ermm... for your questions,.,...actually i more like gals tell me she like me then i need to guess lo...if you really like just tell la...nothing to be shy about or anything...in my life, i have 3 really nice ladies who confessed to me....1 is my best friend, 1 is my fren's fren....and 1 is my gf's best friend's ....

i nv accepted any of them though....my best friend is because when she confessed to me, i like another girl that time, and even after i rejected her, we still remain as best friend and till now (she's married already...married early) we're still very good frens ^^ so nothing to worry about

My fren's fren....i just know her for not long...and she confessed and said that i treat her very good and no one in her life have treat her so good b4(i treat girls very good de normally but to me, those are already daily routines and i dont find actually that i treat any girl very good...just normal) but to me, maybe she is juz too (chong dong) impulsive and didn't think long enough....and that time i also have gf although we not like bf-gf also....but end up, the news spread and my gf took my phone and scolded her b****.....i called to apologize and told her its better for us not to meet in this short period, but now, we're still friends ^^

and lastly, this girl said that i treat my gf so good and she treat me like slave...(in chinese there's a saying saying i treat my gf like treasure but she treat me like grass) and said its not worth it for me to treat her like that....and confessed to me...i didn't accept her also....cause....my gf's best friend ma....and i'm a kinda loyal guy....so T_T

its good to confess to the guy though...cause i believe its hard to meet 2 way love in an early relationship...it often starts with 1 party who likes another party...then slowly, the opposite party will love another also ...^^

and what makes you think that it doesn't need alot of courage for a guy to confess? it works the same vice versa but malaysians just like to think, no its boy's job to go for a gal instead.....i mean we shud be responsible for our own happiness ma...not wait for it to come...how often do you see a guy and a girl in love with each other??? and how often you see them end up together...and how often you see it juz happen like that?? it always start with someone going for someone ma....but i really respect those girls who asked the guy if he would marry her... (watch princess diaries 2 where the queen proposed for the security head) and i was just like, wow that is so brave and respectfull.....you see, if she hadn't asked the guy for marriage, how would he know that she is ready to marry now?? same goes for couple la....if you like that guy, just tell him...or at least see how is that guy attitude 1st...

me rejecting them not because they confessed to me and i reject them....its simply because i was with my gf and would not want to cheat on her.....or i'm still in love with my ex-gf and dont want to be unfair to that girl who confessed to me....