ok....juz 2 say it 1st....dat im a super noob in dis relationship thingy...

erm...well theres alot of guys whu likes 2 play around....there r ppl whu r serious n wont toy wif other ppl's feelings(i belong 2 d latter:P) juz depends la...if it juz happen dat u fell for such guy....its hard la....so juz dun jump ship so fast.....take time 2 noe d person 1st la....if u get a playa...then u own self susah onli....

n i wanna shoot u TS wif a question back.....4 u gurls....does it make a difference if d guy is outgoin or introvert......does it matter when it comes to approaching him??? does their personality sorta makes it harder 2 approach?? or its all juz d approachee's guts???

does it make a difference 2 the gurl if d guy whus d approachee or its d gurl whu started it all 1st??

erm...i dun agree wif d idea of telling dat u like dat guy....it cant work i guess....makes things very very difficult....i did dat once....no turning back manz.....T.T...n drop hints is kinda nice n easy....but still sumtimes i think gurls r a lil 2 artistic n wat they consider obvious hints may not b noticed by d guy....(sum ppl got 6th sense / perasan sense.....but it sorta helps....better than being blurr)....

anyway its comforting 2 hear dat at least malaysian gurls (2 a certain extend will take d 1st move....) i tot those neva existed.....

and 1 more thing dear threadreaders.....i see afew ppl suggesting msn/ym/frenster/hp.....if these factors are taken out....n onli d human elements remain.....wat measures will u ppl take?? coz nowadays we sorta take d easy way around 4 granted....juz wanna ask ur fellow opinions.....

TQ