...::: Long Distance Relationship Version 2:::...., The Fellowship of LDR
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 Sep 15 2006, 06:25 PM
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oi! is this still about LDR??????????????? or your personal SDR?
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Sep 15 2006, 06:27 PM
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I guess I better move away from this thread then, since Im no longer in one.
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Sep 15 2006, 06:31 PM
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QUOTE(miyoko @ Sep 15 2006, 04:49 PM) my mind couldnt think now. i dont know whether my decision is correct or not. i dunno whether i've said it due to anger or what. i guess i need time to think about it. just few week neva talk to u...u beome like this oledi. Aih..yeah, i totally understand what you said. after becoming a couple, i eventually become dependent on him while he is still being himself, not dependent on me. this is where i'm lagging behind. i'm so "fan" now.   |
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Sep 15 2006, 07:02 PM
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QUOTE(unknown warrior @ Sep 15 2006, 06:25 PM) oi! is this still about LDR??????????????? or your personal SDR? What do you mean?QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 15 2006, 06:27 PM) I guess I better move away from this thread then, since Im no longer in one. Its okay la..No nid to move from anywhere also.This is a sub forum of kopitiam and you can post freely.Always remember this,"A girl who leaves a man which only has her in his heart is the biggest loser."Move on k.. |
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Sep 16 2006, 12:15 PM
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I realised that I cant really move on. I called her just now, and she was having her lunch. And I said I'll call her back later and she agreed. I really want her back, seriously, I still love her very much. Can anyone helps me ?
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Sep 16 2006, 12:45 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 16 2006, 12:15 PM) I realised that I cant really move on. I called her just now, and she was having her lunch. And I said I'll call her back later and she agreed. I really want her back, seriously, I still love her very much. Can anyone helps me ? I doubt anyone can help you except yourself. Let face the truth, either you follow her to her country or she come back for u...which might be impossible.My solution when I face this problem is step backward, become friend again 1st...u will feel more release as time pass by. |
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Sep 16 2006, 01:32 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 16 2006, 12:15 PM) I realised that I cant really move on. I called her just now, and she was having her lunch. And I said I'll call her back later and she agreed. I really want her back, seriously, I still love her very much. Can anyone helps me ? I know exacly what you will do and happen..You'll continue to call and sms her till she wont like it and will say you are disturbing.I cant tell you what to do but if i were in your case,i'll give her a long sms saying bout stuff last time and telling how much i love her and stuff.And dun forget to say the world is round.If you can forget me,so do other guys can forget you. |
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Sep 16 2006, 01:35 PM
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Just ended the call..... I told her about my feeling and she said that she doesnt wants to hear or talk about these anymore. And then, she hangs it. I really dont know what to do.....
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Sep 16 2006, 01:39 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 16 2006, 01:35 PM) Just ended the call..... I told her about my feeling and she said that she doesnt wants to hear or talk about these anymore. And then, she hangs it. I really dont know what to do..... Ask her what you did that made her angry or what?By now,if i were you,i'd be feeling angry but still sad.Ask her whether she really dont have feeling anymore for you and really like the guy.Im following this and i'll try to reply asap.This post has been edited by max_cjs0101: Sep 16 2006, 01:40 PM |
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Sep 16 2006, 01:41 PM
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I asked her just now whether its because of the distance, she said no but its because she has changed. I still havent get the reason why she decided to give up on me..
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Sep 16 2006, 01:46 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 16 2006, 01:41 PM) I asked her just now whether its because of the distance, she said no but its because she has changed. I still havent get the reason why she decided to give up on me.. Just message and ask more..Tell her,let's clear everything up without unanswered questions.. |
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Sep 16 2006, 01:48 PM
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I guess.. I'll call her again, and ask for a clear explanation.
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Sep 16 2006, 01:51 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 16 2006, 01:48 PM) I guess.. I'll call her again, and ask for a clear explanation. Ya..go on..before she suddenly hangs up,straight tell her,let's clear and explain everything before we go different ways.Or maybe meet up with her to talk(i suggest not to coz you'll end up crying and begging) trust me. |
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Sep 16 2006, 02:02 PM
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Okie... just ended the call. I asked why.. and she said that she thinks that guy is better than me although he's not her bf or anything now. She hope that I can move on and stand up soon. Asked me to study hard etc...
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Sep 16 2006, 02:05 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 16 2006, 02:02 PM) Okie... just ended the call. I asked why.. and she said that she thinks that guy is better than me although he's not her bf or anything now. She hope that I can move on and stand up soon. Asked me to study hard etc... Oh..better than you huh?So,the question is how are you feeling at the moment? |
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Sep 16 2006, 02:07 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 16 2006, 02:02 PM) Okie... just ended the call. I asked why.. and she said that she thinks that guy is better than me although he's not her bf or anything now. She hope that I can move on and stand up soon. Asked me to study hard etc... Perhaps she just need someone closer to her, it doesn't matter whether a bf or a friend. She need someone to accompany her and fill her loneliness, and she hope for you to do the same. That's why she used those words, to hurt you so that you will leave her and do what you want to do to have a good future. |
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Sep 16 2006, 02:07 PM
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Im really sad... I cried during the call, but I didnt let her know that I cried... I wanted to know in what ways he is better..... but I scare that it will hurts me, but I really wish to know...... Should I sms and ask.. ?
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Sep 16 2006, 02:08 PM
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QUOTE(suiteng @ Sep 16 2006, 02:07 PM) Perhaps she just need someone closer to her, it doesn't matter whether a bf or a friend. She need someone to accompany her and fill her loneliness, and she hope for you to do the same. That's why she used those words, to hurt you so that you will leave her and do what you want to do to have a good future. But that's plain selfishness and the person who will lose the most will be her. |
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Sep 16 2006, 02:09 PM
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QUOTE(jdreamer @ Sep 16 2006, 02:07 PM) Im really sad... I cried during the call, but I didnt let her know that I cried... I wanted to know in what ways he is better..... but I scare that it will hurts me, but I really wish to know...... Should I sms and ask.. ? Ask of course.I know your heart cant stand anymore and wants to seek info and many stuff.You are confused and lonely now.Seek clarification..I'll be offline from now..Can somebody guide him for the moment being?I'll be online at midnight i think. This post has been edited by max_cjs0101: Sep 16 2006, 02:12 PM |
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Sep 16 2006, 02:12 PM
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I just smsed her... about that.
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