigh...
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post Oct 29 2006, 11:20 PM

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QUOTE(sE_vIxEn @ Oct 29 2006, 11:12 PM)
yes bro. so how?! 2 years jor... never parted before... sigh...
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if i were you,i wouldnt waste time,just blurt it out laugh.gif

if he accepts, rclxm9.gif

if not,just remain friends..-why is that so hard? it feels awkward? unsure.gif

but wait...where'd the TS go?im replying to someone else,pulak.. laugh.gif laugh.gif
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post Oct 29 2006, 11:27 PM

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i hope the TS won't mind, coz i similar problem with him too, lol, just that gender is other way round.

just blurt it out?! i've been giving out hints bigger than heaven liao, if he dun get it, fine~ sleep.gif

yes, it will be awkward after i blurt it out.
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post Oct 29 2006, 11:33 PM

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I wont mind. This thread I started as an open discussion one. I want to know your side of stories and maybe, I can get some insights and guidance from all of you. Keep on the good thoughts and discussion. May Lord be with us on this matter...
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QUOTE(sE_vIxEn @ Oct 29 2006, 11:27 PM)
i hope the TS won't mind, coz i similar problem with him too, lol, just that gender is other way round.
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QUOTE(sE_vIxEn @ Oct 29 2006, 11:27 PM)
just blurt it out?! i've been giving out hints bigger than heaven liao, if he dun get it, fine~ sleep.gif
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at least you're giving to a guy.. sleep.gif
i gave so many hints,but she never saw it doh.gif
where the heck is that woman's intuition when you need it? rclxub.gif

QUOTE(sE_vIxEn @ Oct 29 2006, 11:27 PM)
yes, it will be awkward after i blurt it out.
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uh..well,it was OK for me,confessed twice...
now "good friends" or atleast thats what she says biggrin.gif
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post Oct 29 2006, 11:41 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Oct 23 2006, 05:10 PM)
I have a friend (girl) that I'm really close with. Slowly, I started to have feelings for her. I can't deny it anymore. I gave her a portrait of her that I sketched myself as a present on her birthday recently. That clearly shows that it means something, right? Well hopefully she got the meaning. I know that she knows that I care for her, I always be there for her and I know she knows that I really, really like her. It's complicated as both of us seems to "ignore" it.

The problem is she is so beautiful and angelic while I'm just a plain average guy. I haven't express my feelings for her yet because I'm so afraid. I'm afraid that things won't be the same after I'll spill my heart out. Do you think that things would work for both us? Can beauty and (not beast though) average joe be one? What is the best way for me to express my love for her. For all these time, we have been the best of friends. We share the same interests, laugh at the same joke, all worked well...

I desperately need some guidance,

Thanks...
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GO FOR IT !!!!!! NEVER TRY NEVER KNOW ~

You try got 50% ~ either u success or ..........

u dun try ~ forever u there only ~ later ppl after her then u regret for whole life !

GANBATEH !!!!!!!

Love are start with a friend relationship ! icon_idea.gif

you have my full support !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! chung ah ~~~~~~

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post Oct 30 2006, 01:17 AM

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QUOTE(sE_vIxEn @ Oct 29 2006, 11:27 PM)
i hope the TS won't mind, coz i similar problem with him too, lol, just that gender is other way round.

just blurt it out?! i've been giving out hints bigger than heaven liao, if he dun get it, fine~ sleep.gif

yes, it will be awkward after i blurt it out.
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ohh ur tag written male
u sure u're female? tongue.gif
hehe just jk

anyways its normal these days for gals to blurt their feelings out
or u can try the 'doctor' method tongue.gif
doctor as in not those that wanna know wat sickness u have or anything like that
wat i meant is a physcology doctor(or professor, bah who cares tongue.gif)
basically listen to ur...whining, or rant or nag whistling.gif
just tell him that u like a guy
and that guy has all the criteria like him (attitude, hobbies etc)
if he still blur blur, just say that guy is him and hang up the phone ASAP tongue.gif
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post Oct 30 2006, 07:21 AM

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QUOTE(Cursed_Taufu @ Oct 30 2006, 01:17 AM)
ohh ur tag written male
u sure u're female?  tongue.gif
hehe just jk

anyways its normal these days for gals to blurt their feelings out
or u can try the 'doctor' method tongue.gif
doctor as in not those that wanna know wat sickness u have or anything like that
wat i meant is a physcology doctor(or professor, bah who cares tongue.gif)
basically listen to ur...whining, or rant or nag whistling.gif
just tell him that u like a guy
and that guy has all the criteria like him (attitude, hobbies etc)
if he still blur blur, just say that guy is him and hang up the phone ASAP tongue.gif
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I wish that girl friend of mine already has that feelings towards me. wub.gif sweat.gif
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Oct 30 2006, 07:21 AM)
I wish that girl friend of mine already has that feelings towards me.  wub.gif  sweat.gif
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Dear Evangelistica,

Chances are she already does [I'm very sure there is at least a little feeling and a little feeling is enough]. She's probably just waiting for you to ask or make you move. With a little planning and ALOT of guts, I'm sure things will work out fine. Use the phrase which I posted before this. laugh.gif
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post Oct 30 2006, 07:36 PM

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QUOTE(lvlaTr1X @ Oct 30 2006, 05:38 PM)
Dear Evangelistica,

Chances are she already does [I'm very sure there is at least a little feeling and a little feeling is enough]. She's probably just waiting for you to ask or make you move. With a little planning and ALOT of guts, I'm sure things will work out fine. Use the phrase which I posted before this.  laugh.gif
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Yup agreed. Better than keeping everything to yourself.
Let her know how u felt about her.....it's ok to be rejected, at least u tried n let her knew abt it. thumbup.gif
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I met her today after we dont see each other for a week ( for Raya). I dunno but something felt different between us. We both seems too shy to talk to each other. I greeted her in the morning (we work in the same office) and she replied a little. Then all the way to the afternoon, there's nothing. Both of us seems "very odd" towards each other. When I passed by, she called me and said that she wants to say something, I paused, and she said, "err... later". Time passed by. Then I passed by again and she called me again and said, " ada benda yang syahdu..." (there's something very touching..) but I just paused for a moment I said "uhh OK" and continue my way. (stupid of me!!!) .Then I passed by again and she called me again just to show her how to download an attachment from an email. Major odd moments between us. In the evening, by the time she start to leave the office, she said her bye's to me.

Seriously something very different is happening between us. Our whole day was completely odd. I'm looking forward for what's gonna happen tomorrow.

p/s: I didn't confess to her yet so that's not the cause for our wierd day. I guess maybe she finally knew my love for her even before I spill it out after she read my Raya sms for her. I said...

" Kad kucari tiada yang menepati,
Lalu sms kujadikan pengganti,
Buatmu teman yang amat kukasihi,
Semoga berbahagia di Lebaran ini"


Maybe though...

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Oct 30 2006, 10:21 PM
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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Oct 30 2006, 10:12 PM)
I met her today after we dont see each other for a week ( for Raya). I dunno but something felt different between us. We both seems too shy to talk to each other. I greeted her in the morning (we work in the same office) and she replied a little. Then all the way to the afternoon, there's nothing. Both of us seems "very odd" towards each other. When I passed by, she called me and said that she wants to say something, I paused, and she said, "err... later". Time passed by. Then I passed by again and she called me again and said, " ada benda yang syahdu..." (there's something very touching..) but I just paused for a moment I said "uhh OK" and continue my way. (stupid of me!!!) .Then I passed by again and she called me again just to show her how to download an attachment from an email. Major odd moments between us. In the evening, by the time she start to leave the office, she said her bye's to me.

Seriously something very different is happening between us. Our whole day was completely odd. I'm looking forward for what's gonna happen tomorrow.

p/s: I didn't confess to her yet so that's not the cause for our wierd day. I guess maybe she finally knew my love for her even before I spill it out after she read my Raya sms for her. I said...

" Kad kucari tiada yang menepati,
  Lalu sms kujadikan pengganti,
  Buatmu teman yang amat kukasihi,
  Semoga berbahagia di Lebaran ini"


Maybe though...
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Owh..u way sure bcome million times ezier now.Do something that will touch her heart..then confess her.she sure got feeling towards u.Do it fast...or u'll regret it.

p/s: looks like my advice not really neded by u.But certain part still ned to be use even after u & her oledi couple

GuD LuCK!!!

This post has been edited by Invince_Z: Oct 30 2006, 10:34 PM
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QUOTE(Mgsrulz @ Oct 29 2006, 11:33 PM)
laugh.gif
at least you're giving to a guy.. sleep.gif
i gave so many hints,but she never saw it doh.gif
where the heck is that woman's intuition when you need it? rclxub.gif
uh..well,it was OK for me,confessed twice...
now "good friends" or atleast thats what she says biggrin.gif
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we can turn it off at will. whistling.gif

QUOTE(Cursed_Taufu @ Oct 30 2006, 01:17 AM)
ohh ur tag written male
u sure u're female?  tongue.gif
hehe just jk

anyways its normal these days for gals to blurt their feelings out
or u can try the 'doctor' method tongue.gif
doctor as in not those that wanna know wat sickness u have or anything like that
wat i meant is a physcology doctor(or professor, bah who cares tongue.gif)
basically listen to ur...whining, or rant or nag whistling.gif
just tell him that u like a guy
and that guy has all the criteria like him (attitude, hobbies etc)
if he still blur blur, just say that guy is him and hang up the phone ASAP tongue.gif
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doctor?! i tell you, i tried, lol. i really tried. cry.gif but then, happy with things now too, believe it or not, friendships lasts longer than relationships. smile.gif

btw, male or female, i'm human. sleep.gif


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