Guys.. if you ask a girl to be your gf.. are u serious with it? will u just joke with her by saying this?

if he single, of coz not..

wat do u mean by "of coz not"? not serious? or not joking? yes, he's single.

ya...girls r more hurt than boys, i wonder why... so girls better dont approach guys but tip off them, wat i mean is give them tips

nowadays guys r serious with it coz guys n girls have equal rights today...guess wat i mean

well about being frens with ex,....i managed to be friends (we try not to be that close anymore incase an "accident" occurs but we are still aight) but yeah, it does change a lot once u two have broken up

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?
Yes,be friends msn?frenster?sms?go for drinks? yeah~

2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls NO i wont heheh.. if i hints him by some contacts..calls.. he still no further action or replies on call..then give up

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...
NO la.. confidence mah..

hey.. u like the person oh.. so easy u give up.. what if he did not get your hint leh... u just give up.. then no chance lor

I try not to because it will ruin everything

so u are willing to just be freind with him? what will u feel if you c him suddenly got a gf?

Yeah right... No courage ??? ahahaha
I'm sure a lot of guys will agree that girls can be very brave...when it comes to "I want this and I want that, DO this and DO tat" SOmetimes before solve one thing ady ask another 2 more and must finish on time before u get the nag session
I think the shy part is only in the beginning...after tat...the TERMS AND CONDITIONS & REQUIREMENTS page will scroll down...seems automatic after tat. Not being brave is easy coz u got one slave to do the stuff for u...

Erm...why so desperate wor ???
If u 2 are not meant to be, watever u can try, u'll never b...so dun keep ur hopes and dreams up to high...coz the way down can be very painful...keep a free gear, if it works then let it run, but if sprockets dun match the chains, dun make it fit...coz ur bicycle will look damn funny

my 2 sen...check the swimming pool first before u jump in...otherwise in mid air u found out tat the got water...but only 1 ft deep in a 9ft pool... I give 10/10 points for the landing...

I think need to find a right time, right place and right timing. If a girl saying that to me at wrong timing, wrong place sure will shock me first la, because never think of develop untill lover level (normal friend mah). Then will think about it seriously, if got feeling, can chat then will be slowly develop the relationship.

Experiance b4 la, she really shock me when listen the word come out from her mouth, and after that i keep escape la, hard to face her also, suddenly like....eee......dont know what to talk to her. but at that time i m very happy la^^ got girl like me le....she also good looking. no feel is no feel la, that depend on person..just my feel^^'

and what makes you think that it doesn't need alot of courage for a guy to confess? it works the same vice versa but malaysians just like to think, no its boy's job to go for a gal instead.....i mean we shud be responsible for our own happiness ma...not wait for it to come...how often do you see a guy and a girl in love with each other??? and how often you see them end up together...and how often you see it juz happen like that?? it always start with someone going for someone ma....but i really respect those girls who asked the guy if he would marry her... (watch princess diaries 2 where the queen proposed for the security head) and i was just like, wow that is so brave and respectfull.....you see, if she hadn't asked the guy for marriage, how would he know that she is ready to marry now?? same goes for couple la....if you like that guy, just tell him...or at least see how is that guy attitude 1st...

me rejecting them not because they confessed to me and i reject them....its simply because i was with my gf and would not want to cheat on her.....or i'm still in love with my ex-gf and dont want to be unfair to that girl who confessed to me....

I agree,if it happens at a wrong time,i'll reject.Same thing if i dont really know that person.It's really scary that a person comes to you and say "i love you".

This kind of incident happen to me once.There was one girl in my class called her friend to confess to me,not she herself.I dont really know that whole group of girls at all.So,i got freak out and start to avoid that group of girls.It was really scary.Till know i still dont know who is that person who tried to confess but i would say she's damn brave to do that.Honestly,i dont have the guts to do that.

no i enjoy being chase by gal when i was young. Some just propose to me and some give direct hints, but most got rejected. feel really sorry for them. now abit old di, seems like all gal of my age r already got bf or got married di. Now no more fun n have to start chasing gal liau. Really regret now

Ganbate man

1. do you dare to approach the guy that u like?
2. will you tell him that u like him and want to be friend with him? how? pls share and give me some ideas...

Dont direct tell him u like him, use some tactic like ask the guy hp no., go shopping or go pub (no disco-noisy). Call him frequentyly by a week, but next week dont call him. Let see what his re-action. I think u will more clear after this.

This is my present gf (obbbbbbbb wife already lah) used it, she use this tactic to me, after 2 or 3 weeks i can hold the icih mind then call her & tell her i hv a fell with her.

3. do you ever think that you are not suitable for the guy? i mean u look down on yourself, think that the guy is so great that you are not the right one for him...
No, never ever think that. U will find your value in future.

So, i can say dont stright away, hv to play some tactic 1st. Atleast u can fell whether his got fell with u or not.

lol... when i was form4, been approach by a form5 girl, she looks gd but i rejected coz i was chasing after a girl but didnt get her eventually & i feel regret for didnt accept the f5 girl... haha

ok....juz 2 say it 1st....dat im a super noob in dis relationship thingy...

erm...well theres alot of guys whu likes 2 play around....there r ppl whu r serious n wont toy wif other ppl's feelings(i belong 2 d latter:P) juz depends la...if it juz happen dat u fell for such guy....its hard la....so juz dun jump ship so fast.....take time 2 noe d person 1st la....if u get a playa...then u own self susah onli....

n i wanna shoot u TS wif a question back.....4 u gurls....does it make a difference if d guy is outgoin or introvert......does it matter when it comes to approaching him??? does their personality sorta makes it harder 2 approach?? or its all juz d approachee's guts???

does it make a difference 2 the gurl if d guy whus d approachee or its d gurl whu started it all 1st??

erm...i dun agree wif d idea of telling dat u like dat guy....it cant work i guess....makes things very very difficult....i did dat once....no turning back manz.....T.T...n drop hints is kinda nice n easy....but still sumtimes i think gurls r a lil 2 artistic n wat they consider obvious hints may not b noticed by d guy....(sum ppl got 6th sense / perasan sense.....but it sorta helps....better than being blurr)....

anyway its comforting 2 hear dat at least malaysian gurls (2 a certain extend will take d 1st move....) i tot those neva existed.....

and 1 more thing dear threadreaders.....i see afew ppl suggesting msn/ym/frenster/hp.....if these factors are taken out....n onli d human elements remain.....wat measures will u ppl take?? coz nowadays we sorta take d easy way around 4 granted....juz wanna ask ur fellow opinions.....

TQ

i do approach guys that i'm interested in, try to know them better.

but after some time, if the guy still doesn't make any move then i'd just let it be. cos a girl can only do THAT much