jdreamer, if you wanna sms her and ask, go ahead.
I'll be here

Yea, waiting for reply.... Thanks.

Girls can be selfish sometimes.. I know that coz sometimes I feel myself being selfish too. But, just cannot control it.

I dont mind if she just taking this to vent her anger or anything. As long as she comes back to me, we can start all over...

Maybe she got tired about the distance. If you could convince her again, you guys will have a chance to start over. Be confident in yourself, k?

I dont know... and she's not replying.....

"He is really cute and nice to us... feel really relax when Im with him" is what she replied.

Perhaps she didn't want to talk about it since she hang up on you also just now. Just let it cool off for the weekend, you guys need a time off to think. No phone calls, no sms, no MSN, until Monday. Can you do that?

Just let it cool off for a day... ok?

She will has her exam in two weeks time. I think I'll wait until her holiday. But what Im afraid is.. by the time I look for her, she might already be with that guy.

Even if she did choose the guy - she told you this already when you guys break, there's nothing you can do. You can't force love right? If you really love her, let her go. There's no point holding on her body if her heart is not there, if like this, you're hurting yourself and hurting her. It's better that one person bear the pain to see the other person happy.

Now what you guys need is a time off, silent time between you both. She is used to your calls and sms. Perhaps if you lay low for a while, she might automatically sms you and ask you how are you doing.

I dont think that she's going to find me if I dont find her. I know that I cant force love... but I have a feeling that she hasnt really forgets me yet. I really wish that she can think it over.....

Should I reply her sms just now ?

This post has been edited by jdreamer: Sep 16 2006, 02:30 PM

Just tell her honestly how you feel. Let her know what you're thinking now. Let her know what you wrote here - hope that she can think it over. Let her know that you will give her time to think it over.

"I'll just let u know honestly that no matter what, I'll still be waiting for u. I dont mind how long that u gonna take to think it over but I'll still be here."

I sent that..

Good luck We will pray for you.

Thanks...........

I'll still hang around here, looking at this thread from time to time. Feel free to write anything if you wanna express your feeling

Okie...... thanks, really.

what u sed there has more cons than pro my man....

when u say that u will be there waiting for her....she will be more brave....
what do i mean?

well, i mean, she will take u for granted. She will try with other guys 1st. If with the other guys dont work-out, then, only then she will come back to you.Why? coz u will be waiting there for her. She will take u for granted.
Do u want to take the risk of her trying other guys 1st? She might never come back u know.

Dont get me wrong, i know she is a nice girl, wont do that to u, blablabla.
But the fact is, she left u. And if u say that u will be waiting for her, u will become the spare tyre.

It is not wrong with wanting to wait for her forever....but keep that to urself...
once u tell her....hard to take it back...
She is only human...

Im saying this thru experience....a lot of them...
Dont be like me...

I really dont know.......... Im struggling between giving up or waiting. I really dont know.