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Serious Dear All : "I'm falling for my best friend.", Moral : Learn from my downfall

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evilhomura89
post Oct 23 2006, 08:19 PM

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Hi there,

I'm also having the same problem wif u, but I have already confessed. I did my confessing like this, I wondered wat u guyz think about - "Actually, I wan to let u know dat i like u. Dun worry, u dun hav to do anything, i just wan to let u know my feeling."

Well, I think I did my confession at the wrong time, it's quite near to our major exam. So, she replied me "Now is not the time for these, we must work hard for our exam, k?? Anyway, thx"

Again, I'm not quite sure whether I gave the correct answer - "Ya, dat's why I didn't wan u to do anything. In the meantime, let's continue b best fren, k?" She said ok......

Now, I really dunno wat should i do next other than concentrating in my exam.
evilhomura89
post Oct 25 2006, 08:02 PM

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QUOTE(Invince_Z @ Oct 23 2006, 09:26 PM)
Haha..datz bad lor. Dun say u love a gurl b4 she did.  shakehead.gif
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The problem is 98% of the gals won't take the 1st move......... whistling.gif
BTW, if u have the post up earlier maybe a week or 2, den I won't make the mistake......... doh.gif
evilhomura89
post Oct 27 2006, 09:57 PM

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QUOTE(Pennywise @ Oct 27 2006, 09:37 PM)
One more thing you guys have to learn is that nobody is an average joe ok? Everybody is unique and I am sure you are special in your own ways. If you look down upon yourself like that before anything even starts, someday you will have a mentality that you are not good enough for her. Eventually you back out, eventually both of you get hurt. Thoughts like this kills. If you go on like this, dont start anything to begin with. Live and die on your own.
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Ya agreed.
IF u alwiz thing negatively about yrself, it means u dun hav no confidence, and gals doesn't like guyz with no confidence.

Come on, give yr CONFIDENCE a BOOST.
Jz my 2 cents. laugh.gif
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post Oct 28 2006, 04:22 PM

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QUOTE(Flizzardo @ Oct 28 2006, 01:23 PM)
dont do it cause no way she would accept you

if u confess... you will lose a friend TRUST ME!
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well it really depends on wat type of gal yr best fren is.......
i hate those ppl who tries to destroy everything including dat friendship jz b'coz someone confessed to them

IMO, do it at the correct time rather than regret not doin so.....
Let her know instead of regreting it yr whole life.....who knows she might b the one for u
Even if u got rejected, nvm.

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post Oct 30 2006, 07:36 PM

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QUOTE(lvlaTr1X @ Oct 30 2006, 05:38 PM)
Dear Evangelistica,

Chances are she already does [I'm very sure there is at least a little feeling and a little feeling is enough]. She's probably just waiting for you to ask or make you move. With a little planning and ALOT of guts, I'm sure things will work out fine. Use the phrase which I posted before this.  laugh.gif
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Yup agreed. Better than keeping everything to yourself.
Let her know how u felt about her.....it's ok to be rejected, at least u tried n let her knew abt it. thumbup.gif
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post Nov 3 2006, 01:12 PM

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QUOTE(Evangelistica @ Nov 3 2006, 12:33 PM)
Spoke to her just now. It seems the oddities between us have gone. She told me that she just broke up with her bf on the 5th Raya. He cheated on her. God I wish I could smack that s.o.a.b who treated her like thrash!!. I've always waited patiently for her, but for now I want to be her crying shoulder. I'va always been there for her, supporting her and hopefully, she will realize my love for her after this...
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Good news for u........
Now's the time to show how much you cared for her......lend her yr shoulder, help her 4get those bad memories, make her happy again
Usually the chances of success during these times are higher thumbup.gif
evilhomura89
post Nov 6 2006, 10:20 AM

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Evangelistica,

How's thing goin??
Did u date her or did anyting fun 2gether wif her for the last weekend??
Or she's still sad over her bf??
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post Nov 15 2006, 05:26 PM

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QUOTE(Sensui @ Nov 15 2006, 01:15 PM)
i guess you're on the right track.

but try to confess sooner than later. If she rejects and it affects your friendship then....start avoiding her...maybe she will feel bad and come back to you after all that you have done...

if not...best just to forget and treat her the same as before your feelings for her started.
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I dun agree wif the bold part.
Nvr ever avoid her........u'll lose a precious friendship.........

 

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