I'm really sorry to be blunt but I will tell you honestly as it is. Grow up. Life Happens. Everyone suffers...my family was shattered by the Highland towers...a 6 year old was left an orphan in a blink of an eye but he is now all grown up and studying in Melbourne Uni. Dude...just one rejection from a silly girl..and you have turned into a quivering mass of self pity? Stop wallowing in self pity man...

First thing to do is go out. Yep, go out with your friends, your family...relatives even..those who love and care for you. Why? When we are hurt, we are selfish, we think its just me that's suffering...going out with family and friends just remind us hey, we still have ppl we can count on. Heck if my 6 year old nephew whose family was wiped out can make it so can you.

Difference is while others choose to see the light you chose to see darkness and pity yourself. While others chose to put their faith in something you chose to punish yourself by engineering your own hopelessness.

I'm sorry that the truth is less melodramatic and yes for you it is a korean soap opera but I tell you from some one who has witness death (yes i've been to more funeral as a child then most ppl) your life is too precious to waste on pity.

The very fact you can still CHOOSE is the best part.

So wake up and choose love. Think of those who love and care for you. Heck, the very fact so many ppl here in Lowyat responded and care for you tells you that you are loved.

You are not alone and don't have to be.

This post has been edited by stefanong: Mar 6 2007, 02:10 PM