Amen to that! If u were to fall now then I seriously dunno what to say. Love for a special person isn't everything. U got yr family, friends and God to love you. Always remember that and u'll be fine =)

I try to keep that in mind..

Despite being a girl, I'm afraid I will have to ask...

What IS the ladder theory?

He FELT from the LADDDER.....pooor lil f3ll3r.....

gals have 2 ladders (1 for friends, 1 for boyfriends) whereas guys only have 1(gals)......

This post has been edited by criple-08: Mar 5 2007, 11:01 AM

Got problem.. u want to blame to GOD.. got good thing happened, u think u deserved.. Human..

Btw, dude.. this is not any big f***ing problem. Get a grip.. n get a life.. Love isn't everything.

Well since I can count with 1 hand the good things that happened to me all my life, I guess.... hmmm people just wouldn't understand. Humans, right? Believe me, I say this and I say it again.. " My life sucks.."..Everytime I'm on the verge of triumph or happiness, it'll all turns to shit. I mean, I'm a good person with a big heart. I help people in need, regardless of who they are. I hate criminal scumbags. I avoid hurting people. I have always being nice to everyone. But it just seems that all my goodness being a good person leads to nothing. I'm cursed probably. Forgive me if I have completely lost faith in everything..

This post has been edited by Evangelistica: Mar 5 2007, 11:45 AM

Dude, have faith mate! Sometimes things work out for the better. If this girl didn't dump you, you might never meet your proper real soulmate. Trust me, there is someone better for you out there.

But before you do that, if I were you, I would definitely like to get some clarification on why she just ignored you all of the sudden. Did any of her friends talk to her or something about you (something you never told her before) reached her ears?

Nothing that I can think off. I've always being myself and 100% honest to her. That's why I've set on our first date, so I can express my feelings for her. I don't want to hide anything from her...

the goodness of being a good person is the happiness within. don't you feel happy or at least satisfied, that you've helped at least somebody?

It does feels good inside but once in a while, just once, I hope that nice thing will happen to me for a change..

dude.. instead of blaming other.. o GOD, u should look at your own behaviour/thinking.. If you are not happy on what's you doing and getting, something is wrong with you and it's not other!!!

You can't change the world unless you can change yourself first.... it's not about being nice or bad, it's just what do you really ones and you willing to pay de price o not.

Say WHAT? Dood, I've suffered from bipolar disorder for years now and it's totally wrecked my life in so many ways. But I've found strength through God and I'm improving so much. No matter what happens to me, I see the positive side in all the bad things that happen. I learn from mistakes. Sometimes I think "Why me?" But then I realise that I have a lot of good things to live for and there are people who are in a worse state than me.

I have been unlucky in love recently too. She really is the girl of my dreams. But she is with someone else at the moment. Do I blame God? Hell no. Don't think like that. I'm a good person with good intentions in life. But life keeps biting me in the ass. It's just nature's way of telling you there's some areas in your life that need improvement, that's all.

Don't give up, only losers give up. I have stumbled many times but it always gives me the incentive to pick myself up and do even better than before.

This post has been edited by de7ilznite: Mar 6 2007, 07:40 AM

I'm really sorry about your conditions. Really, I do. You are a fighter in life..

But, with all due respect, that what separates us both. Where you've seen hope, I saw despair. Where you've seen the light, I saw darkness. You still have your dedicated faith in Him, keep on going that road, brother. I've chosen mine.

Lets not turn this thread into a religious/non-religious thread shall we?

I'm Muslim, just like yourself.

The only difference between us is our mentality. Change that and you change everything. It's that simple. Find something that inspires you to improve your way of thinking.

The only real thing that seperates winners from the losers is their state of mind. A winner can fall also, but he will always try to get back up again.

Loser will fall and continue complaining about their fall

I'm really sorry to be blunt but I will tell you honestly as it is. Grow up. Life Happens. Everyone suffers...my family was shattered by the Highland towers...a 6 year old was left an orphan in a blink of an eye but he is now all grown up and studying in Melbourne Uni. Dude...just one rejection from a silly girl..and you have turned into a quivering mass of self pity? Stop wallowing in self pity man...

First thing to do is go out. Yep, go out with your friends, your family...relatives even..those who love and care for you. Why? When we are hurt, we are selfish, we think its just me that's suffering...going out with family and friends just remind us hey, we still have ppl we can count on. Heck if my 6 year old nephew whose family was wiped out can make it so can you.

Difference is while others choose to see the light you chose to see darkness and pity yourself. While others chose to put their faith in something you chose to punish yourself by engineering your own hopelessness.

I'm sorry that the truth is less melodramatic and yes for you it is a korean soap opera but I tell you from some one who has witness death (yes i've been to more funeral as a child then most ppl) your life is too precious to waste on pity.

The very fact you can still CHOOSE is the best part.

So wake up and choose love. Think of those who love and care for you. Heck, the very fact so many ppl here in Lowyat responded and care for you tells you that you are loved.

You are not alone and don't have to be.

This post has been edited by stefanong: Mar 6 2007, 02:10 PM

Well said mate. Wallowing in self pity gets you nowhere.

you chose the road.. it wasn't set up by god... ahhhh

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