I'm still alive..

Mandy kinda forgot about me

Well, I remember u.

If I may be so bold to say, you need a clean break. This friendship bit isn't going to work out here. She's the one that ended it right?

It is no longer your duty to be there for her anymore. You have a life of your own, move on.

I'm really confused.. So, I should move on and ignore her ? Or, what ? I'm really in dilemma.

dear jdreamer,

have u read my post before?
i know ur confused now.

Dont do anything
u dont have to think about this.Why? Because u cant think properly yet.
Cool down 1st.
U dont have to move on, or ignore her....at least not yet.

Now just take ur time.Ur own time. Without her. Without her sms, and without her on ur mind.

After ur cool...then u decide.

halo...need gal opinion in here

i already make a LDR with a gal tat live far from me...next week is gonna be her birthday and i already buy a

tabung and inside i fill with the rm1paper money and make them like love shape ..do u gal in here would like it? and i didnt tell she bout this present coz i wanna give she a suprise..

thanks for all bro&sis opinion in here

Yea, I read them.. alright....

So, what if she sms me...

the situation now for u and here is that u both not compeltely BROKE off yet. she still have that little feeling that she used to have and u have those too. It's aint gonna bring u both nowhere.
for the moment, take everything as fren

I'll try to take everything as friends..... I'll try.

P/s:areankim.. still remember that I bought the couple tee from u ?

u see...
when u sms her...she ignore....
coz she is confused oso....
at 1st she think it is ok to sms u....
but she now think thats a bad idea....hard to forget...she dont wanna be attached to you...

same la with u....dont sms her...she give sms....just dont reply....
say ur bz or samting....or just off ur fon

Actually, this afternoon, she smsed me.. telling me about her test, having her lunch, feeling sleepy etc. I replied and then no more replies from her..

dont be a wuss (sorry)

she uses u when she wants...and leave u when she dont want....

she is also having dilemmas i think...samtimes she think it is ok to send sms....but sometimes she think not ok....

after this u don reply.

maybe u reply make her dont wanna reply back? what did u write?

She told me that she's very sianz because she made some mistakes in her test, and having lunch but quite sleepy. I replied.. "Its okie, its already in the past". Like that only....

ok...

after this...my advice is...just dont reply her sms.....
or reply after a few hours...or the next day.....(if u want to reply)

i dont know about other people....
but this is my opinion.....And i really think this is the best for now.

what do other guys think?

ok,but i want to noe more eg of memorable stuffs.......................

That's so sweet of you. She will surely be happy and surprised! Gal like something that is meaningful and can keep for a long time

You did the right thing. That's the kind of message that a friend will send to a friend. Continue to cool off for a while. Perhaps she still sms you coz she's still attached to you. She might not get used to telling her things to other ppl. So you just continue to be a listener, but not more than that. Don't put your hope too high though.. just be there as her best friend.

Alright, thanks. Yea, I'll continue to do my best as a friend. I'm not putting any hope there anymore actually. I realised one thing, even if there's one day that she's turning back to me. The trust wont be that firm anymore, I might be suspicious and sensitive, plus will be easily jealous when she goes out with the guys because of this incident.

jdreamer,
what quiksilver says is true. give sometime to yourself. try not to contact and reply so fast to her. actually, in my point of view, it's better that both of you dont contact each other so much in the mean time and try not to be so close in the mean time. try to go on with your usual life, without her. try not to be emotionally dependent on her or your relationship. after both of you really have recover, then be close friend.

the reason why i adviced not to be so close now is because both of you guys are confused and used to be in love. if you guys stay close in such a period time after breaking up, confusion might occur and complication follows. i'm afraid that you might subconsciously put in high hope in the relationship. i hope you do get what i mean. all the best, yeah.

hahaha... actually, you should think of the memorable stuffs yourself. then only it will be memorable. all we can do is just giving suggestion here. the final decision still yours mah... we've given many ideas leh... as for chocolate, maybe try ferrero rocher and make it into a flower bouquet.

So, if she sms me, I'll just reply like a normal friend does right ? Hmm.. I'll try my best, really.