Assalamualaikum my brothers,

I am new here and let me say that I am actually quite happy to find a thread where fellow muslim and non-muslim can learn and gain knowledge about Islam. I pray Allah protect us from false information and people who are trying to break our ummah.

I have a problem which is now quite critical in my case and I wish to seek advice to those who are willing to advice me on what I should do next.

Last year,I have done a lot of unforgivable sins and because of those sins, I have lost everything ,from friends to dropping out of college. As in right know , I am mentally broken and have been in critical depression and ran from my problems rather than facing them.

I haven't been in contact with anyone other than my family members and I've isolated myself from going outside. I am paranoid about everyone and this leads me  to not trust anyone anymore. I've also lost faith in anything and almost committed suicide early this year. I hated myself for far too long and am too scared to approach the truth. I've always asked myself... ' What am I living for if I myself have given up on myself'

Currently I am trying to improve myself a bit by helping my parents around the house rather than locking myself in my room. And also, I'm trying to learn more about Islam and how to be a better muslim but somehow my past and my sins pulls me back into giving up and losing hope.

P/s : Sorry if this more of a confession from me. It's been a problem that I've been bottling in me since I was in high school.Any advice will be appreciated.

Assalamualaikum my brothers,

I am new here and let me say that I am actually quite happy to find a thread where fellow muslim and non-muslim can learn and gain knowledge about Islam. I pray Allah protect us from false information and people who are trying to break our ummah.

I have a problem which is now quite critical in my case and I wish to seek advice to those who are willing to advice me on what I should do next.

Last year,I have done a lot of unforgivable sins and because of those sins, I have lost everything ,from friends to dropping out of college. As in right know , I am mentally broken and have been in critical depression and ran from my problems rather than facing them.

I haven't been in contact with anyone other than my family members and I've isolated myself from going outside. I am paranoid about everyone and this leads me  to not trust anyone anymore. I've also lost faith in anything and almost committed suicide early this year. I hated myself for far too long and am too scared to approach the truth. I've always asked myself... ' What am I living for if I myself have given up on myself'

Currently I am trying to improve myself a bit by helping my parents around the house rather than locking myself in my room. And also, I'm trying to learn more about Islam and how to be a better muslim but somehow my past and my sins pulls me back into giving up and losing hope.

P/s : Sorry if this more of a confession from me. It's been a problem that I've been bottling in me since I was in high school.Any advice will be appreciated.

Mufti Perlis, Datuk Dr Mohd Asri Zainul Abidin berkata tidak salah umat Islam tidak bersetuju atau menolak hukum hudud yang cuba dilaksanakan PAS di Kelantan, selepas Dewan Undangan Negeri (DUN) meluluskan pindaan enakmen sebulat suara tanpa bantahan.

Menurut Asri, walaupun umat Islam tidak boleh membantah asas hudud kerana ia merupakan hukum Allah, ‎mereka masih bebas mengutarakan cadangan, pandangan atau "ijtihad" lain.

"Walaupun kita tidak boleh membantah asas hudud dalam Islam, namun kita boleh berbeza pendapat, tidak bersetuju ataupun menolak pemilihan pandangan-pandangan sarjana dalam penetapan hukuman bagi sesuatu enakmen.


"Kita mungkin boleh mencadangkan pandangan yang lain dari ijtihad yang lain. Namun, proses itu semua hendaklah dalam suasana ilmiah dan menghormati hukum asas," kata Asri dalam satu kenyataan di laman blognya semalam.

Beliau berkata, umat Islam perlu mengetahui perincian undang-undang syariah itu kebanyakannya tidak wujud dalam Al-Quran mahupun Sunnah.

Tambahnya perincian mengenai hudud mungkin terdapat dalam beberapa nas (dalil) tetapi dari segi perbincangan hukum fekah, ia boleh diandaikan pelbagai tafsiran.

"Ini yang disebut sebagai zanniah al-dilalah (dalil yang boleh berikan lebih dari satu andaian).

"Maka, pendetilan kepada undang-undang hudud kebanyakannya adalah ijtihad ataupun kesimpulan pandangan hukum yang dirumuskan oleh sarjana muslim dari pelbagai latar," katanya.

Oleh kerana terdapat pelbagai tafsiran dalam nas tersebut, terdapat perbezaan dalam perincian hukum seperti kadar curian, ‎suasana undang-undang itu dilaksanakan dan sama ada taubat menggugurkan hukuman ataupun tidak, kata Asri.

‎Pada masa sama, beliau menegaskan pendiriannya menyokong hasrat Kelantan melaksanakan hudud tetapi mahu kerajaan PAS itu memberi ruang agar enakmen syariah itu dikaji semula pakar perundangan Islam di peringkat tempatan dan antarabangsa.

Katanya, tindakan  mengkaji semula enakmen tersebut adalah wajar agar kerajaan Kelantan tidak mengulangi kegagalan pelaksanaan hudud yang pernah berlaku di negara lain seperti di Libya, Sudan, Nigeria dan Pakistan.

‎"Yang akhir memberikan mesej salah bahawa syariat Islam itu tidak sesuai. Padahal yang tidak sesuai ialah pemilihan pandangan-pandangan ijtihad yang dibuat oleh mereka, katanya.

Asri berkata, Kelantan di bawah pentadbiran PAS harus mengelakkan gambaran hudud yang tidak kondusif dan seakan menggambarkan kekejaman undang-undang seperti berlaku di bawah pentadbiran Taliban dan kumpulan Negara Islam Iraq dan Syria (Isis).

"Umat Islam menyokong hasrat Kelantan. Dalam masa yang sama, ruang waktu untuk pandangan kesarjanaan di pelbagai peringkat hendaklah dibuka.

Selepas DUN Kelantan meluluskan pindaan hudud, seorang penyampai radio BFM, Aishah Tajuddin diugut bunuh dan rogol di media sosial kerana dituduh mempersendakan hukum Islam dalam sebuah klip video YouTube.

Aishah bagaimanapun berkata beliau tidak berniat mengkritik hudud, dan hanya mempersoalkan keutamaan kerajaan Kelantan ketika masalah pasca banjir di negeri itu masih belum selesai. – 24 Mac, 2015.

How many times you open Quran in a month? How long you read it everytime you open Quran? Do you guys read with translation?

Agak rare, usually when waiting for ceramah at surau, I'll read a page or two or just grab Al-Mathurat
I prefer to read with meaning.

Not daily but selalu. Got hantaran Qur'an with Eng translations by Pickthall, Dawood and Yusuf Ali.

Nice.
My translation also in English. I personally asked my wife to buy me English translated Al Quran as one of the hantaran.
Funny thing is their relatives was like "heeeyyy, kenapa beli yg bahasa omputihhhh" 

Tak kisah bahasa apa, yang penting kita faham.  In any case always use multiple translations rather than bergantung to a single one only. I did learn Arabic back in school but sadly never pay any intention much at that time. Rasa menyesal pulak. 

Ana masih ingat hua huma hum

Hiya huwa hunna

Khaifa halaq ?

Bukan ada sorang LYN forumer nama Khaifahalaq ke? Haha

Funny thing is their relatives was like "heeeyyy, kenapa beli yg bahasa omputihhhh" 

Tak kisah bahasa apa, yang penting kita faham.  In any case always use multiple translations rather than bergantung to a single one only. I did learn Arabic back in school but sadly never pay any intention much at that time. Rasa menyesal pulak.